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Posted 11/3/16 , edited 11/3/16

Hellhunter22 wrote:

So I've been in a few relationships now where a girl would date me and then after a few months they would get bored or things would get "complicated" and then they would break up with me. However, every time between like 1-4 months they always come back saying that they like me now way more than they did when we dated, have no idea why they broke up with me, and just really miss me in general.

This has been the fourth time this has happened to me so I'm just curious if anyone here has been in similar situations or if this is really just a common thing in general for people.


It may be that you weren't what they wanted in a boyfriend at the time or mabe they were inconsiderate enough to look for someone better then expect you to take them back afterwards.
But it sounds like they're not gf material.
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Posted 11/3/16 , edited 11/3/16
This happens all the time. I'm currently dating a woman I was in a relationship with in college and broke up and got back together with my ex-fiancee "numerous" times over three decades. I think it simply falls into the thought category of "this is going good but isn't perfect...lets see if there's something better for me out there" coupled with the resultant thought of "nope, it definitely doesn't seem like it". It's like to most videogamers, if you screw up along the way you don't restart, you just reload a past save. Think of her seeing you as that "past save".
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HideyoshiJP wrote:

Son, it sounds like you've been in crappy relationships. I hope you haven't taken anybody up on the whole "coming back" thing.



I hope he hasn't.

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I've been rejected so many times I'm like turned into a girl myself, need to know their mentality you know


P.S. Oh my god, they're getting immuned
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It didn't work out with the other guy so she came back.
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Posted 11/5/16

sexyblack_anime wrote:


HideyoshiJP wrote:

Son, it sounds like you've been in crappy relationships. I hope you haven't taken anybody up on the whole "coming back" thing.



I hope he hasn't.


Unfortunately yes at first because I believed in giving people second chance kinda like, "oh well she just messed up I guess. It happens I'll just let this one go if the relationship is alright." Boyyyyy have I learned since then lol
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