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Posted 9/26/16 , edited 9/26/16
After many years of wandering in my mind to find the truth I realized something, I need to ask others to find the answer!

I want to ask all of you for your opinion on this matter.
Is it or is it not straight to like traps?
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Posted 9/26/16 , edited 9/26/16
The most important question that must be answered first is... Does it matter if it is or isn't?
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I am a guy and I have done it with a trap before. I said it was straight, but everyone else says it's gay!
It matters to me!
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Posted 9/26/16 , edited 9/26/16
Okay... But why does it matter?
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It matters because I am straight as hell, but other people say it is gay! I need to know the truth!
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Posted 9/26/16
If you know it's a trap, is it still really a trap?

It's at least bi. I wouldn't worry about it too much though. Everybody's got their kink.
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Posted 9/26/16 , edited 9/27/16
If you like porn/hentai, you (for the most part) like certain aspects of human sexuality itself.

Many other human beings do as well, it's okay. lol
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Posted 9/26/16
Didn't you make another thread with this topic yesterday?
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The thing is that they look, sound, and act very feminine.

So I say it is 100% straight. Not bi or gay.

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Posted 9/26/16 , edited 9/26/16
But why put labels on it? That's so pointless. And it won't change anything.

Consider this:
Say hypothetically that the overall concensus on this issue is that liking traps is gay. What would the implications of that then be?
Either that would mean that :

a. You're NOT quite as überstraight as you claim to be.

or

b. The concensus is wrong.

In either case, you like what you like. Whatever the outcome of this won't change that. So why not just embrace that you like what you like and accept that without conserning yourself with pointless labels that don't do anything other than provide grounds for you to limit yourself and for others to judge you unfairly?

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Now, with all that said, my personal take on it is that liking traps is kinda like traps themselves. Partially both.

Personally, I'd say it's definitely more straight than gay, considering that the feminine aesthetic is a crucial part in the whole thing, and that without it, you may not be interested at all.
With that said, you're not getting out of the fact that it was still a dude with a dick, and that you didn't mind.

In the end, chances are you might be like me. In regards to romantic attraction you only go for the opposite sex. But you don't mind it if the ones you have sex with has a dick. Mostly straight, but also kinda gay-ish.
And there's nothing wrong with that. It's totally fine.
Just be who you are and like what you like. As long as you're not hurting anyone, no one can or should tell you otherwise.

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Posted 9/26/16
So it is straight.
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Posted 9/26/16 , edited 9/26/16

GodHacks wrote:

So it is straight.


Mostly. But you shouldn't discard the gay aspect of it. In fact, I urge you not to. Not only because suppression of one's own true nature isn't good, but also because the perspective you gain from accepting it will make you a better person.
To contextualize that somewhat, I present one of my favorite videos on all of Youtube.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xXAoG8vAyzI
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Posted 9/26/16 , edited 9/26/16
What I'm getting at is, even if you liked typical straight porn/hentai, you're still enjoying individual aspects about the man and individual aspects about the woman while they're having sex.

Don't flip out, man.
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Posted 9/26/16

GodHacks wrote:

It matters because I am straight as hell, but other people say it is gay! I need to know the truth!


If you're attracted to someone based on their looks and what you think is a girl than that's strait. However if you're still attracted after finding out and went forward by having sex then it could be considered gay to most people, but I'd probably say you're just unsure of what your sexual orientatian really is. Many people go around and experiment a lot before they find their true sexual orientation
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Posted 9/26/16
So you're saying it's 85% straight? I can accept that.
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I, like a lot of the replies here would say that it shouldn't really matter.

That said, my answer would be that it depends on what attracted you to the trap. If you, as a guy, are specifically attracted to people (characters) due to their femininity you would be straight. Especially if they act, talk, look girlish.

If you found a feminine person who turned out to be a trap, but didn't care about the fact that they used to or still have male genitalia then you could still be straight, but leaning a little towards bi maybe.

Finally, if you are attracted to the fact that they have male genitalia but act feminine, I would say you are gay. Not that anyone of these matters. You do you mate.
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