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Iam not a hater so no. But i guess some people do just seem to get ALL the luck and sometimes i do see very beautiful girls with pretty goober weak looking mother fuckers so i guess there is some hate in me?

I more so hate people that are left wing SJW sorts.

As far as hating people who are happy, no i dont hate on that but sometimes it is annoying when say iam at work early as fuck in the morning feeling tired and shit and some people just seem so full of energy and bubbly and happy and it can be annoying.
But having said that, i think people who are neagative all of the time are worse than people who are positive and happy.

I spose people that act too lovey dovey on facebook and be a bit cringy.
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No?? the purpose of life is happiness and as long as they're not causing pain to others I dont see why anyone would hate on that
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I goto a psychologist my mental state is fine aside from a lack of love for myself.


Like they say, if you can't love yourself...

(For me, of course, it's never been a problem. )
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I like being around happy people. I'm typically more in tune with the general mood than I am with how I myself feel (I usually forget to feel any particular way - if you ask me how I'm feeling, I'll usually have to take a moment to "check", so to speak), so being around happy people is a reliable way to get me into a happy mood too - as long as they're not pushy about it. Similarly, my mood is quick to drop when I'm around negative people (and angry people, unsurprisingly, piss me off).

I've found that the general chorus about this kind of temperament is that it's "fake" or "shallow". But to me, fake would be pretending to experience all these personal emotions that I tend to forget about. Calling it shallow is fair, I think, but I don't consider it to be a bad thing. From my point of view, things are better if people are happy, and being proactively happy will result in a good return, as I expect other people to cheer up as a result, like I do. This is probably the behaviour you're seeing, OP, as many people are like this to some extent: they're acting happy not necessarily because they're positively happy, but more so because they glean some happiness from the happiness of other people, and expect said people to work in the same way. They see potential happiness and reach for it.

Does that mean that people with more emotional depth are often sadder? In the short term, probably, but they have a huge advantage when you take a wider view - they care more. A propensity for being unhappy means that you're motivated to deal with the things that are causing it, since easy fixes, like being with happy people, aren't as effective. This means that they're likely to put more work into improving their lot in life, and eventually achieve a more intrinsic and stable satisfaction than we emotionally shallow people tend to. If you're disgusted by "fake" happiness, my guess is that you fall into this camp, and my (eminently non-expert) advice is to give it time and work at it. Most people aren't very successful, because most people don't need or care to be. By being inclined to want more, you're already well ahead of most on the road to getting it.

(Note that this is all speculation and observation on my part, with no actual data to back it up. By no means should you consider any of this any truer than it sounds to you.)
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I try to surround myself with happy people because their positive outlook in life helps me overcome my depression. Their happiness make me happy.

I see depressed or mad people as weak. I know I am weak sometimes and I want to try to be always happy, always receive people with a smile because it makes your life better.

I never thought someone would hate to see how happy people are... how sad...
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What?!?! Such nonsense...

I hate people simply for being alive. Their happiness, or lack thereof, is irrelevant.
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No. Why would i?
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No, but it makes me wonder why they are so happy. I'm pretty gloomy and depressing in real life, so I won't doubt that it could just be me.
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How selfish this is...I realize that times in this Life just straight freaking BLOWS, and it seems that the ONLY thing You could do to possibly relieve and help subside that 'anxious jealousy' within, would be to follow Home a Family that perhaps You had seen Out and about, and both the Man as well as His Wife, look as of they are monetarily well off, and educated...Their 2 Children, a Son and a Daughter; neither over 15 Years of Age are both sporting the newest brand of "Haute Couture" that has appeared amongst the City's fashions and the like. Basically, You purposely overhear their Conversation. Seems that they both play Sports; the Son is the QB and is already getting Recruiting offers, and the Daughter is an Academic phenom having lead the School to another Undefeated Debate Team record, as well as the best Soccer player that the School they attend has to offer. Assuredly, they will BOTH be going onwards after High-School to Universities with extreme clout and pomp, and You can just almost literally VISUALIZE the oozing of the Happiness that the Family is exerting, not only amongst Themselves, but they easily engage Other People in conversation.

