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Panic and struggle to get out of it.

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Freeze up. Why the hell would a random stranger hug you (or me)? I understand it's probably not malicious, but that's really creepy.

On a side note, this is the funniest thread I've seen in a long time.
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On a cold day, I'll hug back.
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Lightly push them away and check if I still have my things.
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Congratulation!
Almost everyone of you people are suffering from stunted growth as human beings.. probably your parents fault for not holding you as a baby.

back when I was rock star ( about 30 years ago) I got hugged by strangers all the time.. ( I have video proof of that too)

sure, the first few times was a little weird.. but like anything in this life, you learn how to deal with it.

and it came with perks too...

sometimes it lead to a great all night Party.

sometimes it lead to full on orgies.

Once it lead to jail

another time it lead to my 2nd wife.

once it lead to a "tranny surprize"

but it was NEVER dull.

physical contact between humans is something every one of us craves EVEN if we try to deny it.

LEARN how to be a human folks

Humans like the sense of touch... and if you don't.. then you will die a very lonely person.....probably staring at a computer screen.

I blame computers and the internet for attitudes like this.
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Posted 11/7/16

Mastersluthier wrote:

Congratulation!
Almost everyone of you people are suffering from stunted growth as human beings.. probably your parents fault for not holding you as a baby.


Well you're half right in my case.



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Yeah no I don't like total strangers touching me without even asking before, would likely panic a bit. Respect personal space. I'm not lonely, that's not the issue haha.
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Run away, quickly. Nobody is supposed to see me blush.
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nniikaa wrote:

Yeah no I don't like total strangers touching me without even asking before, would likely panic a bit. Respect personal space. I'm not lonely, that's not the issue haha.


Yeah your right, females do have a very different "mode of operation" to be sure.

Ladies HAVE to stay safe. and I imagine a 20 year old Swedish female would be in EXTREMELY high demand for a feel or two. lol
so you have my sympathy on that point.


so I'll temper my statement this way.

"Hugs" should not automatically present a "problem"..
they should represent an "opportunity" ... provided the individuals involved uses them appropriately...
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Mastersluthier wrote:

Congratulation!
Almost everyone of you people are suffering from stunted growth as human beings.. probably your parents fault for not holding you as a baby.

back when I was rock star ( about 30 years ago) I got hugged by strangers all the time.. ( I have video proof of that too)

...

I blame computers and the internet for attitudes like this.


Meh, most people aren't public figures. Normal contact from meeting strangers is a handshake at most. Combine that with the higher than average concentration of introverts on internet boards, and you'll find more often than not people who don't like unsolicited touch.

I wouldn't call that being stunted, just unfamiliarity with people breaching their personal space. I used to hate being hugged around most of the posters' ages. The only thing that really normalizes that kind of contact is experience, which isn't always a necessity for most people.
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Sometimes I am feeling so down, I just need a hug, y'know?

EDIT: I only would let people I trust to hug me, not completely random strangers!
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Probably ask what are you doing.
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ive had this happen to me.. it was very awkward..
i just walked away
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If it'd be a girl i'd feel weird because i don't like the boob x boob touch. If it'd be guy i'd feel disgusted if it smell like pigs.
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Posted 11/7/16

Mastersluthier wrote:

Congratulation!
Almost everyone of you people are suffering from stunted growth as human beings.. probably your parents fault for not holding you as a baby.

back when I was rock star ( about 30 years ago) I got hugged by strangers all the time.. ( I have video proof of that too)

sure, the first few times was a little weird.. but like anything in this life, you learn how to deal with it.

and it came with perks too...

sometimes it lead to a great all night Party.

sometimes it lead to full on orgies.

Once it lead to jail

another time it lead to my 2nd wife.

once it lead to a "tranny surprize"

but it was NEVER dull.

physical contact between humans is something every one of us craves EVEN if we try to deny it.

LEARN how to be a human folks

Humans like the sense of touch... and if you don't.. then you will die a very lonely person.....probably staring at a computer screen.

I blame computers and the internet for attitudes like this.


I was going to say something but I find myself agreeing with this.
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