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HuastecoOtaku wrote:

I would support her an talks to my parents about it.
The funny thing is that this fake situation hits close to home. I'm gay and I know that my parents would kick me out. My brother told me that he wouldn't talk to m if I were gay


That's rough, one of my best friends is gay too and when he came out his parents kept saying he didn't know what he was talking about. Now they at least they tolerate it as long as he doesn't talk about his romantic life at home.

Another situation, an ex-coworker's son was obviously gay, but the guy was in complete denial. He was at least close to his son and spoke highly of his academic and professional achievements, but could never accept his boyfriend as his boyfriend, but rather a family friend.

Of course, yet again religion is to blame in both of these cases....

A few people I know did just that, moved away to a big city (almost always NYC in this case) where they could be true to themselves while at the same time minimizing family problems. Definitely a crappy situation to be in, but at least it sounds like things will eventually get better for you
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I'd stand with my sister (I mean, I'm a lesbian too so) but I'd make an ultimatum with my parents: Either you accept her or you don't accept either of us. It's much easier to throw out one kid than it is to lose both. After that I'll stick with my sister no matter what (girls gotta look out for each other anyway), and do everything I can after that in the case they kick us out finding a shelter to stay at; I would never let my sister end up in the sex trade. I'm not sure there's anything I could say to make the rejection of one's parents go away, but I can tell her that I love her and we're just as much family as our parents are. That's all you can do. If I hadn't come out myself I would do it right after she does.
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i wouldnt care
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meh

the sibling and the parents can do whatever

doesn't have anything to do with me
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I wouldn't care now but back when we were younger, i think i would have been happy if my little sis were gay. Her boyfreind is, or more so was a real dick head.
Not sure how my parents would have reacted. They're pretty old fashioned in alotta ways, or some ways at least.
My mum probably would have been happy also, she hates/hated her boyfriend. And i guess most dads dont like seeing their little girl with a boyfriend? lol
But having said that, she's got two georgeous daughters that iam happy to be an uncle to and of course parents love getting grand kids.

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Werina wrote:

i wouldnt care


Why wouldn't you care?



MrAnimeSK wrote:

I wouldn't care now but back when we were younger, i think i would have been happy if my little sis were gay. Her boyfreind is, or more so was a real dick head.
Not sure how my parents would have reacted. They're pretty old fashioned in alotta ways, or some ways at least.
My mum probably would have been happy also, she hates/hated her boyfriend. And i guess most dads dont like seeing their little girl with a boyfriend? lol
But having said that, she's got two georgeous daughters that iam happy to be an uncle to and of course parents love getting grand kids.



So wait, you wouldn't care if she was a lesbian or you wouldn't care if her parents disowned her?


Sogno- wrote:

meh

the sibling and the parents can do whatever

doesn't have anything to do with me


You wouldn't stand up with and support your sister?
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>Sister
>Doesn't Have anything to do with me.

Wow, what? Fucking what?
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i will support my sister because that's what siblings are for
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I'd be frickin pissed off at my parents. Luckily my parents are pretty accepting so if I had a sister in the first place I'm sure nothing bad would happen if she came out as gay.
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my little sister actually is gay and she's terrified of telling my parents, even though I came out as bisexual and they were pretty okay with it. they don't however really understand homosexuality, so if for some they dare tell her they're not okay with her being gay, I hope they disown me too so that me and her can go somewhere else together and never see them again. my sister is my absolute best friend and if they're not okay with it, they can go to hell.
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Sogno- wrote:

meh

the sibling and the parents can do whatever

doesn't have anything to do with me


That is actually pretty sad that you feel that way. Why are you like that?
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