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o.o just noticed some people just seem to think i'm odd and i don't know what to do ....i was in a chat room today on another site called whirled and two people said i was weird when i was just being myself and i seem to get that everytime i be myself.

...... i think its because people are weirded out that i find it hard to make any good friends..any tips?
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It's because of your autism.
Honestly. As you get older your social skills should get better and people wont find you as weird. You seem like you're maybe a few years behind me. I see a lot of the way I used to act in you. People used to think I was super weird.
Just have patience until then.
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ZavinRoyalheart wrote:

It's because of your autism.
Honestly. As you get older your social skills should get better and people wont find you as weird. You seem like you're maybe a few years behind me. I see a lot of the way I used to act in you. People used to think I was super weird.
Just have patience until then.


makes sense i just hate being judged negatively. :c
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Embrace your weirdness! Whatever it is that makes you stand out is something unique and interesting about you, it would be boring if everyone was the same.

People with a generic personality often don't understand those who think differently to them and will call them weird or say they're odd, but it is not a bad thing to be different at all. You will end up meeting better people even if there are less of them than most people would have because they will understand and appreciate you as a person.
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Depending on practice talking to others becomes how weird you appear to others.

Lots of practice talking to people = less weird.
No practice = weird.

Age doesn't play any part specially if you follow the NEET/locked in your room 24/7 lifestyle. With no practice you will always be weird to other people. Less likely to have any manners as well asking inappropriate questions.
"Hey you aren't paying attention to me spams buttons until you do." "Hey wont people talk to me ?"

I was always told to talk to new people mainly checkout workers in supermarkets so if I stuffed up who cares? type deal. I still did as I generally saw the exact same ones over and over.

Any chance of a example of this weirdness?

If two people in a chat room where talking about something. Did you go oh you know what is good? *10 lines of unrelated topics* then expect people to get confirmation of it. When that didn't happen try doing the same type of thing again? When I was a chat room mod I saw lots of that.

It all depends on what and how the weird is shown. Yes if people where always the same then the world would be boring. But some aspects of weirdness will go on for many years if you don't work them out. Even uniqueness wont save you.
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Posted 7/14/16

penguincat wrote:

Depending on practice talking to others becomes how weird you appear to others.

Lots of practice talking to people = less weird.
No practice = weird.

Age doesn't play any part specially if you follow the NEET/locked in your room 24/7 lifestyle. With no practice you will always be weird to other people. Less likely to have any manners as well asking inappropriate questions.
"Hey you aren't paying attention to me spams buttons until you do." "Hey wont people talk to me ?"

I was always told to talk to new people mainly checkout workers in supermarkets so if I stuffed up who cares? type deal. I still did as I generally saw the exact same ones over and over.

Any chance of a example of this weirdness?

If two people in a chat room where talking about something. Did you go oh you know what is good? *10 lines of unrelated topics* then expect people to get confirmation of it. When that didn't happen try doing the same type of thing again? When I was a chat room mod I saw lots of that.

It all depends on what and how the weird is shown. Yes if people where always the same then the world would be boring. But some aspects of weirdness will go on for many years if you don't work them out. Even uniqueness wont save you.


I didn't mean get older literally. I was talking about experience. I suck at words. Words am bad. Me am have autism.
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ZavinRoyalheart wrote:

I didn't mean get older literally. I was talking about experience. I suck at words. Words am bad. Me am have autism.


*pats* I am the same always putting in the wrong terminology. Or leaving it out entirely it's why I have no courage in talking to others. So don't worry.

(It's why I always end what I type with a in a attempt to show I'm not trying to pick on anyone)

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Should've killed them
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Velvet_Crowe wrote:

Should've killed them


I like how you think
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Most people probably think we're all weird for being into anime. Honestly, who cares what other people think. Just be yourself.
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I take weird as a compliment, but that's just how I roll.
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You are weird. So what? Better than being boring.
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Everyone is a little weird.
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I still say that you should just kill them
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