On the OTHER SIDE of the fence, Our Life f*cking SUCKS. Waking up wishing for things to get better each and every Day, but not ever even willing to put in the necessary effort that is, and will be critical to how You end up in Life. I don't know if I was any more luckier off having a Physician for a Father, as well as a Grandfather who both from a Young Age built Me up to literally inherit the Clinic one Day. I also HAVE to say this...Just because they "pushed" Me, it was in no way any sort of domineering that they ever tried and put over on Me. I just got done telling Someone in a conversation a few minutes ago, this exact line-up of events that eventually resulted in Me getting in the absolute best rated Medical College in My State; the University of Kentucky. People always turn their Head to the side when they hear Me say "just" the University of Kentucky, because with the Scholarships I had, I could have gone to darn near ANY School on the East Coast. But, I wanted to carry on the tradition; both My Father and His Father received their M.D.'s from U of K. Not only that, but I was familiar with many of the Physicians in which I would eventually be Working with and alongside. So, while My Family was, "quote", well off, We were in NO WAY like the Family in which I designed above...So while I had Family to back Me up...It was seemingly only in an almost "sterile", if You understand what I mean sort of fashion whenever I would actually approach My Father to try and talk about anything important. It was almost like He never left His profession at the Door of the Office, before He'd leave to go Home. It was almost like I was talking to a Doctor, instead of just extrapolating deep inside, and down to the feelings in which would often leave Me feeling so - Ahhh, what's a good word...UNNECESSARY, Yeah. It was often just like, "Why continue?" I can be a Bum and sit here and just continue to live off the spare Money that would always be around, although I'm SURE that there would have been INCREASINGLY upsetting between the two of Us, if I just gave up. Yeah, He wouldn't kick Me out if I was to simply give up on a Career and just sit on My ass not earning a Dime while He and My Mother would be working...Ultimately, it wouldn't be worth the trouble that it would cause. The altercations growing in terms of the seriousness of the matter the longer that I would allow Myself to stay stuck in that rut, would just keep getting worse, and possibly even violent.

Trust Me...I know that feeling as well as ANYONE. When You feel as SH*T as You do, and You just watch Someone who couldn't be any more towards the OPPOSITE of how YOU'RE feeling...You'd like NOTHING BETTER than to be imbued with the Power in which to smite down EVERY LAST BIT of Optimism and Happiness from EACH of them, until THEY are now in the same boat as YOU are! After all, Misery LOVES Company! I'm not afraid to say that I used to be quite a misanthropic, prickish little asshole. How can THEY be Happy while I feel like Death warmed over?! I felt that way a long time, and I attribute it A LOT to the Medications that of which I was Prescribed and was taking throughout those Years...Psych Medication is not good, lemme tell Yah. But You know...I don't know EXACTLY what it IS/what it WAS that made Me gain the Strength to continue pulling MYSELF back up by My neck, and realizing that the Person whom I was, was in absolutely NO way, a benefit, nor any sort of Joy for ANYONE really, that may end up coming in contact with Me. I cared ONLY about Myself, and My Own Personal miseries. Now...These Days too, I put in a LOT of care towards Myself, but in no way, shape or form do I go about wishing Disappointment on Others, just because I'm too sullen of a "Zombie" to give a darn about the feelings of ANYONE else but Me.

