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Posted 8/23/16
So i don't deal with regret often as i try to live a life where i have no regrets however a situation happened where i basically threw a good friend under the bus to save the image of how people saw me.

I lost that friend and i feel shitty for it seeing as i lost someone i care very much for due to me inability to not care what people think about me.

I don't know how to deal with regret or how people stop caring as i have tried all my life and i can't find the secret to it and understand D:
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Posted 8/23/16
try talking to that person, apologize, then accept the fact that u wont be forgiven & move on
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Pretty simple.....

Move on with your life.

There is no trick, you just need to move on with your life. Your heart doesn't stop beating because it feels broken my friend
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Apologize.. and hope for the best.. Not much you can do if not oh well :/
Posted 8/23/16
Forget and move on. Nothing is so important as to have to carry it around as baggage forever. Life is too short, with many more obstacles to come, trying to make what little time you have left even worse than it is right now.
LIVE IN THE MOMENT BRAH.
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Posted 8/23/16 , edited 8/23/16

1Perks wrote:

try talking to that person, apologize, then accept the fact that u wont be forgiven & move on


im not really good at the last part ...i still regularly break down about my ex of 2 years ago or my friends who stopped talking to me 3-4 years ago.

x.x happened to me today i spent a good hour crying till i fell unconscious >.<
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Posted 8/23/16

Ryulightorb wrote:


1Perks wrote:

try talking to that person, apologize, then accept the fact that u wont be forgiven & move on


im not really good at the last part ...i still regularly break down about my ex of 2 years ago or my friends who stopped talking to me 3-4 years ago.

x.x happened to me today i spent a good hour crying till i fell unconscious >.<


then u can run around in circles until ur satisfied.......... like me
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Think of what you could have done. What you would have like to have done. Weigh the consequences. Resolve to act according to how you would have liked to have acted in a similar situation in the future. Accept that was done is done, do what you can to fix or mitigate the previous mistake, learn from the experience, and concentrate on the present and future rather than the past.
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Guts is a fictional person made to suffer. Let's stick to real people. Like the lost boys of Sudan.
Posted 8/23/16
Embrace the feeling and move on. It's difficult but not impossible.
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You learn from everything.
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Forgiveness, finally helping your brain understand why it happened, to forgive yourself, and know that not everyone accepts forgiveness or apologizes. As long as you can forgive and apologize you are doing better. Also the fact that you regret having done something shows that you have a conscience which is a good thing. Apologizing to the person and thing that your regret stems from is very helpful. Perhaps write a letter without attachment, showing you are truly sorry and that the sorrow has burdened you, that you are working to improve yourself and learn from your mistakes.
Posted 8/23/16
I prefer powerful drugs, and new regrets that will make previous regrets appear insignificant in comparison.
Posted 8/23/16
no regrets lesson was learned
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