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Posted 9/11/16 , edited 9/11/16

Ryulightorb wrote:

As soon as I ask them out.

I have never asked a girl out to not be officially dating.
I would never ask someone to be my girlfriend if it was not official.


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This, I thought everyone did this lmao
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Posted 9/11/16
What even would be "unofficial" dating? You're officially going on dates aren't you? Then it seems pretty clear to me that you're officially dating.
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man some of you guys take a seriously long time to get to it
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Posted 9/11/16

octorockandroll wrote:

What even would be "unofficial" dating? You're officially going on dates aren't you? Then it seems pretty clear to me that you're officially dating.


You're my chick, but I don't want to ditch my booty call numbers so let's keep this on the down-low, k? If I were a chick that's what I'd think it meant
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You should just kind of know. If you've been going out a lot, having fun, enjoying each others company, you should just know. With my exes, I just straight up asked; kind of like "ohh so are we a couple?" --lame as that sounded, it worked out for me , plus i'm kind of a funny guy so I made it work.
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Posted 9/11/16

Rell0M7DF wrote:

You should just kind of know. If you've been going out a lot, having fun, enjoying each others company, you should just know. With my exes, I just straight up asked; kind of like "ohh so are we a couple?" --lame as that sounded, it worked out for me , plus i'm kind of a funny guy so I made it work.


At least you asked, seems like a lot of people drag it out for eternity because they are too afraid to ask or something.


Yeah I just more or less confessed that I liked the chick and asked her if she'll be my gf and was done with it. Ain't rocket science folks

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Posted 9/11/16
6 months.
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Posted 9/12/16

kevz_210 wrote:

Idk, I've never waited more than 2 months. I may go out on dates with women, but until it's official I have no expectations that it's something exclusive. I'd never wait a year, seems too long to try to figure out if you want to be with someone or not.


me too.

I always thought if you are dating, you are official.
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Posted 9/12/16
Geez I am kinda surprised some people think it takes some sort of mystical declaration or ungodly amount of time to consider themselves a couple. Ya dating, this shit isn't deciding the fate of trillions of lives or coming up with a tasty new breakfast cereal. Ya ask someone out and that is day one of officially dating someone.
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I'm probably not the wisest on this subject, but I would say it's probably when you dont have to ask to be sure, I meen it's quite obvious if your in a relationship... or do I got it all wrong?
Posted 9/12/16
If it's not official after she's rubbed her stink all over me, she's not worth the effort. Moving on.
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If you and someone agree to going on a date together, you're dating. That's no guarantee that there'll be other dates but the possibility may exist. Boyfriend/girlfriend etc is another matter. That can take some a few weeks and others up to a few years to get to that stage.
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I always though it was something that was mostly external. If you look like a couple to outsiders and you're happy together then "Officially Dating" is just a meaningless tick box.
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Posted 9/12/16
After the 3rd or 4th date? That's usually when I stop seeing multiple people.
Posted 9/12/16
I'd say probably after the 3rd date.
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