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I've got quite a few I can talk to, but I prefer to deal with my problems by myself.
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-Dattebayo wrote:

Not really. I feel like they don't really care. And if they do, I feel like a bother. Who wants to listen to someone's negativity? Especially someone like me who's so bitter and pessimistic all the time. I wouldn't listen to me. I don't blame them.

Even with a normal conversation, I almost never message first. People may think that I hate them or something. But really I just hate to be a bother, and I feel like maybe I talk too much and they'd get tired of me. I feel like I need their permission to be talkative, because I'm REALLY talkative and outgoing, and even loud.

that might have been out of topic, oops... I ramble too much...

wait. YOU SEE WHAT I MEAN?!


That's a lie <.< you have me but you just refuse to use me

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Posted 7/17/16
Nope my problems are my own and I keep them that way
Posted 7/17/16
Yeah, a few people.
Posted 7/19/16
I prefer not to tell people about my problems.
Posted 7/19/16
therapy.
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I have two close friends that I can talk to about anything
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Posted 7/20/16
not anymore. I use to but then they'd either diminish or brush off my problems as "nothing" or suddenly equate it to a"problem" they're having thus making the conversation about them.
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A handful. But rarely do I disturb them. I can handle it myself.
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Yes, couple of friends and $1.
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my girlfriend and counsler are the two people i can be truely me.
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Posted 7/20/16
Not at all, at least not anymore. Not that I care anyway.
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Posted 7/20/16

-Dattebayo wrote:

Not really. I feel like they don't really care. And if they do, I feel like a bother. Who wants to listen to someone's negativity? Especially someone like me who's so bitter and pessimistic all the time. I wouldn't listen to me. I don't blame them.

Even with a normal conversation, I almost never message first. People may think that I hate them or something. But really I just hate to be a bother, and I feel like maybe I talk too much and they'd get tired of me. I feel like I need their permission to be talkative, because I'm REALLY talkative and outgoing, and even loud.

that might have been out of topic, oops... I ramble too much...

wait. YOU SEE WHAT I MEAN?!


Literally me. I have people who say I can talk to them, but if I ever try I feel like they don't care or don't know what to say to me so it doesn't really help. I never start conversations either because I don't really have the confidence but because I'm quite well spoken and will engage in debates people often mistake it for arrogance and don't want to talk to me. My problem is that I'm really confident speaking to a large audience, but a small one terrifies me.

I am always here though if anyone does ever want to talk, sometimes it's easier to talk to a stranger and I will always reply and help if I can.
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EichiXIII wrote:

In the past I have talked about my problems with people but I just don't care to anymore. I always feel like such a pest because my problems never change and I can never bring myself to do anything about them. I have even gone so far as to remove all friends from my life.


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Posted 7/20/16
I have. I don't often talk about my problems though. I deal with it on my own. Only when I can't take it anymore will I confide in my friends. But if they ask if I'm okay, I don't hide my problems if I have. I tell them when they ask.
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