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Ok, this is gonna be weird. After posting my loneliness-thread-thing the other day. I feel like talking about the proper reason I posted it. I may end up deleting it, it may end up being removied by a mod, I don't know, I just feel like it would be a good discussion point.

So up until about a month ago, I was part of a pretty active community. Over 100 people, very friendly with a decent amount of moderators to help keep control. I'd been there for about a year, and even though I had been known to throw a bit of a hissy whenever people broke the rules and none of the mods bothered to sort it out, I was generally liked and seen as one of the strangest yet crucial members.
And then something happened.
One of the moderators contacted me and told me that apparently, I was being toxic to the community. Then, without talking it out with me, I was unceremoniously permabanned.
Now I'm gonna go out on a limb and say this was not an isolated incident. A group of about 7 or 8 people were banned on that day for the exact same reasons - those reasons being unexplained, only being told that they were being "toxic to the community."
To tell the truth, that shook me up something and then some. I thought that I could trust this group, and then one of the moderators went on a rampage and banned not only myself, but also others who were very loved within the community. Ever since then, I've just kinda felt... hollow. Like that group meant so much to me and now that I've been removed, I'm just not feeling as happy as I once was. If anything, it's one reason I decided to come into these forums, to try and make friends and perhaps figure out why all of this happened.

I'm sorry if this seems unfocused and ranty, but the truth is it's been bugging me to this day and I feel like getting it down somewhere will help me. Hell, some of you may have been in similar situations and you wanna share or you may want to give advice.

All in all, people are dicks sometimes. Sometimes we help each other, sometimes we knock each other down. The only thing we can be is ourselves
Posted 10/9/16
Life always sucks

I survive on memes to keep me from falling into a crippling depression
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TotalQuirk wrote:

Life always sucks

I survive on memes to keep me from falling into a crippling depression


^
This.
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Posted 10/9/16
Life doesn't suck; embrace the agony. Also sounds like an interesting community.
Posted 10/9/16
...So the focus is that life sucks because of unforeseen unfortunate events I assume? Well that is to be of expected as everything changes.

I can only really suggest move onto the next thing as advice.



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Posted 10/9/16
No one likes a goody two shoes snitch. Keep it punk rock and you wont be permabanned here. lol.
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Does life suck?
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Don't get attached, it leads to disappointments
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Everything is temporary.

Your life does not matter, and these comments do not matter.

Everything is temporary.

Everything will eventually rot away. As long as the factor of time continues being the apex predator of the universe, the inevitable decay of all pain and memory is unstoppable.

The world is a lie.

Existence is a lie.

There is only pain and darkness beyond this point.
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People are indeed dicks, but life is beautiful. You can always make new friends and still enjoy life. Sure, you can't just forget what you lost, but you shouldn't forget, it is part of who you are. And if you never lost anything, it wouldn't be so special to have it in the first place.

Sorry if that didn't make any sense. I have a lot of jumbled thoughts in my head and it's hard to get them to form coherently on "paper."
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stars201 wrote:

Don't get attached, it leads to disappointments


^ This.

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Posted 10/9/16
People everywhere can be assholes. You just gotta roll with the punches.
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19 / M / オランダ Holland
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Ah sucks man ^ Try to get in touch with some of the people who were in the group (if you aren't in touch with them already) and make a group elsewhere if you're up for that.

Although I'm sure it won't be the same... it's still something you can do.
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Posted 10/9/16
There's a sometimes to life sucking? It always sucks. You just figure out how to get used to it so it doesn't affect you until it worsens. If the mod just up and banned you for no good reason then screw them. They abused their powers so I'm sure they'll get banned too.
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Posted 10/9/16
Lifes gonna suck when you grow up, when you grow up lifes gonna suck.
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