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Post Reply How do you deal with the hardship of getting rid of a friend you've known for a long time?
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Posted 11/25/16

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ironh19 wrote:


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ironh19 wrote:

don't be a pussy. I have had many friends move, die, whatever. I don't allow my emotions cloud my focus. there are 2 types of humans on this planet, tools or obstacles.


Haha, but were you always like that? I agree with what you're saying, except for the last part.



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Posted 11/26/16
If the friendship is over then you just drift apart.
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Posted 11/26/16 , edited 11/26/16

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Humms wrote:

It must be soo hard being under the age of 20.

I honestly don't know how people can do it. The amount of hardship


Maybe instead of being so condescending you can provide actual advice...

Come on, educate us with that oh so powerful 4 years of knowledge



You want advice?

OK.... ok, you specifically asked for advice. I'll give you fucking advice.

So back when I was in high school I had long time friends. Then they started doing cocaine until they put holes in their nostrils, dropping acid, popping pills, watching my brother destroy his life, getting into debt, being with the wrong group of people, watching as every single one of my friends become the very thing I hate most in this world.

So guess what? I don't have any friends except for the ones I choose. I can drop anyone like a fucking book without hesitation, because I have seen the worst, I have seen addiction, useless waste of life. If you want to be my friend, just be straight up and honest with me, or I have no problem letting go of you in a heart beat.

Condescending? Good, because most of these people on here complaining about friends have no fucking clue how bad it can get. They bitch and cry about the most idiotic things that it makes me laugh.

So there is your advice my friend. You learn, or you become a fucking table that everyone uses. I don't care if those people I called friends end up in a ditch dead. There is a big world out there, and there are soo many people waiting to earn your trust.


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stab 'em
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Just stopped talking to her. People change weirdly after getting into relationships sometimes. If it's not worth my effort due to lack of reciprocity, it seems pretty easy for me to move on. If they care, they will apologize to you later after they snap out of it.

That's not to say you should just ditch them whenever they anger you, but don't let people take advantage of you at your expense and then try to call you a friend.
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Posted 11/26/16

TheOriginalStraynge wrote:


Humms wrote:


Allie_cat418 wrote:


Humms wrote:

It must be soo hard being under the age of 20.

I honestly don't know how people can do it. The amount of hardship


Maybe instead of being so condescending you can provide actual advice...

Come on, educate us with that oh so powerful 4 years of knowledge



You want advice?

OK.... ok, you specifically asked for advice. I'll give you fucking advice.

So back when I was in high school I had long time friends. Then they started doing cocaine until they put holes in their nostrils, dropping acid, popping pills, watching my brother destroy his life, getting into debt, being with the wrong group of people, watching as every single one of my friends become the very thing I hate most in this world.

So guess what? I don't have any friends except for the ones I choose. I can drop anyone like a fucking book without hesitation, because I have seen the worst, I have seen addiction, useless waste of life. If you want to be my friend, just be straight up and honest with me, or I have no problem letting go of you in a heart beat.

Condescending? Good, because most of these people on here complaining about friends have no fucking clue how bad it can get. They bitch and cry about the most idiotic things that it makes me laugh.

So there is your advice my friend. You learn, or you become a fucking table that everyone uses. I don't care if those people I called friends end up in a ditch dead. There is a big world out there, and there are soo many people waiting to earn your trust.


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I was probably a little harsh, but for me I just had enough. If they want to personally come up to me and shake my hand while they have been living a clean life, I would accept that, but even then it's hard for me to even consider spending my time with them.

I know we all make bad decisions, but to repeat, and repeat, and repeat, it would make anyone want to completely cancel them out of their lives. If you have a heart, you would accept my decision to not want to see you and live your life the best you can. Maybe down the road if you have truly changed we can talk.

Nobody deserves to be treated as such in the manner that I wished, but when you have seen someone's life being destroyed, and there is nothing you can do about it , you really just stop caring.

I never claimed to be anymore wiser when I was a teenager, I did stupid shit to, but I was smart enough to realize who I needed to be and what people I needed to drop, I stayed away from such heavy drugs. I don't need to be guilt tripped into feeling sorry for people anymore, it's the life you live now, and the life you want to achieve. It's nice to bring up the past, but to continue to live in the past is where I draw the line.
Posted 11/27/16
That's easy....

Step one... make a cup of tea, drink the cup of tea...

Step two... Say sorry it didn't work out...

Step three... sip a cup of tea... Then leave...



Posted 11/27/16

starshots wrote:

I lost all my friends in 10th grade. Ever since then, I've been having a very hard time making real friends.
Now that I'm older, people my age don't have time for friends, they are into their own lives trying to get their shit together.


I was planning on writing a silly comment but this made me feel. Stars id be your friend if I could. I know how you feel all too well
Posted 11/27/16
There is an easier way....
Step one... Imagine a booty, grasp said booty...

Step two... Say sorry, booty...

Step three... Grasp the booty... then leave
Posted 11/27/16

ironh19 wrote:

don't be a pussy. I have had many friends move, die, whatever. I don't allow my emotions cloud my focus. there are 2 types of humans on this planet, tools or obstacles.


Don't cut yourself on all of that edge
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