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Can we understand the opposite gender?
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Posted 9/20/12
A stereotype is just that. I've met those of the opposite gender that are far more heartless and nasty than me. It's all down to individuality. Talking to everyone in the same light means they are treated equally, I wouldn't be too nice (As many people actually find it insulting) or make snide comments to a woman; I'd just be myself as usual, nothing else to it.
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Jessie_luvs_dylan wrote:

how come girls a always sooo emotional... and guys.....how are they always non-luv able...well most of the time.


Women are self absorbed as a whole and trapped in their emotions and own little world in general.

Men are arrogant as a whole and are trapped in their own ego, (this is slighly worse) they will literally not like movies because they are "gay"

I don't think two people who are in their stereotypical cages can ever click properly so the key is to view the world from a different perspective I guess..
Posted 9/20/12

Acer2110 wrote:

Emotions are for the weak. No but seriousely when I was like 3 or 4 I remember always hearing that boys didn't cry and boys didn't share their feelings. Maybe alot of other guys have heard this and thats why they aren't "luv able". As for girls saying one thing and meaning another. Well, they say what they mean but its always hidden in there and you have to sift through-out the words to find it.

But in the end no two people are the same so there is probably lv able guys and terrible girls.


Emotions are for the weaks? I think it depend on what emotions you are talking about. Love/jealously/hate/calm etc can be some type of emotions also.
Some people are just good at expressing themselves like showing their emotion and say what really in their mind, to me those type of people are strong instead of weak.
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1201987 wrote:

umm...men and women are the same species (human) lol. Sometimes a man can act differently than other men, and a woman can act differently than other women. The only difference is the gender. But we are the same type of species which is human.



Perhaps she meant this. ;)

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Posted 9/21/12

1201987 wrote:


VanillePink wrote:

Of course ppl are all different...
BUT~!
Still men and women are 2 different species, we think, act and react differently.
It just takes time and experience to be able to live happily together : ]


umm...men and women are the same species (human) lol. Sometimes a man can act differently than other men, and a woman can act differently than other women. The only difference is the gender. But we are the same type of species which is human.




You didnt get it....
Posted 9/21/12
I can't even reply to such a poorly written question.
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I have come here because i wanted a good laugh, and to be honest...i got a FANTASTIC LAUGH from all the many different comments made, the only thing left to say "If you've already read all the comments like i have" is that everyone is different, no two people are the same because we are defined by our memories and experiences, it can be society, parental views, or our own experiences that define us.

But in the end i believe that with the will and the time people can learn to get along, admitted not perfectly but on a level that is kind and understanding.
I am a man and i most definitely like to be strong and cool, but i am not scared to tell someone how i feel or offer advice/help if i know some. It is not emotions that make one weak or strong it is how one uses said emotions that defines that aspect of a person.

I personally enjoy biking and working out, but i like mental and physical highs, when you exercise a lot your brain produces certain Endorphins that can make you feel absolutely amazing! I also enjoy tasting new foods, and having my limits tested. I enjoy cooking, reading, styling my hair, music, dancing and a lot of other random stuff. I try to do things because i might enjoy them, not because they are either manly or girly.

All in all it is up to you to decide who you are, but we are all defined by memories and experiences.
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Posted 9/21/12
not even einstein could come up with a formula to describe everything about the opposite gender. in fact, I am pretty sure he he died on his deathbed still writing down possible ideas.
Posted 9/22/12

lordcanti666 wrote:

not even einstein could come up with a formula to describe everything about the opposite gender. in fact, I am pretty sure he he died on his deathbed still writing down possible ideas.


He wrote one similar. Humanity's stupidity is equal or bigger than the universe.
Posted 9/22/12

Jessie_luvs_dylan wrote:

how come girls a always sooo emotional... and guys.....how are they always non-luv able...well most of the time.


You wanna know how to understand the opposite gender? Simple.. Stop being sexist and open up with them.. befriend them
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