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What do you do when someone close to you dies?
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Posted 7/11/07
I donno not much ppl died around me that i remember.
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32 / F / Earth
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Posted 7/11/07
To be honest, I have yet to move on. I lost my grandfather in February and I'm still depressed, moody, and unmotivated to change anything. I hate myself because I'm usually on top of things, a hard worker, etc but I just don't see the point in doing things.

Crying is fine but it doesn't make me feel better, just more depressed because I feel like a crybaby. Ultimately I'm trying to ignore everything and put my feelings away for later...not working too well but its all I've got at the moment.
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Posted 7/11/07
think about remember memory and forget about him/her
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22 / F / Right Here ;)
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i CRY & CRY & CRY & CRY & CRY...that is the only thing i CANN do..&& teasures the memories i had wif this person (;<
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Posted 7/11/07
i honestly think this, that instead of going to someones burial and crying, a funeral should be one big party. INstead of saying "remember when punkfilter died? i cried for days after is funeral" they should say "remember when punkfilter died? i was wasted for days after his funeral".

in general, people will have much more good memories of you
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Posted 7/11/07
i would general cry... my friend says he wants ppl 2 b happy when he dies.....
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Posted 7/11/07
When my grandma died, i told my cousins i won't cry cos i don't feel like it. In the end, you will really feel terrible and you can't help but cry. But the thing was, my cousins teased me after.
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Posted 7/11/07
I cry myself to sleep... then I play their favorite piano piece for them...
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Posted 11/3/07
I feel really sad and it depends on how close i am to that person if im close but not really close then i dont cry i just stay depressed for a lil while but wen they r very important to me i cry alot and cant stop and i get moody and as of rite now my grandpa has lung cancer and i dont know how long he has to live but i havent cried at all
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Posted 11/3/07
Lets see go Emo.....by starting to cut my wrists, then grab a lighter and burn my fingers <---thats the new emo xD...., and go crazy holding a cleaver =D. Nah not really but i would not speak for a couple of weeks or so.
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Posted 11/3/07
When I lost a loved one I went through a grievence process
Denial- I refused to believe he was dead. It happend in a blink of an eye.
Anger- Mad at him for leaving me alone.
Bargaining- Begging God I'd be a better person if you bring him back.
Depression- Just laying in bed crieing wishing it was all just a bad dream.
Acceptance- Remembering the good times and Knowing he is one of my guardian angels and I'll never be alone. Knowing he would want me strong for everyone else.
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Posted 11/5/07
I cry like hell and feel hella depress for days, or months...
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Posted 11/5/07

kougi wrote:

When my uncle died cause of lung cancer due to smoking...I swear on that day onwards that I will never smoke nor will I let someone meet the same fate as him. Meaning, if you're a friend of mine and you smoke...I'll slap you for it..jk jk..I'll try my best to stop him/her.


My Great Grandmother died that way as well. As she lay dieing she just kept smoking, it was a sad sight. That's why I hate smoking and smokers and I see them as weak people.
Posted 11/5/07
cry.....
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26 / M / Chinatown
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Posted 11/5/07
You can never forget, nore can you ever forgive. Anytime someone dies, that's very close to you, you feel as if you did something wrong.. as if you could have prevented it. You get mixed emotions of sadness, anger, and begin to fall into a depts of depression. Why? 'Cause all humen are weak.
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