Today, I like to think that I have Lived out a "Comeback story", if You will...of My Own. I'll say this...What REALLY puts things into perspective is having walked the Halls of the University of Kentucky Hospital for the last, going on 2 Years...Being able to SEE first hand many, many sorts of People who have been dealt Medically, a cruel Prognosis and a very uncertain Outcome. And on the Other hand, when I've seen Patients lie there in the ICU; many times, the Man - relatively Young, early 40's...He coded at least 4 times in one Evening. It turned Out the diagnosis, was Endocarditis...He was a Drug Addict, who ONLY used the Needle...He would re-use them over and over, shooting things that aren't even Water-soluble. But, and I won't elaborate...even though He's not MY Patient, as far as Confidentiality goes...Throughout EVERYTHING, He STILL had His Children and Significant Other right there alongside Him. He was there a total of 3 Weeks, closing in on a Month; numerous Heart-valve replacements were done...And this Man, of whom You could STILL see the "light" amongst His eyes, yet has/had an incredibly destructive vice as far as the Use of the Needle...I was told by the Director that He wouldn't last 48 Hours after having been admitted. But Everyone, against ALL odds, even against having one of the Valve replacements "reject" His Body, He made it...It was mortifying to Me, as well as if I wasn't in the Professional setting, I would have had tears streaming down My eyes. As of Today, He has not Used the Needle at all in just over a YEAR...There was Medication available to be able to help adjust, and He HIMSELF, told Us when He wanted to taper! It was just amazing, and though I did nothing TANGIBLY Medically, I was given My first hug - Thank You all for saving My Life! Sorry if Anyone feels as if I'm rambling...I just wanted to elaborate on the issue of Selfishness...This instance right here will stay with Me for the rest of My Life as My Physician instructors literally saved a Life that was supposed to not be able to have been saved.

Today I give, and Wish Blessings for EVERYONE. Including My Crunchyroll Friends. You Guys are Great. Just remember Your PERSONAL worth, Everyone...And if You think that You don't matter in the eyes of Anyone, well...I'm here to tell You, My name is Justin and I CARE. Other Crunchyrollers have been here for ME in MY times of need, so You can bet if ANYONE EVER needs to speak about Anything, and feels like they have No One...Shout Me a Message. I'm ALWAYS busy during the Week, so please be patient with Me. But You can bet Your bottom Dollar that You WILL get a thought Out, conditional Response. Much Love to You all, and have a great Thursday, Crunchies!

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kijuro wrote:

I'm the asshole you hate that you think is happy. The truth is I am not happy I just look happy on the outside.
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Seriously why would I not smile it makes me feel good.
Everyone wants to be happy, and most of those are not fake smiles , but some may be over exaggerated.

OP If you actually believe everyone is faking it and they are not really happy at all, that is an actual mental disorder bordering on schizophrenia and you should probably get some help.


I goto a psychologist and I don't have any disorders like that I just don't believe people can truly be that happy.
Life is horrible and most shouldn't be as happy as they act I don't believe everyone is acting but a large majority I do believe act.


I hate fake smiles I prefer to see people show their true feelings.
Whether it be sad or happy


God you need to grow the fuck up.
Seriously I'm whiney but even you make me seem unwhiney by comparison with all your bitching that always go back to same
betrayal, betrayal, andI have no friends they betrayed me shit.

Everyone has been betrayed and yes mostly by their friends.


Side note what the hell happened peopled being banned is rising pretty high. Several that posted in this thread.
Rahwolf and PV i get those two because Ranwolf is a dick and PV is always banned but what did eveyrone else do.
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Kerst wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


kijuro wrote:

I'm the asshole you hate that you think is happy. The truth is I am not happy I just look happy on the outside.
Appearances

Seriously why would I not smile it makes me feel good.
Everyone wants to be happy, and most of those are not fake smiles , but some may be over exaggerated.

OP If you actually believe everyone is faking it and they are not really happy at all, that is an actual mental disorder bordering on schizophrenia and you should probably get some help.


I goto a psychologist and I don't have any disorders like that I just don't believe people can truly be that happy.
Life is horrible and most shouldn't be as happy as they act I don't believe everyone is acting but a large majority I do believe act.


I hate fake smiles I prefer to see people show their true feelings.
Whether it be sad or happy


God you need to grow the fuck up.
Seriously I'm whiney but even you make me seem unwhiney by comparison with all your bitching that always go back to same
betrayal, betrayal, andI have no friends they betrayed me shit.

