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Posted 11/28/16

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Very easily. I tend to give substantially more insight into a persons comment to see whether or not the claim was baseless insults or something I need to work on.


I strongly recommend not giving people who offend you more of a voice than they deserve. Furthermore, can you discern if it's truly an insult or just or criticism? Because criticism is extremely useful as it questions whether you're thoughts or actions are on the right track or not. And in the end, after weighing the pros and cons, only you can determine if that criticism is beneficial or not.

And I wont sugarcoat it; criticism is infuriating! It takes a tough person to objectively analyze criticism. But it is an essential skill to endure life which is exceedingly unfair.


I have a hard time discerning between the two, and I believe that insults can essentially be criticisms as well, unless we're using a different definition. That is how I see it anyway. Though perhaps you are right.
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Not easily, my customers can be pretty nasty. So I find it easy to disregard critisism.

Unfortunately the whole could care less thing kinda spills over into my personal life
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I'm not a crybaby bitch so yeah. I legit can't recall the last time I was offended by something, maybe it was like 3yrs ago. To answer your question, it's really fucking hard to offend me. I get annoyed easily though.
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My friend called me annoying yesterday and I admit I got a little upset! Though, today I am over it and hasn't changed anything.
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Posted 11/29/16

PeripheralVisionary wrote:


XxNaruTheNarcissistxX wrote:


PeripheralVisionary wrote:

Very easily. I tend to give substantially more insight into a persons comment to see whether or not the claim was baseless insults or something I need to work on.


I strongly recommend not giving people who offend you more of a voice than they deserve. Furthermore, can you discern if it's truly an insult or just or criticism? Because criticism is extremely useful as it questions whether you're thoughts or actions are on the right track or not. And in the end, after weighing the pros and cons, only you can determine if that criticism is beneficial or not.

And I wont sugarcoat it; criticism is infuriating! It takes a tough person to objectively analyze criticism. But it is an essential skill to endure life which is exceedingly unfair.


I have a hard time discerning between the two, and I believe that insults can essentially be criticisms as well, unless we're using a different definition. That is how I see it anyway. Though perhaps you are right.


My friend, insults and criticisms are two very different concepts. An insult is, "your stupid, hur-de-hur"; criticism is, "your idea is wrong because of X, Y, and Z". In a criticism, someone will tell you that you are wrong and why you are wrong (or simply why you are wrong).

When insulted, there is little reason to expend anymore energy.

Also to note, this is assuming the "insult" is a baseless argument. If the insult is indeed based on fact, then you may very well have to reconsider you stance on the subject.
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It might get to me a bit depending what it is, but I don't dwell on it too long.
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I'm a pretty hard shell to crack but once it's cracked you'll know it.
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sorry but getting but hurt over stupid shit is not something that has ever happened to me.

I come from a generation of males that did not have or need safe spaces, Are feelings did not deserve more respect than Facts, we did not get trophies just for being there, and their was two sexes Males, Females.

Do to that we don't fall apart easy over stupid shit, we deal with it and move on!
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It's not easy, and if you manage to do it, there's a good chance you won't know.
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i'm a sensitive person
just very good at hiding it
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Let's just say, after being picked on a lot when I was younger, nothing can effect me anymore.

I would laugh at people if they try to hurt my feelings now, I won't just ignore them, I'll make sure they know you can't do a dam thing to me, because I am strong
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It used to affect me greatly and then one day i just stopped caring about everything and anything. it could be described as numbness, maybe? Probably a symptom of depression or some other mental illness I have in a cocktail of hell in my psyche. The only negative side-effect of this is my management on self care. Other than that, it's been pretty great!
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I ignore it on the outside but on the inside I feel pretty bad
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As a young boy I was really good at pretending that my feelings weren't hurt and at some point as I got older I realized I didn't have to pretend anymore. Seriously, if I don't love you then you will not be able to hurt my feelings. Sorry, internet.

PARTYNEXTDOOR - No Feelings ft. Travis Scott
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What is an feeeeelings?
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