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Posted 8/9/16


It's a strange feeling. When I'm in a room with a lot of people socializing I tend to go off in my own little world.
Then, when I'm with a close friend I have a habit of getting extremely agitated with their presence. This doesn't happen often but when I'm drained from socializing I get this way every time.

If I have a boyfriend then I'm more apt to talk to them on a daily basis. I guess love trumps all.
Posted 8/9/16 , edited 8/9/16
Yes. I had classmates who liked hanging out at my apartment. They frequented so much that I wanted to literally kick them out of the apartment (or somehow grab them and toss them outisde the window). Introverts like me need to replenish lost energy alone and my apartment is my sanctuary. But if the person is family/ a very close friend/ someone I hold dear, I don't mind draining all my energy.

As for relationships, I think that if you really like the person those things won't matter so much.
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Posted 8/9/16

drozy wrote:
I guess love trumps all.


I thought you said "I love Trump. Was gonna disown you.
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Posted 8/9/16
I'm sorry, I wouldn't have really disowned you.
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Posted 8/9/16

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I like spending time with people, but I find it exacting on my strength to actually a copious amount of time with people, copious in my definition. I can entertain someone for around 2-4 hours a week, but honestly? Any more and I just want to be left alone. This applies to online friends, discord, etc. How on earth am I going to manage a romantic relationship?



You've kind of answered your own question. In a romantic relationship it becomes common place to want to see/talk to the other person. If you don't then they may not be the one you'd want to be in a romantic relationship with. I have the same problem at times (it used to be much worse) but eventually I started to let the walls down and let in people. It happens over time not all at once when you meet the right people. Once you find someone with ALL the same interests as you you'll find yourself wanting to talk to them more and more for longer and longer.
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Posted 8/9/16
Even in long term romantic relationships you can always go to separate rooms lol. Don't have to be looking down each other's throats 24/7.
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Posted 8/9/16
Simple answer would be Yes

A more detailed answer would be: depends on the person(s) and situation and any given moment in time.
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Posted 8/9/16
Depends on what mood i am in.
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people are too much trouble period.
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Posted 8/9/16
Yes. I actually get physically exhausted when there's a lot of people around. So I tend to stay away from crowds.
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Posted 8/9/16
I'm fine with random people in real life, as long as they don't approach me and try to strike up small talk conversation. If I know them, and I have things to say/talk about, we can converse. If I don't like certain people, I'm usually reserved and distant. I've learned to close my energy expulsion among useless people, and reserve it for more important people.

Headphones, earbuds, IEMs...those work wonders when out and about. It's my body language for "fuck off, I don't want to talk."
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Posted 8/9/16
Yes, I'm an extreme introvert. /shrugs*
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Posted 8/9/16

PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I'm sorry, I wouldn't have really disowned you. :(


I'd have to.
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Posted 8/9/16

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PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I'm sorry, I wouldn't have really disowned you. :(


I'd have to.


But you won't be able to do imoutoriffic things with me!
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Posted 8/9/16 , edited 8/10/16

PeripheralVisionary wrote:


tooradtobesad wrote:


PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I'm sorry, I wouldn't have really disowned you. :(


I'd have to.


But you won't be able to do imoutoriffic things with me! :(


Well, if you loved Trump, as you thought that other person did, I guess I'd have to just let you go & do imoutoriffic things with Trump.
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