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Posted 27 days ago

Netane_23 wrote:

Move on as best you can, it sucks but taking risks is part of life. It might take a while but you will get over it. Don't spend too much time around her because you have better things to do. If you do see her with someone else don't let it bother you. Don't be upset or happy or anything. They're just like any other couple, they don't matter to you. Go out there and try again.


Thanks man!
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Posted 27 days ago

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hmmmm i have double standards.
for myself , i won't stay frd with the person who reject me.
or it might be toooooooo awkward to stay as frds right ?
but if i am the one who is rejecting ,i will definitely already have friendzone him, he is the one who is escaping from the friendzone area.


You see, I never get myself friendzone, I'm more of a nerd, but sigh, getting friendzone might be good, at least to get to know some females, sigh
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Posted 27 days ago , edited 27 days ago

summerbeat wrote:

hmmmm i have double standards.
for myself , i won't stay frd with the person who reject me.
or it might be toooooooo awkward to stay as frds right ?
but if i am the one who is rejecting ,i will definitely already have friendzone him, he is the one who is escaping from the friendzone area.


Well guys need to wise up and start being honest with themselves. If they only want a relationship with someone and they are shot down why the heck are they sticking around?

Never mind, I remember why now:






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You see, I never get myself friendzone, I'm more of a nerd, but sigh, getting friendzone might be good, at least to get to know some females, sigh



Na dude, our poor brother-in-arms are suffering In that depthless pit of despair, no reason to want to join them.
Simply having female friends does not equal being friendzoned, that is referring to being trapped in a situation of being rejected and for some dumb reason sticking around as their backup option at best, their stupid lackey at worst. Sure go out and meet some new friends of whatever gender, but don't make yourself someone's 2nd or 3rd string romantic fallback option or slave voluntarily just to gain experience. If anything no experience> bad/toxic experience.

Besides, the best type love is when a decent friendship turns into romance, how my parents met, my brother and sister-in-law met and my other brother and his girlfriend. Sure it's rare, but from what I seen it seems to be the only time anything lasts for any meaningful amount of time.

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Posted 27 days ago , edited 27 days ago
I won't sugar coat it.

Cut your losses and move forward. Nothing good will come of it if you keep feelings for someone you are not with.
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Posted 27 days ago

fredreload wrote:


summerbeat wrote:

hmmmm i have double standards.
for myself , i won't stay frd with the person who reject me.
or it might be toooooooo awkward to stay as frds right ?
but if i am the one who is rejecting ,i will definitely already have friendzone him, he is the one who is escaping from the friendzone area.


You see, I never get myself friendzone, I'm more of a nerd, but sigh, getting friendzone might be good, at least to get to know some females, sigh


hahahahahhahaha amusing

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Posted 27 days ago

fredreload wrote:


summerbeat wrote:

hmmmm i have double standards.
for myself , i won't stay frd with the person who reject me.
or it might be toooooooo awkward to stay as frds right ?
but if i am the one who is rejecting ,i will definitely already have friendzone him, he is the one who is escaping from the friendzone area.


You see, I never get myself friendzone, I'm more of a nerd, but sigh, getting friendzone might be good, at least to get to know some females, sigh


but some girls know how to friendzone a guy discreetly and skillfully .
so skillfully that you won't know .
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Posted 27 days ago

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summerbeat wrote:

hmmmm i have double standards.
for myself , i won't stay frd with the person who reject me.
or it might be toooooooo awkward to stay as frds right ?
but if i am the one who is rejecting ,i will definitely already have friendzone him, he is the one who is escaping from the friendzone area.


Well guys need to wise up and start being honest with themselves. If they only want a relationship with someone and they are shot down why the heck are they sticking around?

Never mind, I remember why now:






fredreload wrote:


You see, I never get myself friendzone, I'm more of a nerd, but sigh, getting friendzone might be good, at least to get to know some females, sigh



Na dude, our poor brother-in-arms are suffering In that depthless pit of despair, no reason to want to join them.
Simply having female friends does not equal being friendzoned, that is referring to being trapped in a situation of being rejected and for some dumb reason sticking around as their backup option at best, their stupid lackey at worst. Sure go out and meet some new friends of whatever gender, but don't make yourself someone's 2nd or 3rd string romantic fallback option or slave voluntarily just to gain experience. If anything no experience> bad/toxic experience.

Besides, the best type love is when a decent friendship turns into romance, how my parents met, my brother and sister-in-law met and my other brother and his girlfriend. Sure it's rare, but from what I seen it seems to be the only time anything lasts for any meaningful amount of time.


