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As you know, wait game is either a guy and girl in a relationship where either one is eagerly waiting for a response from the other one. Or for those without a relationship it just means this guy or girl waiting for ever to become a lover to be with the other one. So for all the wait games I've "played", I've failed in just about all of them. Either the girl never responds, or I have lost my interest. So how many of you played the wait game, how long was it, and did you win or lose the game?
Posted 11/14/16
"As you know"
*shakes head*
*keeps reading*
"relationship"
lol
*exits thread*

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Posted 11/14/16

SirBacon12 wrote:

"As you know"
*shakes head*
*keeps reading*
"relationship"
lol
*exits thread*



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Posted 11/14/16
I don't wait for people, if there's something to 'wait' for then that means it's not worth the trouble or the time because the other person obviously isn't invested.
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Posted 11/14/16

IshokuOsero wrote:

I don't wait for people, if there's something to 'wait' for then that means it's not worth the trouble or the time because the other person obviously isn't invested.


Well, sometimes you need to be patient, that is the catch of the wait game. Until you find the right person
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Posted 11/14/16

fredreload wrote:


IshokuOsero wrote:

I don't wait for people, if there's something to 'wait' for then that means it's not worth the trouble or the time because the other person obviously isn't invested.


Well, sometimes you need to be patient, that is the catch of the wait game. Until you find the right person


Patient for what? Wait implies waiting for a specific person in this case, I felt. Not just generally waiting for someone decent to actually come around that you don't know about prior.
Posted 11/15/16
It's not really a game.

If they don't get back to me, that's on them.

I will be moving on with my life.
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Posted 11/15/16 , edited 11/15/16

starshots wrote:

It's not really a game.

If they don't get back to me, that's on them.

I will be moving on with my life.


You sound like my sister = =. Well maybe the girl is having a moment, and after like 5 days she decided hey I want to be with you and by the time that happened you've moved on to the next girl already. Well but that is the right mentality, chance is quite slim I must say
Posted 11/15/16
You win some and lose some. Also I smell salt.
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You win some and lose some. Also I smell salt.


Sigh, I probably got friend zoned. She has the aw I will miss you type of mentality right now. That cannot be corrected based on my dictionary. She sort of has the, I want to be your girl stuff, but it's getting tiring for us both, I should fall back a bit and make her jealous, or just take a break
Posted 11/15/16

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JRPGNATION wrote:

You win some and lose some. Also I smell salt.


Sigh, I probably got friend zoned. She has the aw I will miss you type of mentality right now. That cannot be corrected based on my dictionary. She sort of has the, I want to be your girl stuff, but it's getting tiring for us both, I should fall back a bit and make her jealous, or just take a break


I advice against the jealous thing. FEMALES ARE SCARY WHEN IN ALPHA MODE.

Give her and yourself some space. Then after awhile you could just talk about it with her and determine where you stand.

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Posted 11/15/16 , edited 11/15/16

JRPGNATION wrote:


fredreload wrote:


JRPGNATION wrote:

You win some and lose some. Also I smell salt.


Sigh, I probably got friend zoned. She has the aw I will miss you type of mentality right now. That cannot be corrected based on my dictionary. She sort of has the, I want to be your girl stuff, but it's getting tiring for us both, I should fall back a bit and make her jealous, or just take a break


I advice against the jealous thing. FEMALES ARE SCARY WHEN IN ALPHA MODE.

Give her and yourself some space. Then after awhile you could just talk about it with her and determine where you stand.



Thanks for the advice. I need some suggestions about getting her to reply. I've been sending her emails for 2~3 years. I'm not sure if she's reading them at all. I'm also blocked from her Facebook so I can only browse her fan page = =. I really want to get this relationship going
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Posted 11/15/16
I do not know how people who are in relationships can put up with the idiotic horse crap.
Posted 11/15/16

fredreload wrote:


JRPGNATION wrote:


fredreload wrote:


JRPGNATION wrote:

You win some and lose some. Also I smell salt.


Sigh, I probably got friend zoned. She has the aw I will miss you type of mentality right now. That cannot be corrected based on my dictionary. She sort of has the, I want to be your girl stuff, but it's getting tiring for us both, I should fall back a bit and make her jealous, or just take a break


I advice against the jealous thing. FEMALES ARE SCARY WHEN IN ALPHA MODE.

Give her and yourself some space. Then after awhile you could just talk about it with her and determine where you stand.



Thanks for the advice. I need some suggestions about getting her to reply. I've been sending her emails for 2~3 years. I'm not sure if she's reading them at all. I'm also blocked from her Facebook so I can only browse her fan page = =. I really want to get this relationship going


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I've never socialised with someone offline outside of a school or work environment excluding family and family friends.
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