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A girl that can make me smile and loves me with all her heart is all I want, I'm a simple man
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Can't define with feelings since I've never really had a real crush but I'll go all out with a logical definition.

This dream person would be something like this:

- ideologically similar, practically different. Someone who has compatible values but different strengths and weaknesses.
- Easy to argue with. Maybe sounds strange but it simply means that this person is capable of arguing about things without getting upset every time and has the capacity to reach conclusion, compromise etc. Arguing is a good thing when done right.
- Sense of humour for everything else. I mean joking around with a person who knows you very well is the best thing ever. It's amazing how humans even have the capacity for it, why not use it to make life a little nicer and easier?
- Independant. This mainly because I can be a very bad lover and only very independant people could be even slightly satisfied with me. In a relationship both sides need to be satisfied.
- Makes sure I know when I'm being a shithead, useless and failing like an idiot. Without this I have a tendency to overthink many things. This is more important than showing appreciation even though that's nice as well.
- At least some similar interests or goals. Nothing to explain here, interests are the root of conversation and a lot of mutual enjoyment.

There some of the more important things. My feelings are much simpler to conquer, just felt like thinking about it a little. :P


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jaragnaros wrote:

A girl that can make me smile and loves me with all her heart is all I want, I'm a simple man


Lucky lol most men want this big unrealistic list of things they want in a girl I'm pretty simple myself CX
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Blackbutler3000 wrote:


jaragnaros wrote:

A girl that can make me smile and loves me with all her heart is all I want, I'm a simple man


Lucky lol most men want this big unrealistic list of things they want in a girl I'm pretty simple myself CX


Dreams don't have to be realistic.
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Because of this topic, I have realized that at some point I lost the definition set to define the type of definition that would encompass the topic. I am not sure how to feel about this.
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Blackbutler3000 wrote:


jaragnaros wrote:

A girl that can make me smile and loves me with all her heart is all I want, I'm a simple man


Lucky lol most men want this big unrealistic list of things they want in a girl I'm pretty simple myself CX


Dreams don't have to be realistic.


No but when in fact you try to make it a reality and you never become leniant on your standards of love as far as who you let in your not being realistic and you're being close minded which canost of the time lead to ignorance. I'm not trashing peoples dreams if they wanna chase them or whatever but have this exact list of every detail you want of a girl and it does not meet your list so you do not date many women because they haven't met your intelligence or because they don't have red hair seems ridiculous and is to where I was coming from as far as what I said.
Dreams aren't real and usually aren't for a reason ^-^
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Sigh. My dream
Posted 9/13/16 , edited 9/13/16

jaragnaros wrote:

A girl that can make me smile and loves me with all her heart is all I want, I'm a simple man


I want the exact same but with a guy version
Posted 9/13/16 , edited 9/13/16
Someone who treats people and animals well. I don't really like two-faced people.
Someone who doesn't curse at others while driving, I don't feel comfortable being a passenger with such people. I met so many people who would curse because someone didn't use a signal, I'm just like, Who cares? Life won't always go your way, give it a rest.
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Cenric wrote:

Can't define with feelings since I've never really had a real crush but I'll go all out with a logical definition.

This dream person would be something like this:

- ideologically similar, practically different. Someone who has compatible values but different strengths and weaknesses.
- Easy to argue with. Maybe sounds strange but it simply means that this person is capable of arguing about things without getting upset every time and has the capacity to reach conclusion, compromise etc. Arguing is a good thing when done right.
- Sense of humour for everything else. I mean joking around with a person who knows you very well is the best thing ever. It's amazing how humans even have the capacity for it, why not use it to make life a little nicer and easier?
- Independant. This mainly because I can be a very bad lover and only very independant people could be even slightly satisfied with me. In a relationship both sides need to be satisfied.
- Makes sure I know when I'm being a shithead, useless and failing like an idiot. Without this I have a tendency to overthink many things. This is more important than showing appreciation even though that's nice as well.
- At least some similar interests or goals. Nothing to explain here, interests are the root of conversation and a lot of mutual enjoyment.

There some of the more important things. My feelings are much simpler to conquer, just felt like thinking about it a little. :P




I literally love every bit of this response and yes I read it all ^-^ thank you for commenting
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Blackbutler3000 wrote:

What would your ideal significant lover:
Be like?
Look like?
What's the dream you have or if you've already for them then what are they like
Since its fit my ideal guy lol is a guy who is mature and respectful not saying they have to be older just act mature when it is seen fit. And funny because if they lack sense of humor Then we'd just get into too many arguments and I like to laugh so ^_^ I don't really have a preference for looks. Probably a taller guy like even by an inch or two that's my only thing Cx. I'm basic I guess lol

I'm sorry if this topic already exist delete this and add a link please and thank you! If it does exist lol.


I'm that guy. Marry me Blackbutler3000!
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Blackbutler3000 wrote:

What would your ideal significant lover:
Be like?
Look like?
What's the dream you have or if you've already for them then what are they like
Since its fit my ideal guy lol is a guy who is mature and respectful not saying they have to be older just act mature when it is seen fit. And funny because if they lack sense of humor Then we'd just get into too many arguments and I like to laugh so ^_^ I don't really have a preference for looks. Probably a taller guy like even by an inch or two that's my only thing Cx. I'm basic I guess lol

I'm sorry if this topic already exist delete this and add a link please and thank you! If it does exist lol.


I'm that guy. Marry me Blackbutler3000!


I've already said we could date but you never responded meanie
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Blackbutler3000


Whelp not what the post was asking but thanks anyways ^_^


Well considering I've never had a type or anything like that then I couldn't really give more of an explanation. I think having a 'type' is dumb because anyone out there could be a person that you click with, they don't have to have a specific body type or eye colour or personality or any of that mess to be the person for you.
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Blackbutler3000


Whelp not what the post was asking but thanks anyways ^_^


Well considering I've never had a type or anything like that then I couldn't really give more of an explanation. I think having a 'type' is dumb because anyone out there could be a person that you click with, they don't have to have a specific body type or eye colour or personality or any of that mess to be the person for you.


Whelp not what the post was asking but thanks anyways ^_^
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Most guys I've ever met will settle for anything that rates a 7/10 for them

Here's my unrealistic ideal ladyfriend
- Likes me (Very important!!!1!)
- Wants a committed relationship
- Wants kids at some point
- Preferably has a smaller criminal record than my own
- Not a cultist
- Either doesn't have blonde hair or realizes how inferior her hair colour is compared to the almighty, god-tier black hair

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