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Posted 7/25/16

Lalataku wrote:

I would be straight up and truthfull, but make sure you dont leave them hanging if they are upset about it.


^This!
Tell the truth, and let them know they will be alright as well. Just because you don't feel the same way, doesn't mean you need to be an ass.
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sundin13 wrote:

Just tell them. The worst thing you can do to a person is to not give them a clear answer.


^

Be honest, worst thing you can do is leave them with delusions in their mind. Make it clear.
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Just tell them
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why beat around the bush, just tell them up front.
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Posted 7/25/16
"No."



Not complicated.
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A polite and respectful no would be my answer, if I don't feel anything for her then saying yes could only lead me to hurt her feelings later, best to just get it over with, a straight answer is better than risking hurting her feelings
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Honestly I'd try my best to let them down easy, so we could still hopefully be friends. I could never just be someone who could just flat out say no without being kind about it.
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Unleash the Joestar Family secret technique
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Posted 7/25/16

PrinceJudar wrote:

"No."



Not complicated.


As someone with a Ph.D in Rejection, this is the best option.
Posted 7/25/16
If they're the opposite sex, say you're gay. If they're the same sex, say you're straight.

If they're your close friend, then move to another country/state.
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Posted 7/25/16
Just say "I don't feel the same way towards you"

If they get pissy fuck them. Otherwise they might be disappointed but at least they know where they stand and how you feel.
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Posted 7/25/16

dreamy- wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


L7D wrote:

I would be very direct truth needs be said.


Holy shit this man gets it!


B-But I said the same thing too, friend I want your approval too!


I approve you get it also!
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How we know that you are just polling for an answer to a real life situation?
Posted 7/25/16

Ryulightorb wrote:


dreamy- wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


L7D wrote:

I would be very direct truth needs be said.


Holy shit this man gets it!


B-But I said the same thing too, friend I want your approval too!


I approve you get it also!


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Posted 7/25/16
I've had to plenty in the past. I just say I don't feel the same. If they want to have a fit about it they can, if they don't then that's great!
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