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I'm genuinely curious, obviously some of you have some traumatic experiences you'd rather not share, but that's okay.

Though I am curious, I feel like this could also help some of you who want to tell your stories and what not.

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Never having one... :'(
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I had this really good friend who was a female, and we would text every night about music related stuff (both being heavily involved in different branches of our school's music department). Well, I was told, as prom was drawing nearer, that she was expecting an invite from me...That scared me, as I did not wish to be in a relationship like that. So, I broke off contact, and now just somewhat acknowledge her in school.
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I haven't had any yet..
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Sit down boys and girls


Failed to mention that the con happened on Valentine's Day but we broke up 4 days later and to add fuel to the fire my childhood friend/ cousin died a week before Valentine's Day so I was already hurting
Ain't life a bitch?
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Velvet_Crowe wrote:

Sit down boys and girls


Failed to mention that the con happened on Valentine's Day but we broke up 4 days later


There's no need to apologize, you were done dirty and that sucks, it truly does. I know plenty of people who've been cheated on and lied to that way. There's no problem with having a little trust issues, but you should try to watch who you date and watch for those signs or similarities of the last people ya know? It's good it's over though, a lot of people would stay in those relationships while constantly hurting themselves. I'm sure you'll find the one.

I don't have many bad stories tbh, just a girl who went out of her why to try to get me from hanging with friends while insulting them all the time and trying to get me to change to be just like her lol, I didn't have any of that though.

I'll ask a friend to see if I can tell his though.
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Well my ex broke up with me.. She started doing drugs and lost custody of her 3 kids ..in a way I feel like it was my fault she ended up like that
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I spent years with my partner who was abusive. Only physically once or twice out of the five years but really highly emotionally abusive. They cut me off from my family. They cut me off from my friends. Refused to get a job and constantly blamed me for everything wrong in our lives. They had borderline personality disorder diagnosed about 8 months before we broke up. I was just tried of everything being my fault and being screamed at five or six times a day. They would keep me up at unreasonable hours for no reason and the sleep deprivation was like torture.

If I wanted something it was always irresponsible. If they wanted something it was "just this once" or "I never get to get anything!" even though that was a lie. They dictated what we watched, when I got to hang out with other people (which btw was pretty much never and if I did they would constantly text me and make up bullshit reasons that I had to come back home immediately) ect. I won't get into any gritty details about certain things especially of the more... carnal nature and the mishaps that followed.

TBH it was just a really really really fucked up relationship where I lost most my friends and almost lost my family. I tried to kill myself twice and for a few years a day didn't go by that I didn't think about killing myself. I had convinced myself that it was all my fault that they were unahppy and that I deserved the abuse.

I've seen people with worse relationships. I've seen partners that have been raped or beaten. But this still hurt a lot.
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Never having one... :'(


RIP
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Dear_1nsanity wrote:

Well my ex broke up with me.. She started doing drugs and lost custody of her 3 kids ..in a way I feel like it was my fault she ended up like that


Why do you feel it might be your fault?
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I spent years with my partner who was abusive. Only physically once or twice out of the five years but really highly emotionally abusive. They cut me off from my family. They cut me off from my friends. Refused to get a job and constantly blamed me for everything wrong in our lives. They had borderline personality disorder diagnosed about 8 months before we broke up. I was just tried of everything being my fault and being screamed at five or six times a day. They would keep me up at unreasonable hours for no reason and the sleep deprivation was like torture.

If I wanted something it was always irresponsible. If they wanted something it was "just this once" or "I never get to get anything!" even though that was a lie. They dictated what we watched, when I got to hang out with other people (which btw was pretty much never and if I did they would constantly text me and make up bullshit reasons that I had to come back home immediately) ect. I won't get into any gritty details about certain things especially of the more... carnal nature and the mishaps that followed.

TBH it was just a really really really fucked up relationship where I lost most my friends and almost lost my family. I tried to kill myself twice and for a few years a day didn't go by that I didn't think about killing myself. I had convinced myself that it was all my fault that they were unahppy and that I deserved the abuse.

I've seen people with worse relationships. I've seen partners that have been raped or beaten. But this still hurt a lot.


I'm sorry, that must've truly sucked. When did you get out of that relationship and how have you been since then? Also, was this person abusive from the beginning or did it just happen out of nowhere, kind of like he was a different person? You obviously don't need to speak more about it if you don't want to. One more thing, there's always a worse relationship, though it doesn't mean yours wasn't bad at all.
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Yorutenchi wrote:

I spent years with my partner who was abusive. Only physically once or twice out of the five years but really highly emotionally abusive. They cut me off from my family. They cut me off from my friends. Refused to get a job and constantly blamed me for everything wrong in our lives. They had borderline personality disorder diagnosed about 8 months before we broke up. I was just tried of everything being my fault and being screamed at five or six times a day. They would keep me up at unreasonable hours for no reason and the sleep deprivation was like torture.

