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I just remembered I met this model on an airplane when I got bumped up to first class cause of a mix up and hit it off with her, we parted ways and I get her number She tells me that she's coming into town for a week or so and we go on a couple dates and everything is going nice. One day I was at a stop light and the side of my nose itched, the right side to be exact. So I start scratching it and I look over to the left like everyone does and I see her in a taxi with an astonished and disgusted face, the light turns green and she drives off. I guess to her it looked like I was picking my nose, but I assure you I wasn't. I tried calling her and left a few messages but she never called back Is it really a deal breaker to pick your nose??? Does it make me any less of a human? If we pick do we not bleed??? I am not an animal!!!
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Got dumped because my boyfriend was kinda of unstable emotionally.
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I just remembered I met this model on an airplane when I got bumped up to first class cause of a mix up and hit it off with her, we parted ways and I get her number She tells me that she's coming into town for a week or so and we go on a couple dates and everything is going nice. One day I was at a stop light and the side of my nose itched, the right side to be exact. So I start scratching it and I look over to the left like everyone does and I see her in a taxi with an astonished and disgusted face, the light turns green and she drives off. I guess to her it looked like I was picking my nose, but I assure you I wasn't. I tried calling her and left a few messages but she never called back Is it really a deal breaker to pick your nose??? Does it make me any less of a human? If we pick do we not bleed??? I am not an animal!!!


Sounds like Seinfeld episodes
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Sounds like Seinfeld episodes


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He wanted ''Freedom'' -_-

Of course later he realized how awful being alone is since no one else wanted his ass Ha
So he wanted me back but I had already moved on. I still get a message from him every few years wanting me back.
I told him he would regret leaving me! Though I hope he does not contact me anymore, at first I was like ha, but now its just a hassle.
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Must admit i've never been dumped for anything like that or on the girls behalf, i've more been dumped for being/acting stupid.
So really i've been dumped for my own actions or behaviour and it was justified.
Nothing bad, just not knowing how to treat girls in the way of getting too drunk n stoned around them and/or hanging out with my mates too much, probably more so having my mates and my girl around at the same time instead of spending more time with her.
Or just not talking things through, like trying to act sexual without really talking or asking or what not. But iam going way back now. Like way back to my teen years.

I guess there's also me younger again , getting dumped for being too shy. For not being sexual enough when i used to get nervous and embarrassed lol...

Haven;t been dumped during adult life due to a lack of adult relationships..


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Well my last ex was married to her career. Never thought that was even possible, but apparently there are some people out there who solely get up everyday and look forward to their job and career advancement and have no life outside of it (social, romantic, etc.) Not sure years later exactly why I was dumped, but I am pretty sure I was getting in the way of her sick obsession with her job and professional status. In a way I'm glad it ended, who could be happy with a life like that? Basically like some weird personality disorder. I might work and study a lot, but I also have a social and family life, geez.
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I typically do the dumping, because I refuse to be dumped first.

The one time I was about to be dumped (but I voluntarily dumped first) was because he couldn't get over some girl he liked and he said he couldn't make up his mind. Months later someone shows me his stupid announcements on social media about if he ever gets me again, he would never let go.

Another one I dumped full on (legit stupid reason) because he was a boxer. As soon as he made pro, I dumped him. He had too many girls throwing themselves at him, and I absolutely HATE having to compete for attention with other chicks.

Another stupid dump on my part was me not even dumping him myself. I had gotten really sick and traveling so much I had a friend tell him I won't see him anymore because I was sick.

And finally, (since I remember it now) I got dumped by a guy because he found out another guy liked me and the said guy who liked me had a boring name. I don't think I was affected by it, because I didn't think the relationship would go anywhere. He was already cocky to begin with (he totally thought he was the shit just because he was some lead singer in some group). He dumped me by saying "have fun with your boring-name new boyfriend, while i go on tour without you".

Lesson learned (the hard way): Don't go for overly cocky guys. You will dump and get dumped in dumb ways.

