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How do you deal with trust issues?
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Posted 11/13/16 , edited 11/13/16

usuibj wrote:

I try to distance myself if I know that I have trust issues with someone. I have major trust issues when it comes to the opposite sex (except for my brother). It's obvious that I have trust issues too. I'm always accusing and blowing things out of proportion.


Never heard of someone having trust issues specifically when its the opposite sex but i can't judge i don't trust other guys much either ...XD
Posted 11/13/16 , edited 11/13/16

Ryulightorb wrote:


usuibj wrote:

I try to distance myself if I know that I have trust issues with someone. I have major trust issues when it comes to the opposite sex (except for my brother). It's obvious that I have trust issues too. I'm always accusing and blowing things out of proportion.


Never heard of someone having trust issues specifically when its the opposite sex but i can't judge i don't trust other guys much either ...XD


Well I don't trust girls either, but it's more of guys that I don't trust, haha.
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Posted 11/13/16 , edited 11/13/16

usuibj wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


usuibj wrote:

I try to distance myself if I know that I have trust issues with someone. I have major trust issues when it comes to the opposite sex (except for my brother). It's obvious that I have trust issues too. I'm always accusing and blowing things out of proportion.


Never heard of someone having trust issues specifically when its the opposite sex but i can't judge i don't trust other guys much either ...XD


Well I don't trust girls either, but it's more of guys that I don't trust, haha.


curious any reason why?
I mean for me i have a reason to have trust issues.
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Posted 11/13/16 , edited 11/14/16
I usually don't trust anyone, it's just it. I try not to interact with people that much, except If we work together. But I had some exceptions, but they all passed away.
Posted 11/14/16 , edited 11/14/16
I have trust issues. I don't really deal with it.
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I just isolate myself from him/her
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Posted 4/23/17 , edited 4/23/17
I'm far too trusting haha
I'd tell a bunch of strangers my address just because I could pfff

As for romantically - of course I'm still as trusting. I trust them enough to dump them so they can find nicer people lol
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Posted 4/23/17 , edited 4/23/17
I deal with it by realizing that we're all human. There are going to bad seeds by default, but I don't let it get to me otherwise I'd miss out on tons of great people.
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Posted 4/24/17 , edited 4/24/17
oh gosh.

cheated 6 times !
by 6 different woman ?

over 6 different phrases of life ?

it must feels dreadful.

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Posted 4/24/17 , edited 4/24/17

summerbeat wrote:

oh gosh.

cheated 6 times !
by 6 different woman ?

over 6 different phrases of life ?

it must feels dreadful.



it does even once placing your full trust in someone just to have it ripped from you no matter what hurts... though my friends have even told me bad people tend to gravitate towards me so i'm to blame for not listening to them earlier >.<
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Posted 4/24/17 , edited 4/24/17
I tend to isolate myself to avoid problems like this.

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Posted 4/24/17 , edited 4/24/17

Shipwright wrote:

I tend to isolate myself to avoid problems like this.



lmao
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Posted 4/24/17 , edited 4/25/17
Trust no one, until they've proved they can be trusted.

This is my binary opinion. I don't care under what circumstance or reasoning you may have whether or not they have proved they can be trusted, either you do, or you don't.
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Posted 4/25/17 , edited 4/25/17
Ouch, that sounds painfull.
I know the feeling thou. In my two latest relationships my so cheated on me.
Last one was an 8 years long relationship and the woman i was with lived in doubble relationships for the last 1,5 years.
Luckely for me the other guy found out and called me up wich is kind of good.
Problem i am having is that i still miss her alot, and it turns out she have some wierd kind of addiction to feeling wanted. I didnt even know such a thing existed.

Anyhow i guess i am stupid as I still trust people. Guess i trust everyone untill they prove that they are not trustworthy.
And it hurts as hell for a while but eventually the pain fades and you get ready to start over.
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Posted 4/25/17 , edited 4/26/17
I try to put it aside. But I'll be honest and say that you shouldn't be pressured to trust anyone until you've known them long enough and they've earned your trust.
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