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Post Reply Throw some ideas on how to turn someone down!!
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Posted 7/25/16
I'd be honest.
Posted 7/25/16 , edited 7/25/16
"I appreciate your affection, but I don't feel the same way. Sorry."

No need to give an explanation.
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ItsMai wrote:

"I appreciate your affection, but I don't feel the same way. Sorry."

No need to give an explanation.


Now that be most clean cut way i have seen to turn someone down.O.O

You have my respect.
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"You love me? Well I don't love you."
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"uh sure, is you mom included in the deal?"
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"Sorry, I have a penis." Works most of the time.
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Nalaniel wrote:
"Sorry, I have a penis." Works most of the time.
most?
"sorry but I got a hot rod... and its not hot for you though"


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Posted 7/26/16

ItsMai wrote:

"I appreciate your affection, but I don't feel the same way. Sorry."

No need to give an explanation.


^^By far the cleanest way of going about it.
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Freddy96NO wrote:



Nalaniel wrote:
"Sorry, I have a penis." Works most of the time.
most?
"sorry but I got a hot rod... and its not hot for you though"




I'll be using that one if the person happens to be stubborn and persistent.
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Nalaniel wrote:
I'll be using that one if the person happens to be stubborn and persistent.
even for me?
My rod is so hot it can melt steel beams
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Posted 7/26/16

Freddy96NO wrote:

even for me?
My rod is so hot it can melt steel beams


After reading your reply... Yes, even for you.
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Posted 7/26/16
No, thanks.
I might give a reason, I might not.
The answer is the same.
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Posted 7/26/16
I'd say, I'm flattered but I can't reciprocate, sorry.
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Posted 7/26/16
I don't feel the same way as you.

Why give long explanations when in the end he/she is gonna end up crying or having the same reaction as if you would've said it straight
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1stladyent wrote:

Say someone has told you they loved you, or had feelings for you, or whatever affectionate or amorous reason, but you can't reciprocate.

Would you give them a simple or complicated explanation? Would you give them an explanation at all? Would you be a complete ass about it, or find some gentle way to kill the idea?

OR, do you just ignore or avoid the situation(s) altogether?




I wrote him a letter saying that I didn't like him that way. To avoid any embarrassment from my and his part. He never contacted me again.

I think there is no gentle way because the truth hurts but ignoring/avoiding the situation is just another way of being an ass. Just tell them the truth and if you're a coward like me, write them a letter.
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