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Posted 11/8/16
Very poorly
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Ryulightorb wrote:


RobinWing wrote:

I don't have friends, or a relationship!



doesn't that seem...lonely?

dont get it wrong im surrounded by humans 80% of the time.

i just never talk to them (apart from questions)
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RobinWing wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


RobinWing wrote:

I don't have friends, or a relationship!



doesn't that seem...lonely?

dont get it wrong im surrounded by humans 80% of the time.

i just never talk to them (apart from questions)


Don't you find that lonely....? i mean yeah your around people but no deep connections are formed.
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As for that....

Im working on it.
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RobinWing wrote:



As for that....

Im working on it.


Well if you ever need a friend to talk to im always looking for new friends
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Whatever happens, happens. That's how I look at it. No point letting it affect me. I trust many people I meet until I have a reason not to trust them.
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You ever thought it might not be them but you? Do you consider yourself a person with a positive personality? Remember you attract what you put out.

And yeah, you're 19 dude. Still a baby in the womb. Teens and young adults tend to be the biggest dicks. Just doing mean things and hurting feelings for sake of doing it. Don't abandon trusting people, because it's a wonderful thing when you can. Try to associate with people who give off vibes of maturity. Don't waste your time with people who will bring you down.

I was part of a group of "friends" in high school who were jerks with very little loyalty to each other. We'd rip on each other just to make us feel good about our own shitty selves. After going to college they started to blow me off every time I came to visit. So I burnt the fuck out of that bridge and started hanging out with some genuinely cool people. Still very good friends with most of them and eventually married one
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zangeif123 wrote:

You ever thought it might not be them but you? Do you consider yourself a person with a positive personality? Remember you attract what you put out.

And yeah, you're 19 dude. Still a baby in the womb. Teens and young adults tend to be the biggest dicks. Just doing mean things and hurting feelings for sake of doing it. Don't abandon trusting people, because it's a wonderful thing when you can. Try to associate with people who give off vibes of maturity. Don't waste your time with people who will bring you down.

I was part of a group of "friends" in high school who were jerks with very little loyalty to each other. We'd rip on each other just to make us feel good about our own shitty selves. After going to college they started to blow me off every time I came to visit. So I burnt the fuck out of that bridge and started hanging out with some genuinely cool people. Still very good friends with most of them and eventually married one


Yes I have considered that but I am who I am and I love who I am I'm a pessimist sure but I'm kind to everyone I can be unless they wrong me and try to be the best I can be. (Though I have done wrong in the past but I have grown and learnt )

But you are right I shouldn't give off trusting due to a few people.
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You do get all of the CR though Ryu
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I like to bottle them up inside until I blow up
You know
Normal shit
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Don't mind me... I'm just finishing up,here...
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Well, in my experience. I've never dated anyone before, nor had a boyfriend; so i cant talk about relationships. but im always critical of people before i trust them. I wish i wasn't though. Hmmmmmmm, i mostly deal with it by talking to the person first, just don't give out your personal information.
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Posted 11/10/16
I don't, I cry ;v;
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Posted 11/13/16
The thing with trust is coming to the understanding that we can not be 100% trusting of people around us.
Posted 11/13/16
I try to distance myself if I know that I have trust issues with someone. I have major trust issues when it comes to the opposite sex (except for my brother). It's obvious that I have trust issues too. I'm always accusing and blowing things out of proportion.
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