If I wanted something it was always irresponsible. If they wanted something it was "just this once" or "I never get to get anything!" even though that was a lie. They dictated what we watched, when I got to hang out with other people (which btw was pretty much never and if I did they would constantly text me and make up bullshit reasons that I had to come back home immediately) ect. I won't get into any gritty details about certain things especially of the more... carnal nature and the mishaps that followed.

TBH it was just a really really really fucked up relationship where I lost most my friends and almost lost my family. I tried to kill myself twice and for a few years a day didn't go by that I didn't think about killing myself. I had convinced myself that it was all my fault that they were unahppy and that I deserved the abuse.

I've seen people with worse relationships. I've seen partners that have been raped or beaten. But this still hurt a lot.


I'm sorry, that must've truly sucked. When did you get out of that relationship and how have you been since then? Also, was this person abusive from the beginning or did it just happen out of nowhere, kind of like he was a different person? You obviously don't need to speak more about it if you don't want to. One more thing, there's always a worse relationship, though it doesn't mean yours wasn't bad at all.


Thanks. Been out of it for more than a year now. Doing a lot better..
It started out great. I thought they were the greatest thing since sliced bread. But after about a month of living together it started. Then it just got worse through the years. Kinda like being drowned in a pool that was filled up by a dripping faucet. You don't notice it getting worse till you look back after a long time. I think if anything good came out of it I'm not gonna be in a relationship like that again. I had bad self esteem and they took advantage of that. Thats how a lot of relationships go though.
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Lol, I finished typing my friend's story then it said I was blocked from CR
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Yorutenchi wrote:


TrickedMJ wrote:


Yorutenchi wrote:

I spent years with my partner who was abusive. Only physically once or twice out of the five years but really highly emotionally abusive. They cut me off from my family. They cut me off from my friends. Refused to get a job and constantly blamed me for everything wrong in our lives. They had borderline personality disorder diagnosed about 8 months before we broke up. I was just tried of everything being my fault and being screamed at five or six times a day. They would keep me up at unreasonable hours for no reason and the sleep deprivation was like torture.

If I wanted something it was always irresponsible. If they wanted something it was "just this once" or "I never get to get anything!" even though that was a lie. They dictated what we watched, when I got to hang out with other people (which btw was pretty much never and if I did they would constantly text me and make up bullshit reasons that I had to come back home immediately) ect. I won't get into any gritty details about certain things especially of the more... carnal nature and the mishaps that followed.

TBH it was just a really really really fucked up relationship where I lost most my friends and almost lost my family. I tried to kill myself twice and for a few years a day didn't go by that I didn't think about killing myself. I had convinced myself that it was all my fault that they were unahppy and that I deserved the abuse.

I've seen people with worse relationships. I've seen partners that have been raped or beaten. But this still hurt a lot.


I'm sorry, that must've truly sucked. When did you get out of that relationship and how have you been since then? Also, was this person abusive from the beginning or did it just happen out of nowhere, kind of like he was a different person? You obviously don't need to speak more about it if you don't want to. One more thing, there's always a worse relationship, though it doesn't mean yours wasn't bad at all.


Thanks. Been out of it for more than a year now. Doing a lot better..
It started out great. I thought they were the greatest thing since sliced bread. But after about a month of living together it started. Then it just got worse through the years. Kinda like being drowned in a pool that was filled up by a dripping faucet. You don't notice it getting worse till you look back after a long time. I think if anything good came out of it I'm not gonna be in a relationship like that again. I had bad self esteem and they took advantage of that. Thats how a lot of relationships go though.



It's good that you're doing better at least. I've never been in a relationship like that so I apologize for not being able to say too much about it. So I think you might've already answered my question in this post with, "You don't notice it getting worse" but was another reason you stayed because you thought it'd get better, was it hard to leave, or was you not noticing it getting bad the only reason? Again, I can't begin to comprehend that situation, so my bad if these are insensitive questions to you. And good, don't let anyone take advantage of you like that again, you deserve better. You gotta put yourself first and be confident in yourself.
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I grew up in the suburbs, great life, mom and dad divorced, it was the worst shake up of my life. I was probably bullied in high school, but other than that, life was a piece of cake (+1 if you got the joke/reference).
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