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100 / M / CALIFORNIA woop woop
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Posted 10/25/16
I have and It was too much for me. Chick was fine and in the beginning it was good but then you will get the drama yo. Baby daddy drama, kids grandparents drama... Uhh... Maybe if I had a kid it would have been different, but I wish I could take back those 8 months.
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38 / M / 地球
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Posted 10/25/16
I wouldn't mind
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24 / M / Long Island, NY
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Posted 10/25/16
I really don't have problems with kids so yes.
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27 / M / New York
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There's too much drama that comes with that kind of baggage. The kids, the kids' father, the girl and the ex, etc. Who the fuck needs that?

Unless you're an older lady or gentleman, single, and the kids are either in college or have their own lives then it's a terrible idea.
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Posted 10/26/16
I would try to get more information about what happened between them first, for instance if there was a relationship issue or something that made them break up to begin with. Other then that I'd probably say sure
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23 / M / Richmond, Indiana
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Posted 11/2/16
It really depends, but I tend to not want to date anyone with a kid right now. It just isn't the right time for me.
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26 / M / United States
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Posted 11/2/16
In general, no. Plus I wouldn't want to deal with the real father of the kids who, let's face it, will always be a part of their kids life. Getting involved with someone with kids is almost like getting caught up in a love triangle.
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Posted 11/2/16

AlastorCrow wrote:

There's too much drama that comes with that kind of baggage. The kids, the kids' father, the girl and the ex, etc. Who the fuck needs that?

Unless you're an older lady or gentleman, single, and the kids are either in college or have their own lives then it's a terrible idea.


I don't know why but your comment just came off so rude and vaulger like you smoke weed and call your girlfriend a b1tch.


The majority of people here seem against it. To me it depends on the person it's work raising kids so i'd have to really care about the person AND i'd like to be financial stable enough to take care of them too.

So yes i'd date someone with kids.
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Posted 11/2/16
Nope. I don't have a problem with kids. I'm just not ready to be around them too much.
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Posted 11/2/16
No. I wouldn't be comfortable in that type of atmosphere
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27 / M / IL,US
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Posted 11/2/16
Depends.
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Posted 11/2/16
No way, I'm not the kind of person who would want a kid of my own. My biggest turnoffs in any kind of dating are if you smoke or already have a kid with you. Mainly because smoking is disgusting and hurts people in so many ways, meanwhile children to me are a financial disaster for people my age. They cost so much money to raise and don't allow you to do anything because you always have to take care of them.
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16 / F / Kuto-ko Tokyo Japan
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Posted 11/2/16
Why not? I love children and I want to play with them and cook for them
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52 / M / Bay Area
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Posted 11/2/16
yes being older people have kids from divorce or other circumstances including myself its a challenge but definitely doable
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Posted 11/2/16
nope already a pain being an aunty . there very boistrous n im very good with children but i dont want to be in that situation .where the person doubt spliting from the person who had kids with.
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