Everyone has been betrayed and yes mostly by their friends.


Not everyone has been betrayed
I have to grow up a bit yes but so does everyone else.
I have reason to be upset and complain about people betraying me it happens all too often to the point I can't trust people anymore.

Those who betray others are scum luckily most people have it easier and for that I'm glad because no one deserves to be betrayed by their friends and family and loved ones and go through everything I have.

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I often philosophize and ask myself, "What is happiness?"
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How selfish this is...I realize that times in this Life just straight freaking BLOWS, and it seems that the ONLY thing You could do to possibly relieve and help subside that 'anxious jealousy' within, would be to follow Home a Family that perhaps You had seen Out and about, and both the Man as well as His Wife, look as of they are monetarily well off, and educated...Their 2 Children, a Son and a Daughter; neither over 15 Years of Age are both sporting the newest brand of "Haute Couture" that has appeared amongst the City's fashions and the like. Basically, You purposely overhear their Conversation. Seems that they both play Sports; the Son is the QB and is already getting Recruiting offers, and the Daughter is an Academic phenom having lead the School to another Undefeated Debate Team record, as well as the best Soccer player that the School they attend has to offer. Assuredly, they will BOTH be going onwards after High-School to Universities with extreme clout and pomp, and You can just almost literally VISUALIZE the oozing of the Happiness that the Family is exerting, not only amongst Themselves, but they easily engage Other People in conversation.

On the OTHER SIDE of the fence, Our Life f*cking SUCKS. Waking up wishing for things to get better each and every Day, but not ever even willing to put in the necessary effort that is, and will be critical to how You end up in Life. I don't know if I was any more luckier off having a Physician for a Father, as well as a Grandfather who both from a Young Age built Me up to literally inherit the Clinic one Day. I also HAVE to say this...Just because they "pushed" Me, it was in no way any sort of domineering that they ever tried and put over on Me. I just got done telling Someone in a conversation a few minutes ago, this exact line-up of events that eventually resulted in Me getting in the absolute best rated Medical College in My State; the University of Kentucky. People always turn their Head to the side when they hear Me say "just" the University of Kentucky, because with the Scholarships I had, I could have gone to darn near ANY School on the East Coast. But, I wanted to carry on the tradition; both My Father and His Father received their M.D.'s from U of K. Not only that, but I was familiar with many of the Physicians in which I would eventually be Working with and alongside. So, while My Family was, "quote", well off, We were in NO WAY like the Family in which I designed above...So while I had Family to back Me up...It was seemingly only in an almost "sterile", if You understand what I mean sort of fashion whenever I would actually approach My Father to try and talk about anything important. It was almost like He never left His profession at the Door of the Office, before He'd leave to go Home. It was almost like I was talking to a Doctor, instead of just extrapolating deep inside, and down to the feelings in which would often leave Me feeling so - Ahhh, what's a good word...UNNECESSARY, Yeah. It was often just like, "Why continue?" I can be a Bum and sit here and just continue to live off the spare Money that would always be around, although I'm SURE that there would have been INCREASINGLY upsetting between the two of Us, if I just gave up. Yeah, He wouldn't kick Me out if I was to simply give up on a Career and just sit on My ass not earning a Dime while He and My Mother would be working...Ultimately, it wouldn't be worth the trouble that it would cause. The altercations growing in terms of the seriousness of the matter the longer that I would allow Myself to stay stuck in that rut, would just keep getting worse, and possibly even violent.

