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Posted 9/24/16
About 50% of people, or maybe even more. I'm aware there is some sort of reason though, I'm working on finding out how exactly I make people hate me.
Posted 9/24/16 , edited 9/24/16
Of course.
Many many people think badly of me on first impression or second impression, I don't know if it's because I look like a douchebag or because of my body language, but they always hate me on the first several meetings.

But once they know me better, they start treating me nice, I always found this to be awkward, as I'd rather have consistency in terms of friendliness towards me, if you're going to hate on me, hate on me forever because I'm never going to think you're a nice person, don't suddenly turn nice, or vice versa, it's so awkward. I like people who are nice to me from the beginning; it means their behaviour is consistent and they don't judge people based on exterior.

Then there are people who hate on me forever, and never turn nice, this rarely occurs, but it happens. I am an odd person, but I'm benevolent. People who hate on me, there are problems with them, not me.
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Yes, when i was in middle school i was friend with a dude. From a day to another he started to hate me for no reason at all. Dunno mate...
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I definitely have the same feeling but the problem is she`s my boss
I never had any bad or awkward moments with her but she gives me weird looks and stares at me if i want to speak up
we act professional but i can sense ill intentions from her all the time (fake smile and friendly )
she gave me credits when i first came she gave me 100 on my annual evaluation
she asked me to do a lot of stuff and i did then by the next year she gave me less on my evaluation saying i did not do anything in the past year and she did not see any activities from my side and wishes for more
I`ve been working harder than my starting days that shocked me how she gave me less
and she did not want to look me in the eye while telling me about my lack of activities
now i don`t know how to handle her
Sometimes she says no need to call me director just call me by my name (we are one team)
the other time she says you don`t respect me Nor do you think of me as your director and she even told me to watch my tone
Any ideas how to handle her ??




I honestly dont know how to deal with people like that. The person i was talking about was on the same level as me and was more or less not liked by anyone else though i think i disliked him more then anyone around us.I would suggest just trying to spend as little time around this person as possible and the second you get a chance to move to a new area take it ... if this is a job which I am assuming it is .. start job searching it can't hurt to look around no one needs to know that you are until you find a new place to work. Other then that just know you are in no way trapped with this person ... you are i assume a free person to do what you want with your life just have to find the way to do what you want and keep paying the bills. You could always wait for them to move up ... and depending on the connections this person might have with the higher ups you might be able to complain to them about her ... but i would strongly suggest not doing that if you have any reason to believe this person will know its you who are complaining.
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No, why would i hate someone for no reason? The question is why would you hate someone for no reason? Don't you wanted to meant disliking or not standing someone? I invite everybody to get your dictionary or search on Google the meaning of the word "Hate"
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No, why would i hate someone for no reason? The question is why would you hate someone for no reason? Don't you wanted to meant disliking or not standing someone? I invite everybody to get your dictionary or search on Google the meaning of the word "Hate"


Friend, it seems you have been a more blessed person as you apparently have not encountered a human being who for seemingly no reason has made it a personal mission to make your life as miserable as possible. Trust me, people don't need a logical reason, sometimes they just hate you because they do and they want to make it clear at any opportunity they can get their hands on.
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Just my two cents but that avatar is neat.
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Just my two cents but that avatar is neat.


Ahahaha, thanks! <3
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My personality is such that people often hate me.

The thing is that I cannot change who I am. I mean, I tried that, and it actually seemed to make the situation worse.

People either love me or hate me. That has a lot to do with the intensity of my personality. I'm a unipolar manic. Think bipolar, except I never or extremely rarely have the depression side. I'm just constantly going, going, going.

It's rarely even noticed, because most of us never see anything wrong. We don't go to doctors for it. Actually, my doctor only noticed because I had other stuff going on a long time ago, and have been seeing them for about seven years, now.
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Posted 10/22/16
people.. it's nothing new

as long they don't stalk you around or spreading rumors

in the current period where the mentally unstable are easily triggered..

they can attack people for holding signs and other things.. so you never know

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Posted 10/22/16
So what did he actually do?
It's one thing to be hated, but it's another thing to think you're being hated upon just became someone looked at you funny once.
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Posted 10/22/16
If only they'd get to know me
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Posted 10/22/16
This girl at school...

(those fake smiles....Exaggerated "HELLOS" and asking me to go away.)
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Posted 10/22/16
i feel it ironic that this thread was created on my birthday
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Posted 10/22/16
People always have a reason.

It just tends to be as stupid as they are.

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