I can't help but chase after girls based on their looks, I feel like Brock from Pokemon
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burn the bridge. It's not worth it Your ex is your ex for a reason. She isn't going to make a good reason for the same reason you broke up over


Nice
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Posted 27 days ago

summerbeat wrote:


fredreload wrote:


summerbeat wrote:

hmmmm i have double standards.
for myself , i won't stay frd with the person who reject me.
or it might be toooooooo awkward to stay as frds right ?
but if i am the one who is rejecting ,i will definitely already have friendzone him, he is the one who is escaping from the friendzone area.


You see, I never get myself friendzone, I'm more of a nerd, but sigh, getting friendzone might be good, at least to get to know some females, sigh


but some girls know how to friendzone a guy discreetly and skillfully .
so skillfully that you won't know .


Must have a pretty good statistical mind
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Do whatever you're comfortable with
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Getting jealous is pretty much inevitable.
And since you were rejected, you can't really much complain about it.

And it's going to be so AWKWARD if she decides to date or is dating someone else when you're still affected.

If you really didn't invest much of your time and effort,
at least not THAT deep... You should probably just move on.

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burn the bridge. It's not worth it Your ex is your ex for a reason. She isn't going to make a good reason for the same reason you broke up over
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I won't sugar coat it.

Cut your losses and move forward. Nothing good will come of it if you keep feelings for someone you are not with.


well you don't get to choose if your feelings stay but essentially this.
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Posted 27 days ago , edited 27 days ago
You can't be friends with a ex. I tried it twice ended 2 diffrent ways neither went well.

The first time due to my indecision she dissapeared, basicially the second time we went the hug and ended up sleeping together and getting back together to be miserable a horrible relationship.
It also makes it harder to move on because your feelings are still there to some degree making it not easy to put them somewhere else.
You can't love someone ever if you still close to someone you loved.
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Posted 27 days ago

sexyblack_anime wrote:

Getting jealous is pretty much inevitable.
And since you were rejected, you can't really much complain about it.

And it's going to be so AWKWARD if she decides to date or is dating someone else when you're still affected.

If you really didn't invest much of your time and effort,
at least not THAT deep... You should probably just move on.



You hurt my feelings, jk
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Posted 27 days ago

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You can't be friends with a ex. I tried it twice ended 2 diffrent ways neither went well.

The first time due to my indecision she dissapeared, basicially the second time we went the hug and ended up sleeping together and getting back together to be miserable a horrible relationship.
It also makes it harder to move on because your feelings are still there to some degree making it not easy to put them somewhere else.
You can't love someone ever if you still close to someone you loved.


Getting back together with an ex @@, even I'm not that indecisive lol, I'm not sure if I'm designed to do that, right you got a point, for some reason I can't find someone better than her, beautiful, rich, and graceful when I haven't even met the person, she's like a princess from some kingdom
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Posted 27 days ago

fredreload wrote:


sexyblack_anime wrote:

Getting jealous is pretty much inevitable.
And since you were rejected, you can't really much complain about it.

And it's going to be so AWKWARD if she decides to date or is dating someone else when you're still affected.

If you really didn't invest much of your time and effort,
at least not THAT deep... You should probably just move on.



You hurt my feelings, jk



Sorry, didn't mean to.
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Posted 27 days ago , edited 27 days ago

fredreload wrote:


Kerst wrote:

You can't be friends with a ex. I tried it twice ended 2 diffrent ways neither went well.

The first time due to my indecision she dissapeared, basicially the second time we went the hug and ended up sleeping together and getting back together to be miserable a horrible relationship.
It also makes it harder to move on because your feelings are still there to some degree making it not easy to put them somewhere else.
You can't love someone ever if you still close to someone you loved.


Getting back together with an ex @@, even I'm not that indecisive lol, I'm not sure if I'm designed to do that, right you got a point, for some reason I can't find someone better than her, beautiful, rich, and graceful when I haven't even met the person, she's like a princess from some kingdom


Plus to love someone and have them never say it to you or love you is heart wrenching epsecially if you know they are with someone else.
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Posted 27 days ago

Kerst wrote:


fredreload wrote:


Kerst wrote:

You can't be friends with a ex. I tried it twice ended 2 diffrent ways neither went well.

The first time due to my indecision she dissapeared, basicially the second time we went the hug and ended up sleeping together and getting back together to be miserable a horrible relationship.
It also makes it harder to move on because your feelings are still there to some degree making it not easy to put them somewhere else.
You can't love someone ever if you still close to someone you loved.


Getting back together with an ex @@, even I'm not that indecisive lol, I'm not sure if I'm designed to do that, right you got a point, for some reason I can't find someone better than her, beautiful, rich, and graceful when I haven't even met the person, she's like a princess from some kingdom


Plus to love someone and have them never say it to you or love you is heart wrenching epsecially if you know they are with someone else.


Well, I don't really know if she is with someone lol, but I'd at least want her to respond
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