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Posted 8/28/16

stealyourface wrote:

Other person losing interest.


^ This



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Being in a relationship
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TheOmegaForce70941 wrote:

Hurting hur or something, idk lol


quietglasses wrote:

Being cheated on.


To fear being cheated on just means there's no real trust in the relationship from your side lol


Very true. I mean if you need a while to grow and trust fully, that's different. But if that's always a fear and you're never secure, is there truly a reason to be there in the first place? I always question that.
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TrickedMJ wrote:


TheOmegaForce70941 wrote:

Hurting hur or something, idk lol


quietglasses wrote:

Being cheated on.


To fear being cheated on just means there's no real trust in the relationship from your side lol


Very true. I mean if you need a while to grow and trust fully, that's different. But if that's always a fear and you're never secure, is there truly a reason to be there in the first place? I always question that.


Sure you can be in a loving relationship and still fear cheating even though you trust them not to.
For some people not fearing cheating is impossible to say there should be no relationship or there is no trust is shortsighted
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TheOmegaForce70941 wrote:

Hurting hur or something, idk lol


quietglasses wrote:

Being cheated on.


To fear being cheated on just means there's no real trust in the relationship from your side lol


Not true rather ignorant way to view things tbh
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Ryulightorb wrote:


TrickedMJ wrote:


TheOmegaForce70941 wrote:

Hurting hur or something, idk lol


quietglasses wrote:

Being cheated on.


To fear being cheated on just means there's no real trust in the relationship from your side lol


Very true. I mean if you need a while to grow and trust fully, that's different. But if that's always a fear and you're never secure, is there truly a reason to be there in the first place? I always question that.


Sure you can be in a loving relationship and still fear cheating even though you trust them not to.
For some people not fearing cheating is impossible to say there should be no relationship or there is no trust is shortsighted


You can definitely be in a relationship like that, as I said, I just wonder if there's truly a reason. Lack of trust affects both parties, and I doubt the other would truly enjoy knowing that you don't trust him or her and you feel as if they'll always cheat.
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Posted 8/28/16

TrickedMJ wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


TrickedMJ wrote:


TheOmegaForce70941 wrote:

Hurting hur or something, idk lol


quietglasses wrote:

Being cheated on.


To fear being cheated on just means there's no real trust in the relationship from your side lol


Very true. I mean if you need a while to grow and trust fully, that's different. But if that's always a fear and you're never secure, is there truly a reason to be there in the first place? I always question that.


Sure you can be in a loving relationship and still fear cheating even though you trust them not to.
For some people not fearing cheating is impossible to say there should be no relationship or there is no trust is shortsighted


You can definitely be in a relationship like that, as I said, I just wonder if there's truly a reason. Lack of trust affects both parties, and I doubt the other would truly enjoy knowing that you don't trust him or her and you feel as if they'll always cheat.


True however smart people will trust the ones they love 99.99% but they will leave that 0.01% to worry as anyone can change and hurt you.

Atleast that's my belief
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Ryulightorb wrote:
True however smart people will trust the ones they love 99.99% but they will leave that 0.01% to worry as anyone can change and hurt you.

Atleast that's my belief


I think a better way would be to trust them as much as possible but know that there's always a chance that something could happen, not necessarily worrying about it but not knocking it out of the park completely.
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Financial troubles... you never really know how someone will handle adversity while in a relationship until it happens. Can they remain calm and collected under stress? Will I? I'm pretty confident in myself. I've had plenty of stress to deflect.

These are the kind of problems that arise when you are already in too deep. This is when it can hurt the most... but this is also where you will know if it can stand the test of time. You get to find out the true depth of your love.
Posted 8/28/16
Prob trusting again. After being cheated on 3 times now it's becoming extremely hard for me to even care about people anymore
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It's sad that this is a common occurrence nowadays.
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People.
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Being not good enough, easily replaced, not being important to them as they are to me.
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Posted 8/28/16

Spencuh wrote:


1stladyent wrote:

Being replaced without a heads-up.



*Pats* You won't ever be replaced, you are too special to give up. If they ever decide to "replace" you, they don't know what they'll be missing. If they return saying they made a mistake, kick them to the curb! :D


But I have been replaced before and they of course return saying they made a mistake....and of course, I kick them (IN THE NUTS) to the curb.



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1stladyent wrote:

Being replaced without a heads-up.



I don't have any plans to, nerd.


Who you calling nerd, bully!!

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