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Shrug my shoulders and say " Oh well"

And if I have to hear them bitch and cry about it, I have noise cancelling headphones for that. ( Oh but you're being so anti social!) Oh really, better Max out my volume so you can hear someone else talk for me. (Wtf man you never take anything serious)

You know surprisingly I'm like the most passive person ever, combined with being dense, or that's probably me not giving a fuck.

I have seen too many fucking drug addicts in my life to actually really care about a lot of things to be honest, and then hear them bitch and complain about other people.

I mean not to far from other people, bitch about others, work to hard, drink to much, smoke to much, FFS I would rather stab myself in the ears than listen to another person's Bullshit. I'm amazed I still have hair, I guess I laugh to much while I smile and knod my head when people just bring up the stupidest shit.

I don't want to really say what I'm thinking sometimes, some people would seriously either feel depressed, angry, or hurt, but sometimes I just have to, like enough already; you know ? ( well you don't have to be such a dick about it) Oh really? Then what do you want me to do? Just agree with you like I have been for the past 10 fucking years!?

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I'm the friend, that is supposedly "fighting". You have to let me deal with it. I take upon myself and understood what would happen. If you want me to stop,

Tell me what would you like, I promise, I will listen.
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I don't really care, I'd be like meh
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Would ask why, if it was not true then I would let them know but if it is well I can't change how they feel about whatever it was.
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i wouldnt even effort
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Hook them up with eachother :3
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Posted 9/8/16 , edited 9/8/16

byClear wrote:

I got some friends that don't really hate each other, but they don't associate and avoid each other. I pretty much just hangout with each one separately so there's no issues, though it's weird when they talk shit behind each others back and I'm the only person to hear both sides..


This has pretty much been the story of my life. Iam not sure if iam so likeable and that i make/have made too many friends? and of course not all people get along, or if iam just too netural and dont take sides so i end up in these situations? I dunno i seem to get along with most people pretty well and i have very rarely had a falling out with any of my friends so i guess because iam not the sort of person to wrong do anyone and i dont really write people off i end up in these situations alot.

It's not so bad now that my group of friends and associates is much smaller than it was when i was younger but even now i have friends that dont like each other and some of them it is to the extent that if i invite a bunch of people to my house and a certian person is coming then they will not come.

So yeah i have to see some of my friends seperately from each other. There's not really any beef, just some people do not get along with or like certain people or just dont want anything to do with certain types of people.
Some people cant get over the past either.
I think some of my friends are judgemental or need to get over the past but at the same time i have some friends that are pretty messed up and drug fucked and annoying and weird so i can understand why some people want nothing to do with them.

It sucks because i often have to choose who to invite or who to spend time with and i also end up having to hear both sides bitch and bag each other. I get put in awkward situations but i dont pick sides.

But i must say, i have one particular mate that alot of my other friends do not like and he hangs around me so much that i have not seen alot of my good friends much or dont see them often largely to him always being around.
And iam drifting from better friends, freinds that are more enjoyable and normal and positive to be around.

I find myself in unfamilar territory actually. Some friends you just drift appart from with no falling out, its part of life, but this one friend i almost want to cut him off.
He's cooked and acts like a stalker and i have never been the sort of person to be overly judgemntal or lie but he's pushing my boundries. But that's another story...

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"Just fucking relax okay" is what I would mutter.
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Why would it be my problem if these people hated each other? Not that I've had enough friends at any one time to allow the situation to develop, but that sounds like a personal problem for them to work out on their own. Maybe they should go on an intimate getaway, or seek marriage counselling. Perhaps all they need is to accept their repressed feelings for and about one another.
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I hate to see this happen all the time around me. Maybe I just haven't found really great friends yet. & It's really sad because those two close friends used to be best buddies in their high school years before I met them in college. I listened to both sides of the story & gave my advice & my input; but in the end I couldn't do anything. As a result, one of them never talked to me again & the other does talk to me, but only sometimes & not as much as before. So, you can say I ended up losing both of them. Ugh, whatever. That's life I guess.
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Take them both to the side separately and be like, you're my favorite.

*Hides his demon tail*
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I've been there. They refused to get along for some really trivial reasons. It got really annoying when it was my birthday and everyone wanted to be with me but not in the presence of the one they disliked. I got fed up and ditched them all and had a lovely birthday day on my own. I was in the same position some Christmases too so I had to find a way to divide up my time to make it work.
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This happened to me once. I didn't care and forced them to hang out with me at the same time anyway. They ended up getting along decently.
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I would just hang out with them separately
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