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Hey guys, I haven't been on the forums for a while I believe my last time was around November of last year.

Anyways the question is obviously stated. What are your biggest fears in a relationship? Or what prevents you from wanting to be in one. Mine is having my significant other using me as a rebound.

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hurting them
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Losing him
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Being cheated on.
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Not being enough..
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Lifthrasir wrote:

hurting them


Mentally or Physically? It's both for me.
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nikkei63 wrote:

Losing him


I doubt you would though, because if you feel this way that means you do care about them enough to want them to stay around.


quietglasses wrote:

Being cheated on.


Honestly I have this fear constantly, I trust my SO but I still have the fear.


Rinrinrinn wrote:

Not being enough..


If you think about it, if you weren't enough they wouldn't be with you. So you should just trust your SO
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SelfConsciousParadox wrote:


Lifthrasir wrote:

hurting them


Mentally or Physically? It's both for me.


mentally

i'm very unstable in my thoughts and emotions
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Lifthrasir wrote:


SelfConsciousParadox wrote:


Lifthrasir wrote:

hurting them


Mentally or Physically? It's both for me.


mentally

i'm very unstable in my thoughts


Sadly, when it comes to fights we both hurt each other due to being in the heat of the moment.
Just try to think about things before wanting to say it. It's hard but worth it.
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Being cheated on
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Subaru_Natsuki wrote:

Being cheated on


Sadly I think everyone has that fear, I wish I didn't. But if you trust your SO I think you'll be fine
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SelfConsciousParadox wrote:
If you think about it, if you weren't enough they wouldn't be with you. So you should just trust your SO


I know this, but I'm a pretty insecure person so yeah...
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Getting too close.
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Rinrinrinn wrote:


SelfConsciousParadox wrote:
If you think about it, if you weren't enough they wouldn't be with you. So you should just trust your SO


I know this, but I'm a pretty insecure person so yeah...


Dang, It sucks. I used to be a pretty insecure person regardless of how many times my SO reassured me. But at one point i realized that would she really be with me if I wasn't enough. Would she have that big of a smile when she's with me. it's how you think about it, at one point you'll get through your insecurities and enjoy your life with a braver front whilst having even more fun with your SO.


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Getting too close.


Hmm, that can go two ways, either you're expecting a short lived relationship or you're afraid from being hurt. Hopefully you can openly be close to a person that you'll stay with for a lifetime.
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having to like... touch that person

i don't like being touched

as far as cheating goes, idk if that's really a fear, it's just an expectation at this point
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