Trust Me...I know that feeling as well as ANYONE. When You feel as SH*T as You do, and You just watch Someone who couldn't be any more towards the OPPOSITE of how YOU'RE feeling...You'd like NOTHING BETTER than to be imbued with the Power in which to smite down EVERY LAST BIT of Optimism and Happiness from EACH of them, until THEY are now in the same boat as YOU are! After all, Misery LOVES Company! I'm not afraid to say that I used to be quite a misanthropic, prickish little asshole. How can THEY be Happy while I feel like Death warmed over?! I felt that way a long time, and I attribute it A LOT to the Medications that of which I was Prescribed and was taking throughout those Years...Psych Medication is not good, lemme tell Yah. But You know...I don't know EXACTLY what it IS/what it WAS that made Me gain the Strength to continue pulling MYSELF back up by My neck, and realizing that the Person whom I was, was in absolutely NO way, a benefit, nor any sort of Joy for ANYONE really, that may end up coming in contact with Me. I cared ONLY about Myself, and My Own Personal miseries. Now...These Days too, I put in a LOT of care towards Myself, but in no way, shape or form do I go about wishing Disappointment on Others, just because I'm too sullen of a "Zombie" to give a darn about the feelings of ANYONE else but Me.

Today, I like to think that I have Lived out a "Comeback story", if You will...of My Own. I'll say this...What REALLY puts things into perspective is having walked the Halls of the University of Kentucky Hospital for the last, going on 2 Years...Being able to SEE first hand many, many sorts of People who have been dealt Medically, a cruel Prognosis and a very uncertain Outcome. And on the Other hand, when I've seen Patients lie there in the ICU; many times, the Man - relatively Young, early 40's...He coded at least 4 times in one Evening. It turned Out the diagnosis, was Endocarditis...He was a Drug Addict, who ONLY used the Needle...He would re-use them over and over, shooting things that aren't even Water-soluble. But, and I won't elaborate...even though He's not MY Patient, as far as Confidentiality goes...Throughout EVERYTHING, He STILL had His Children and Significant Other right there alongside Him. He was there a total of 3 Weeks, closing in on a Month; numerous Heart-valve replacements were done...And this Man, of whom You could STILL see the "light" amongst His eyes, yet has/had an incredibly destructive vice as far as the Use of the Needle...I was told by the Director that He wouldn't last 48 Hours after having been admitted. But Everyone, against ALL odds, even against having one of the Valve replacements "reject" His Body, He made it...It was mortifying to Me, as well as if I wasn't in the Professional setting, I would have had tears streaming down My eyes. As of Today, He has not Used the Needle at all in just over a YEAR...There was Medication available to be able to help adjust, and He HIMSELF, told Us when He wanted to taper! It was just amazing, and though I did nothing TANGIBLY Medically, I was given My first hug - Thank You all for saving My Life! Sorry if Anyone feels as if I'm rambling...I just wanted to elaborate on the issue of Selfishness...This instance right here will stay with Me for the rest of My Life as My Physician instructors literally saved a Life that was supposed to not be able to have been saved.

Today I give, and Wish Blessings for EVERYONE. Including My Crunchyroll Friends. You Guys are Great. Just remember Your PERSONAL worth, Everyone...And if You think that You don't matter in the eyes of Anyone, well...I'm here to tell You, My name is Justin and I CARE. Other Crunchyrollers have been here for ME in MY times of need, so You can bet if ANYONE EVER needs to speak about Anything, and feels like they have No One...Shout Me a Message. I'm ALWAYS busy during the Week, so please be patient with Me. But You can bet Your bottom Dollar that You WILL get a thought Out, conditional Response. Much Love to You all, and have a great Thursday, Crunchies!

.....<3


Well of course I am being selfish most people are in general it's a normal human trait.

I shared my selfishness because I'm not ashamed of who I am.

I hate that others have it worse but I also hate others have it better and that's jealousy
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I try to surround myself with happy people because their positive outlook in life helps me overcome my depression. Their happiness make me happy.

I see depressed or mad people as weak. I know I am weak sometimes and I want to try to be always happy, always receive people with a smile because it makes your life better.

I never thought someone would hate to see how happy people are... how sad...



I have always found being around happy people does the opposite I feel alot happier around those who are depressed and have a negative outlook.

It's a curious thingh
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I often philosophize and ask myself, "What is happiness?"


that would be highly subjective but I have asked myself this a lot also the answer I come to always is Love
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