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Posted 8/28/16

Sogno- wrote:

having to like... touch that person

i don't like being touched

as far as cheating goes, idk if that's really a fear, it's just an expectation at this point


I'm not sure on how far a relationship can develop without touching.
Posted 8/28/16
Probably losing them. Growing too close can be painful.
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SelfConsciousParadox wrote:


Sogno- wrote:

having to like... touch that person

i don't like being touched

as far as cheating goes, idk if that's really a fear, it's just an expectation at this point


I'm not sure on how far a relationship can develop without touching.


and this is why i am an old maid

that and im ugly as hades
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Posted 8/28/16
Fucking it up, being single my whole life leaves me with a lack of experience when it comes to dating, I'd be scared I'd do something wrong
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Finding someone better. There's 8 billion people on this planet, I'm sure there is more than one suitable partner. So I continue my search which may never end with one. I believe it's also part of the times, people really rather have choice and a chance to easily move on to the next best thing.
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Posted 8/28/16 , edited 8/28/16
Honestly, I do feel slightly fearful of being cheated on. I wouldn't ever agree to being in a relationship with someone I don't trust, but I've been in a very traumatic situation that did involve the other person, who I thought was completely committed, being unfaithful. I'm more wary nowadays.
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Posted 8/28/16 , edited 8/29/16
Being abandoned because I am asexual.

...Oh, wait. That's already happened. Three times. I really can't trust anyone.
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Getting close and leaving me
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Dear_1nsanity wrote:

Getting close and leaving me


I'll never leave you.
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Posted 8/28/16 , edited 8/28/16
You can have fear in a relationship?

Wow. Sounds like somebody is being selfish.
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Posted 8/28/16 , edited 8/28/16
Aside from a lot of the above, them getting tired of me and leaving due to the way my brain is wired. It's happened a lot and because of my many oddities and quirks it's difficult to find someone who's in it for the long haul since I really can't help the way I am. (Despite my best efforts to be the best significant other I can be.) Also having various mental problems sure doesn't help; it's difficult finding people who are willing to understand, the same goes with finding and keeping friends...
Posted 8/28/16 , edited 8/28/16
If I don't fall in love with her, she is annoying.
If I fall in love with her, I am annoying.
If she falls in love with me, she is annoying.
If she doesn't fall in love with me, I am annoying.

If we both fall in love with each other, there is a big explosion, and then we kill each other.
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Being replaced without a heads-up.

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Well for me I often have dreams about girls I wish I'd be in a relationship with, but the entire situation is complicated. To begin with, I have never been in a relationship in my actual life. In my dreams, there is a girl that I'm pretty much just like her pet that she drags around and pretty much controls when she decides to talk to me or interact with me. She leaves for weeks and only returns when it benefits her. The issue is, she doesn't believe that we are in a committed relationship. She sees other guys of course and have sexual relations with them as well. And I am pretty much just put on the list on her calendar. She doesn't think "I love you" means anything, to her they are just words. When she does see me, it's only from anywhere from 10 minutes to an hour until she meets up with another guy. When I tell her how I personally feel, she says things like "Don't think you're so special, plenty of other people think and feel the exact way." The reason why I don't just leave is that she convinces me so often that she's the best I'll ever find because there's not much about me that a person can like. Her reason to "being" with me is that I'm just a different thing compared to other guys, I'm only there to give her an experience because the other guys are better looking. Mainly she keeps me around because I'm everything I wish I could be in those other guys.

For me, living this in my actual life scares me. This might just become my reality and not just stay a dream.
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Posted 8/28/16 , edited 8/28/16
Other person losing interest. I'm the type of person who always means what they say but i've been with girls who are "in love" one day and wanting to leave without reason the next. You just learn some girls are never predictable. Although I had no fear getting into my current relationship
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