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Do you know what it feels like lovin someone whos in a rush to throw you away?
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i say just move on.
the girl isn't good enough if she's saying that.
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hard as it may be brah, you shouldnt have to prove your love for her by competiting for her against another man.
Trust me, i got out of a 3 year relationship and im only 16, and during our "break", a week later she found a new guy, and got myself in the same situation as you are in, but i learned, to get over her, and its not worth fighting for her. "If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were"
-You can't hold on to a person against their will. They have to be with you because they want to be. Sometimes a person has to feel freedom for awhile, but then they will look around and say to themselves, "I had it much better with her and I miss her." Then they will be with you willing, and loving it, instead of feeling manipulated, if you had forced them to stay with you and not let them go. If they never return it gives you a chance to start fresh with someone who will appreciate and love you for who you are. Its been 2 weeks, since ive declared that im over her, and believe me man, theres a girl out there, thats prettier, smarter, better personality, etc. You just have to wait. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,
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Live4Lax seems so experience....
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a case that happens all the time, dude you just gotta get the facts right.
she's moved on. if you really love her then you should let her be. let her be happy. be happy for her
i'm sure you can find someone who's right for you. i'm sure of it
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v13tb014sh0 wrote:

i love her tho..


bit too early to be feeling that way imo.
saying that now sorta makes me think that you are obsessed.

imo, you should take some time to yourself, think everything through before you go making rash decisions which might separate you two even more. If she is pitting you against another guy that she likes, its just stupid because she only wants the one who wins. so, if you beat some guy to a girl, that guy will be in the exact situation that you are in right now. don't make others feel pain just because you felt it. share love, not pain man.

if she doesnt' feel the same way then dont love her the way you do now. love her like shes a sibling. that way, you can still hang out, shopping, movies, whatever without any awkward tension.

my 2 cents and 5 minutes.
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Live4Lax wrote:

hard as it may be brah, you shouldnt have to prove your love for her by competiting for her against another man.
Trust me, i got out of a 3 year relationship and im only 16, and during our "break", a week later she found a new guy, and got myself in the same situation as you are in, but i learned, to get over her, and its not worth fighting for her. "If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were"
-You can't hold on to a person against their will. They have to be with you because they want to be. Sometimes a person has to feel freedom for awhile, but then they will look around and say to themselves, "I had it much better with her and I miss her." Then they will be with you willing, and loving it, instead of feeling manipulated, if you had forced them to stay with you and not let them go. If they never return it gives you a chance to start fresh with someone who will appreciate and love you for who you are. Its been 2 weeks, since ive declared that im over her, and believe me man, theres a girl out there, thats prettier, smarter, better personality, etc. You just have to wait. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,


wow in a 3 year relation and during a week break she found a diff guy? id go crazy if it was like that
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v13tb014sh0 wrote:


CrimsonPhoenix wrote:


v13tb014sh0 wrote:

i love her tho..


bit too early to be feeling that way imo.
saying that now sorta makes me think that you are obsessed.

imo, you should take some time to yourself, think everything through before you go making rash decisions which might separate you two even more. If she is pitting you against another guy that she likes, its just stupid because she only wants the one who wins. so, if you beat some guy to a girl, that guy will be in the exact situation that you are in right now. don't make others feel pain just because you felt it. share love, not pain man.

if she doesnt' feel the same way then dont love her the way you do now. love her like shes a sibling. that way, you can still hang out, shopping, movies, whatever without any awkward tension.

my 2 cents and 5 minutes.


ok you know wwhat I am obsessed ok i dont care if i am or not i love this girl alot


Not saying you should at all but...sometimes you have to really think hard about things and see whats for the best. Its easy to think that being with someone is the best thing if you love them, cause thats what you want to believe, but it doesnt always work like that. Think everything through properly and make decisions based on your brain, not your heart...=/

If shes trying to choose between you and someone else, I personally dont think that shes worth it. If she doing that, even if she chooses you, it wont be a true feeling. I hope it goes well for you and would be great if you two get together and are happy, just dont get your view clouded by your emotions =[
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Uwah!!! I feel your pain bro.
This happened two days ago too. This guy I've been flirting with finally asked me out. I said sure. He called me the next night and told me that he actually has a girlfriend and he bought her TONS of presents for valentines day (with an I love you card, too). So I said while holding back my tears: ok, so you really love her huh? and he said yes.
What an ass. I've just been dumped without even starting. Worst is, he acts like nothing happened. I can't get away because we are in the same class
Posted 2/13/08
I dont know if my story applies to this thread.
But i remember listening to the enrique song while it happened.
I was with this guy once. And we were like two completely different people.
With my parents being super strict and stuff, i wasnt allowed out much.
So we hardly saw each other out of school. And in school i was like super shy and he was like the popular, outgoing type of guy.
I guess he got bored so he got with another girl behind my back.
I was really upset and stuff. I heard he felt mean on me and wanted to end the relationship, so ended it with him first.
Its almost a year ago now but it is still quite awkward between us.

Posted 2/13/08

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what do u do when you love someone and they tell you that you have to compete with another man...... i really love this girl and all she can do is say "you have to compete with this guy cause he loves me too" wth am i suppose *sigh* this is always happening to me when i like someone alot they end up leaving me in the end. god i am better off being all alone in this world. i can never get anyone to be with me or love me...



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Oh god... ditch this bitch. If she's making you compete like that she's not worth it to be honest. If she really wanted to be with you, she would! Plus she wouldn't have to make it into a competition between you and some other guy. Trust me, you'll be better off with someone else You're not even that old either so you've got your whole life ahead of ya

Posted 2/13/08

v13tb014sh0 wrote:

what do u do when you love someone and they tell you that you have to compete with another man...... i really love this girl and all she can do is say "you have to compete with this guy cause he loves me too" wth am i suppose *sigh* this is always happening to me when i like someone alot they end up leaving me in the end. god i am better off being all alone in this world. i can never get anyone to be with me or love me...



IM sorry mods if i am breaking rules but lock this forum if it is breaking any rules..



You are a victim of abuse and bully. This girl have absolutely no respect for you and she knows that you'll do anything for her. Hence, the deal to compete with the other guy. She's probably sleeping with the other guy anyway. Sorry if this seems harsh but chances are she will not be with you even if you succeeded at doing whatever she wants. As far as she's concerned, you are just an entertainment. Trust me, a good boy like you deserves a girl worthy of your love and mark my word this girl is not one of them. It's not my place to say forget about her and move on because the choice is entirely yours...I hope you rethink about this for your own happiness.

Again, I apologize for you think I am harsh.
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Not that I think this thread is stupid or anything, but there are just a lot of love/relationship threads if you use the forum search feature!

Sorry, locked.
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