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That presumes abstinence is pressured. I leave open the idea that if a person willingly gives up sex and is not pressured to do so that they will experience no frustration.


Not providing birth control is pressuring abstinence, unless you aren't against contraceptives then we're in agreement on that. Not really, willing or not you still feel frustrated. (unless you're asexual I guess?)
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I don't know about that, have you seen the erotica that came out of the Victorian period? Pretty damn good stuff, plus sex after being denied and frustrated is also damn good stuff.


Alright then...
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Minsc wrote:
That presumes abstinence is pressured. I leave open the idea that if a person willingly gives up sex and is not pressured to do so that they will experience no frustration.


I used to think similar to this--then I realized humans won't ever work like that. Waste of breath. Not everyone can satisfy themselves like I can.


Posted 10/31/16

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I think it's the same as female birth control

up to the person, kinda unfair if only the female is expected to take it


Same
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Not providing birth control is pressuring abstinence, unless you aren't against contraceptives then we're in agreement on that. Not really, willing or not you still feel frustrated. (unless you're asexual I guess?)


I'm not a fan of chemical birth control in the same sense I'm not a fan of anti-depressants because of how they mess with the body.

In a hierarchy I'd rather have reduced pleasure and wear a condom than have my partner mess with their body.

It would be foolish to say I wouldn't be frustrated if I wanted to have sex with a woman and she didn't with me. Frustration is frustration, it happens.

I've had sex three times, at the age of thirty two, with one woman. It wasn't something I could get into as it felt like I was doing it for the sake of doing it. The two of us never did allow ourselves the time to build a deep connection. Knowing that a direct consequence of sex is babies I find it wise to have restraint. I do have plenty of experience with my left hand. A part of me is curious to know what life would be like if I gave up masturbation. Whether or not I'm asexual, feel free to make that judgement. My aim is not to be too concerned with the label those around may or may not give me.
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Ranwolf wrote:


GooseMcDucks wrote:


Ranwolf wrote:
Yeah cause there are absolutely no negative side effects to messing with hormonal levels at all..Nope 100% safe as can be.
But its fun to have a mixed breed when they get children afterwards... XP


Look we already have that, it's called the South. It ain't working for the Yanks why would it work for anyone else?


LMFAO
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Alright then...


You should try it. 100% recommended.

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I'll say it once and I'll say it again.

Pull out game to strong.

Seriously I would never want someone to be on the pill unless it's their choice...... second, why the Fuck would I want to take a pill? AND third, nobody is forced to take the pill, and if you are, congratulations you have no standards.

Bunch of horn dogs I tell ya. You know they like it, but then they bitch about how it hurts in a week. Gee I wonder why? Settle down, cross your legs and think for a second, and this applies to men as well. Some people just make me laugh, too much apparently.
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redokami wrote:

LMFAO


Says the chick from Virginia.
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ClothStatue wrote:


I don't know about that, have you seen the erotica that came out of the Victorian period? Pretty damn good stuff, plus sex after being denied and frustrated is also damn good stuff.


Alright then...


Ya should try it mate. Get a boy/girl/transgender, whatever floats your particular boat . Then come back to me and see what ya say.
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Says the chick from Virginia.


am I not supposed to find something funny?
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am I not supposed to find something funny?


Feel free to laugh , it's just usually people from Virginia tend to get offended at jokes about the South in my experience. I am never entirely sure why.
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redokami wrote:




am I not supposed to find something funny?


Feel free to laugh , it's just usually people from Virginia tend to get offended at jokes about the South in my experience. I am never entirely sure why.


I don't know either, we ARE the south but..yea

I make fun of the south too lol
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Ya should try it mate. Get a boy/girl/transgender, whatever floats your particular boat . Then come back to me and see what ya say.



You should try it. 100% recommended.


Maybe one day friends ^.^ I'll need to really trust someone to do something like that with her. But until then I'll stick to the romance-y stuff.
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Yeah I'd rather not fuck with a delicate and complex endocrine system, and If I was really worried,anxious,neurotic about pregnancy for whatever reason I could just stick with oral and some toys.
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