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It's a life lesson I guess. If you fuck up, people will always remember your fuck ups, and judge you based on those fuck ups. If you want people to like you, you shouldn't have fucked up to begin with.
People don't change as a general rule of thumb, and just pretend to, so it's safer to judge people based on past experiences with them.


I guess its my fault for expecting people to be better then they actually are.

I think everyone fucks up at times but you should forgive and forget eventually and not judge people on their past actions too harshly when they have changed.

Though sadly it seems others don't feel the same and i thought they very much did so my bad
I expect too much from people.
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Ryulightorb wrote:

I guess its my fault for expecting people to be better then they actually are.

I think everyone fucks up at times but you should forgive and forget eventually and not judge people on their past actions too harshly when they have changed.

Though sadly it seems others don't feel the same and i thought they very much did so my bad
I expect too much from people.


Just saying you've changed isn't nearly enough if you've done things to make people not like you I'm afraid. Instead of blaming people, blame your past self. It's our actions that change people's opinion, not just saying you're different.
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Posted 11/19/16

Ryulightorb wrote:


HateKillingCamels wrote:

It's a life lesson I guess. If you fuck up, people will always remember your fuck ups, and judge you based on those fuck ups. If you want people to like you, you shouldn't have fucked up to begin with.
People don't change as a general rule of thumb, and just pretend to, so it's safer to judge people based on past experiences with them.


I guess its my fault for expecting people to be better then they actually are.

I think everyone fucks up at times but you should forgive and forget eventually and not judge people on their past actions too harshly when they have changed.

Though sadly it seems others don't feel the same and i thought they very much did so my bad
I expect too much from people.


Forgive and Forget.

Funny how you expect others to do so, but this one user on Crunchy Roll I usually see around on forums just doesn't want to do that, and I thought you of all people should want to know that, because in a way, you and that user might have some similarities that I think you both should work on.


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Posted 11/19/16

HateKillingCamels wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:

I guess its my fault for expecting people to be better then they actually are.

I think everyone fucks up at times but you should forgive and forget eventually and not judge people on their past actions too harshly when they have changed.

Though sadly it seems others don't feel the same and i thought they very much did so my bad
I expect too much from people.


Just saying you've changed isn't nearly enough if you've done things to make people not like you I'm afraid. Instead of blaming people, blame your past self. It's our actions that change people's opinion, not just saying you're different.


Thats very true.
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Posted 11/19/16

Humms wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


HateKillingCamels wrote:

It's a life lesson I guess. If you fuck up, people will always remember your fuck ups, and judge you based on those fuck ups. If you want people to like you, you shouldn't have fucked up to begin with.
People don't change as a general rule of thumb, and just pretend to, so it's safer to judge people based on past experiences with them.


I guess its my fault for expecting people to be better then they actually are.

I think everyone fucks up at times but you should forgive and forget eventually and not judge people on their past actions too harshly when they have changed.

Though sadly it seems others don't feel the same and i thought they very much did so my bad
I expect too much from people.


Forgive and Forget.

Funny how you expect others to do so, but this one user on Crunchy Roll I usually see around on forums just doesn't want to do that, and I thought you of all people should want to know that, because in a way, you and that user might have some similarities that I think you both should work on.




I forgive everyone who has wronged me i hold onto hate a bit but over time i have learnt to forget as its for the best.
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omg you got kicked outta discord the world is crashing! yadda -yadda try and watch anime this is a anime site and as for discord i never use it its just for chatty teens haha
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omg you got kicked outta discord the world is crashing! yadda -yadda try and watch anime this is a anime site and as for discord i never use it its just for chatty teens haha


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MysteryMiss wrote:

omg you got kicked outta discord the world is crashing! yadda -yadda try and watch anime this is a anime site


That's what I'm trying to say
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I don't know about anyone else but i don't see the problem about getting kicked out of a discord. What even is a discord?
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Yeagerbravo442 wrote:

I don't know about anyone else but i don't see the problem about getting kicked out of a discord. What even is a discord?


Given the OP's reaction it must be something of high importance
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Posted 11/19/16
It must be
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Um, if they don't want to forgive you, then move on and forget it. Join a different group or make some new friends. No point letting some random people from the internet affect you.
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Posted 11/19/16

Ryulightorb wrote:

Call me hypocritical


Hello, Hypocritical. What a suitable appellation.
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bro you are always welcome in my discord chan. i hold no grudges.
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