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You've got to be a pretty big loser to be in the situation where you hate anyone that's happy. Instead of being a crybaby bitch and so bitter, why not find your own source of happiness? Idk too much about you minus the fact you always run to cr every time a 2week relationship goes wrong or you lose a friend but if that's all that makes you feel this way, then rip to majority of your chances at having actual friends.

To answer your question, no, I don't. I do dislike people rubbing their relationship all in my face, but that's a rarity.
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SirBacon12 wrote:

No, it makes me happy when others are happy


Such a good guy, you make me realize how much kinder I used to be, rip.
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SirBacon12 wrote:

No, it makes me happy when others are happy


You sir are a gentleman and a scholar.
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Ryulightorb wrote:

So it always annoys me to see people always happy whether it be a relationship ( i hate seeing those and tend to avoid going in public so i don't have to see that) or people smiling 24/7.

I honestly hate it and wish i saw more frowns i mean frowns are sad and bad but the amount of happy people smiling all the time around me makes me feel sick and it just feels artificial.

I have only noticed one person ever stand out and they were someone who were not putting on a fake smile.

I dunno it just bugs me and after recent events in my life i have stopped going out nearly full stop due to how much it all annoys me



You should live in Finland. The official way to celebrate your 21st birthday is to sit in a dark corner and drink till you pass out alone.
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Dogempire wrote:

Not really, I just hate those types of people who rub their relationship in your face.


Like RYU screaming he loves someone everytime he fancies someone for a total of 5 hours?



You're 19 and you thinking/talking like a 16 year old.


Not sure where you get that idea that I do that as I have only ever made a big deal about someone publically what once?

Also 16 well I have always been behind
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You sound like you need a hug.
I think it's normal to be irritated by people who don't seem genuine when they smile. It irritates me too and makes me uncomfortable because it's not that hard to notice. But nah, naturally happy people are usually pretty pleasant for me to be around. Sure, they come off as patronizing if I'm in a crappy mood, but for the most part it gets contagious.

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I understand why it would upset you to see everyone around you smile while you don't feel the same way they do. However, smiling does happen to be a good method to encourage oneself to think in a positive manner. The term "fake smile" is pretty vague and difficult to define. Some people force themselves to smile in order to feel better while others intend to fool the people around them by acting overly friendly.

That is my first interpretation of the message you posted in the thread. Another theory would be that you don't like the type of people who constantly have a smile on their face. That's totally fine. There are people who do not grin all the time. Although I think you're seeing what you want to see when you think that everyone around you is cheerful. That seems weird to me.
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I like it when couples have a happy relationship
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TrickedMJ wrote:

You've got to be a pretty big loser to be in the situation where you hate anyone that's happy. Instead of being a crybaby bitch and so bitter, why not find your own source of happiness? Idk too much about you minus the fact you always run to cr every time a 2week relationship goes wrong or you lose a friend but if that's all that makes you feel this way, then rip to majority of your chances at having actual friends.

To answer your question, no, I don't. I do dislike people rubbing their relationship all in my face, but that's a rarity.


My own source of happiness is others and them being my friends.

Also I never used to run or break down after a friend abandons me but after 16 years of it you lose all strength.
I have a few actual friends but I'm sure they will betray me also one day like everyone else.

I don't hate people that are happy I hate that they have to rub it in people's faces by being like that all the time.
All I can do is wait and hope my friends I have left don't betray me like the rest and hope I make more in the coming few years.
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Not at all, I like seeing people happy.
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yeah sometimes
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No. I'm somewhat akin to an exclusive island. I don't pay much attention to other people's so-called "happiness," not unless I'm worried for them. The concept of being envious of other people's success is largely alien, to me. I didn't grow up with much, yet, instead of lashing out at the "more-privileged," I harbor excitement for every step I take in getting closer to my own ideals.
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TrickedMJ wrote:

You've got to be a pretty big loser to be in the situation where you hate anyone that's happy. Instead of being a crybaby bitch and so bitter, why not find your own source of happiness? Idk too much about you minus the fact you always run to cr every time a 2week relationship goes wrong or you lose a friend but if that's all that makes you feel this way, then rip to majority of your chances at having actual friends.

To answer your question, no, I don't. I do dislike people rubbing their relationship all in my face, but that's a rarity.


My own source of happiness is others and them being my friends.

Also I never used to run or break down after a friend abandons me but after 16 years of it you lose all strength.
I have a few actual friends but I'm sure they will betray me also one day like everyone else.

I don't hate people that are happy I hate that they have to rub it in people's faces by being like that all the time.
All I can do is wait and hope my friends I have left don't betray me like the rest and hope I make more in the coming few years.


You sound like the type of needy person that destroys their own friendships from mistrust... I've seen people say the same thing as you and they made themselves miserable by being too untrusting to the point where they lose their friends or unable to accept someone has a differing view on something. You might want to look at yourself,

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I'm the asshole you hate that you think is happy. The truth is I am not happy I just look happy on the outside.
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Seriously why would I not smile it makes me feel good.
Everyone wants to be happy, and most of those are not fake smiles , but some may be over exaggerated.

OP If you actually believe everyone is faking it and they are not really happy at all, that is an actual mental disorder bordering on schizophrenia and you should probably get some help.
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Rujikin wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


TrickedMJ wrote:

You've got to be a pretty big loser to be in the situation where you hate anyone that's happy. Instead of being a crybaby bitch and so bitter, why not find your own source of happiness? Idk too much about you minus the fact you always run to cr every time a 2week relationship goes wrong or you lose a friend but if that's all that makes you feel this way, then rip to majority of your chances at having actual friends.

To answer your question, no, I don't. I do dislike people rubbing their relationship all in my face, but that's a rarity.


My own source of happiness is others and them being my friends.

Also I never used to run or break down after a friend abandons me but after 16 years of it you lose all strength.
I have a few actual friends but I'm sure they will betray me also one day like everyone else.

I don't hate people that are happy I hate that they have to rub it in people's faces by being like that all the time.
All I can do is wait and hope my friends I have left don't betray me like the rest and hope I make more in the coming few years.


You sound like the type of needy person that destroys their own friendships from mistrust... I've seen people say the same thing as you and they made themselves miserable by being too untrusting to the point where they lose their friends or unable to accept someone has a differing view on something. You might want to look at yourself,



Well I am needy I'm ok with people having other views I just don't like betrayal
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