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I've usually had mutual break-ups where both of us realize that we're just not the right fit for each other. The one time I was dumped, the guy decided to go back to his abusive ex-fiancée because she called him up one evening and told him that she wanted him back, and he thought it could work out even though this was the second or third time she'd done this before...but clearly she'd never do it again...ha. I never met the woman, but as the man told me he loved me a day before this went on and yet decided to go back to her, sounds like they both deserved each other.
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Because uhm...shit have i ever not been the one to end the relationship.

Im going to have to go with blocking all contact then getting pissed when i called them out on their shit?

Other then that i have ended most relationships....alot of women love to cheat and be unfaithful i must have a thing for horrible women XD
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Her other fiancé found out.


she had a fiance?

did you know about it because unless it was over and he had left her thats kind of an asshole move to cheat with someone.
That being said i can understand if it was ghosting but he obviously had contact so...
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She saw me being with other friends as "cheating" and broke up over that even tho nobody did anything. I'm happy she broke up, if there's no real trust then there's no point to a relationship. Then after I told her there was ntohing going on with anyone else she refused to beilive and decided to publish my phone number on a support forum so I got calls all the time from random people. Something that got really annoying after a while so I changed number and have had problems giving out my number to anyone since
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Eisensonne wrote:

Her other fiancé found out.


she had a fiance?

did you know about it because unless it was over and he had left her thats kind of an asshole move to cheat with someone.
That being said i can understand if it was ghosting but he obviously had contact so...


We were together for about 2 years and where in the process of finding her the right ring for the engagement and looking around for a place to move in together. During that week she also upgraded to a new phone. While she was away I received a phone call from her old phone from some guy who was frantic asking me what my relationship was to her. I was at first concerned because I thought maybe that this was a paramedic and there had been some sort of accident, though it was clear after a few minutes of conversation that this was not the case. The man introduced himself as her fiancé and stated that they had been living together for almost 2 years, he had checked her old phone which was lying around and found hundreds of text messages between me and this girl.

I actually heard him screaming at her from his apartment balcony because she arrived home to him while we were on the phone. The guy hung up on me and about an hour later that girl called me crying and explained that the engagement was off. At the very least I was able to save the money going towards the ring and was luckily able to talk my landlord in to renewing my lease, but honestly the whole thing was the dumbest situation I've ever been dumped from.

And before anyone asks, she originally did field survey work where she would be away for two weeks at a time and only back for a few days at a time. As much as I could figure that part of her job stopped quite a bit before this all played out and she just used it as a way to juggle between the two of us.
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Posted 10/5/16

Eisensonne wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


Eisensonne wrote:

Her other fiancé found out.


she had a fiance?

did you know about it because unless it was over and he had left her thats kind of an asshole move to cheat with someone.
That being said i can understand if it was ghosting but he obviously had contact so...


We were together for about 2 years and where in the process of finding her the right ring for the engagement and looking around for a place to move in together. During that week she also upgraded to a new phone. While she was away I received a phone call from her old phone from some guy who was frantic asking me what my relationship was to her. I was at first concerned because I thought maybe that this was a paramedic and there had been some sort of accident, though it was clear after a few minutes of conversation that this was not the case. The man introduced himself as her fiancé and stated that they had been living together for almost 2 years, he had checked her old phone which was lying around and found hundreds of text messages between me and this girl.

I actually heard him screaming at her from his apartment balcony because she arrived home to him while we were on the phone. The guy hung up on me and about an hour later that girl called me crying and explained that the engagement was off. At the very least I was able to save the money going towards the ring and was luckily able to talk my landlord in to renewing my lease, but honestly the whole thing was the dumbest situation I've ever been dumped from.

And before anyone asks, she originally did field survey work where she would be away for two weeks at a time and only back for a few days at a time. As much as I could figure that part of her job stopped quite a bit before this all played out and she just used it as a way to juggle between the two of us.




Oh wow... my misunderstanding i read it as you were cheating on her and she had a fiance i misread that holy fuck... that's fucked up :/ you deserve better then that jeez.

Reminds me of my cousin he found out his Girlfriend was cheating with his best friend she told him right after they had a engagement party.

She just kept it going so she could keep the gifts :/
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He couldn't love apparently.
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