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How easy is it for you to make friends?
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Posted 8/11/16
I just don't know what to say to people. In a way it's easy, because i'm so layed back, but also impossible at times, because I just don't feel like being around people.

I'm a nice guy, but I just feel overwhelmed when it comes to talking to people at times, because everyone sounds the same, everyone thinks the same.

I'm just too calm, even though I have soo much energy being held back. Sometimes I just want to let it all out, but I get shy and stay silent, even when in my mind I know that people wouldn't even care. I'm hopeless But slowly breaking out of this bad habit.
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Posted 8/11/16
I can't engage a conversation That's why I only have a few friends in real life
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Posted 8/13/16 , edited 8/13/16
It's fairly difficult being the way my brain is wired and the like, especially when trying to form bonds with certain types of people because it's next to impossible to get a read on them since a good amount of them never say what they mean which causes all kinds of translation issues to the point where it seems as if we're speaking completely different languages. And then there's the social anxiety making it so difficult to actually start a conversation with anyone be it online or in person that I have to depend on forum posts such as these to talk to anyone online because I'm replying instead of initiating conversation (but then there's the fear of offending someone so that causes me to remain silent a lot of the time because I don't want to hurt anyone accidentally or start a fight of some kind).

It's funny, actually; pretty much all of my friendships and past relationships have always been initiated by another (except for one, but that's a long story). On the down side living like that doesn't really make me as social as perhaps I'd like to be at times, but on the plus side I always end up making friends and whatnot whom I can trust and are good to me. (And vise-versa, of course.)
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Posted 8/13/16 , edited 8/13/16
yeah cause i'm friendly and nice. i can talk about anything cause i like talking about trivial matters.


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