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why guys likes to control their girl ?
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Posted 10/20/16 , edited 10/20/16
Well not to be old fashion but guys generally need to feel like they're on top/ above a woman. That never goes away no matter how many women and men say it's wrong or whatever. It's going to be in the back of there minds lol.
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Posted 10/20/16 , edited 10/21/16
Because they feel insecure girls might change of mind or wanting something different and control them to the point of controlling them psychologically.
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Posted 10/20/16 , edited 10/21/16
Despite the equality right given to women in some states, the whole family structure from before that is still embedded in people's mind. In a home when you think of who cooks most will think of women.
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Posted 10/20/16 , edited 10/21/16
and what's wrong with that ?
i would like the guy to control and be possessive and obsessive
Posted 10/21/16 , edited 10/21/16
cause they are pets and naughty
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Posted 10/21/16 , edited 10/21/16
I honestly hear more from guys saying that girls like to control them.
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Posted 10/21/16 , edited 10/21/16
I really think it all has to do with personalities.

But can I ask a few question before we make any assumptions?

1: When she is around him does she not care what they do. An Example of this would be "What do you want to eat(guy)." "I Don't Care." (Her).

2: Does the guy get emotional over stupid shit. ? If yes then its because he is insecure.

3: How similar are the two in personalities? That can also dictate a few things. Also, guys in general are the ones that like to take the lead. Not saying this is true for all females, but majority of the ones I know do not mind following behind, until much much later into the relationships. Something like post 3-4 years (avg, is what I have noticed.)



Personally; the problem with guys that don't take the lead is that they are very boring. I would know because I really don't care about what I do. (I'm a guy) It can come off as being very boring. But really. Who Care? Most people from the age group of 15- 26 want to do stuff all the time, and not doing things can be irritating to one side. Imagine a ADHD child being forced to sit still. Very hard to do.

So what I personally believe is taking the lead, is good for the guy. But Females need to know where taking the lead stops and taking control begins. Guys all have over inflated egos.
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Posted 10/21/16 , edited 10/21/16

Humms wrote:

Just like women like to control their men.

Like seriously, what can you possibly mean by men who control women


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Posted 10/21/16 , edited 10/21/16

Blackbutler3000 wrote:

Well not to be old fashion but guys generally need to feel like they're on top/ above a woman. That never goes away no matter how many women and men say it's wrong or whatever. It's going to be in the back of there minds lol.


you have a really imperfect view of people and personas.
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Posted 10/21/16 , edited 10/21/16
It really just depends on how their parents where. My father was pretty laid back he worked a lot and typically it was my mother who gave the day to day orders but at the end of the day it was normally my fathers word which was final. Control is a give and take thing, I know just as many if not more women who like to control their men then men who try and control their women.

As long as you respect the other person I don't really think it matters. My father let my mother do as she pleased and he respected that but at the same time when he was against something she would respect his wishes as well.
Posted 10/21/16 , edited 10/22/16
Some people just want to be in control, I guess.
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Posted 10/21/16 , edited 10/22/16
thats hot
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29 / M / UK
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Posted 10/21/16 , edited 10/22/16
Ladies would you want a controlling guy or ...

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Posted 10/28/16 , edited 10/28/16
it's a 2 way street

there are women who like to check on their boyfriend every 10 minutes via text or phone call

men are not your pet ! that need to be put on a lease.. or need to be checked that often

all of us are not your sugar daddy either


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Posted 10/28/16 , edited 10/28/16

Ryulightorb wrote:


Blackbutler3000 wrote:

Well not to be old fashion but guys generally need to feel like they're on top/ above a woman. That never goes away no matter how many women and men say it's wrong or whatever. It's going to be in the back of there minds lol.


you have a really imperfect view of people and personas.


Ooooo explains why no one is perfect. Didn't realize there was a perfect way to view people and personas. Sorry I didn't know, but you would know wouldn't ya?
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