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Well there's the ones questioning my age.

"Are you sure you're legal?" He kept thinking I was under age When I was in my late 20s.

Some time later with another date, "are you sure you're that old?" I sighed and said yes then when discussing where to go to eat he interrupts to say, "lets get a hotel room!".

There was one who told me that I was the one for him and asked if I would come to meet his family. This was a first date.

Then there was a guy I met at a neighbourhood meeting. We were chatting and he mentioned that he was interested in me. Then he goes on to say that he'd like to have 6 children.

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I once got this really cute girl's number back in my first year of college. I was so proud of myself. We met up at a Starbucks the very next day. She kept talking about this new job she just got that was making her a bunch of money at the time, and how her company was looking for new workers. Yeah, turns out it wasn't actually a date. She was just trying to recruit me into some pyramid scheme.

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DrunkKanti wrote:

I once got this really cute girl's number back in my first year of college. I was so proud of myself. We met up at a Starbucks the very next day. She kept talking about this new job she just got that was making her a bunch of money at the time, and how her company was looking for new workers. Yeah, turns out it wasn't actually a date. She was just trying to recruit me into some pyramid scheme.



That happened to me once but at least she paid for my drink. Never talked to her again, though lol

That stuff is just bad manners.
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on okcupid I got this guy who came to me for advice and asked how he should tell someone about his fetish and if its weird

buddy I don't think a stranger on a dating site is the right person to ask about that
it was the urinating on your partner one


Hmmm, golden showers, kinky.

Years ago when dating I met a lady who professed she was into bondage, whips and chains, domination over men. Hmm, OK, pass. I suggested to her maybe a horse would be a better choice. We parted company.................forever.


Also met a lady who was a professed witch via a dating service. I thought hey, wtf, probably a prop, doesn't really mean it, might actually be interesting. Well, this experiment lasted 4 dates. On the 4th date which coincided with Halloween I met up with her at a farm out in the county far enough away from Springfield, MO that certain proclivities could occur without undue outside interference via sheriff's department. It was a gathering of witches and warlocks domiciled within the tri-state area having a regional meet.

You know how this went. Horny guys checking out the covens, harems. Horny gals doing likewise, a few even got quite suggestive with the warlocks. The majority there were professionals and intellectuals attempting to deviate outside norm roles. I suppose if I was really into symbolism, hierarchies, demonic nonesuchery it might have been fun but I fit in this group like a frog in a frying pan. Fortunately, my date's lady friend sponsoring this jamboree had an understanding husband who wasn't into witchcraft, his thing was fast foreign cars parked out in the barn. I sought refuge out there where he was at the time. He saw my mid-life crisis car so we hit it off and he showed me his collection. I could've stayed there in the barn chatting automotive the rest of the night but, damn, my date noticed my absence and this car collector had to leave for a car outing. So, awkward as it seemed I did try to participate in some of the non-wiccan participant-friendly games but my date could tell witchcraft just was not my thing so we said what needed to be said and I drove off into the sunset somewhat chastened, but wiser.

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redokami wrote:

on okcupid I got this guy who came to me for advice and asked how he should tell someone about his fetish and if its weird

buddy I don't think a stranger on a dating site is the right person to ask about that
it was the urinating on your partner one


Hmmm, golden showers, kinky.

Years ago when dating I met a lady who professed she was into bondage, whips and chains, domination over men. Hmm, OK, pass. I suggested to her maybe a horse would be a better choice. We parted company.................forever.


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lmfaoo , that's animal abuse doe
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^ depends on the horse
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I've also gotten random men asking me to have their children. I have to wonder if that has ever worked.

I think perhaps the weirdest thing anyone has asked of me on a dating site was a man who wanted me to have sex with him while I taunted his wife, who would be watching. I suppose it is the female equivalent of cuckoldry? Not sure if there is a specific word for that.
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I've also gotten random men asking me to have their children. I have to wonder if that has ever worked.

I think perhaps the weirdest thing anyone has asked of me on a dating site was a man who wanted me to have sex with him while I taunted his wife, who would be watching. I suppose it is the female equivalent of cuckoldry? Not sure if there is a specific word for that.


I actually tried looking it up but apparently there isn't a word for it,
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Hmm.. the weirdest thing? This one time on a first date we stopped for gas on the way someplace and a bunch of guys on motorcycles showed up that my date apparently had a history of some sort with. We wound up sneaking out of the place. The whole thing was sort of bemusing really, though I probably should have been more worried about getting stabbed or shot.

Or there was the girl in high school that told me I reminded her of her father.. Certainly weirded me out, plus it was kind of a low blow for a young man..
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pansyforyourthoughts wrote:

I've also gotten random men asking me to have their children. I have to wonder if that has ever worked.

I think perhaps the weirdest thing anyone has asked of me on a dating site was a man who wanted me to have sex with him while I taunted his wife, who would be watching. I suppose it is the female equivalent of cuckoldry? Not sure if there is a specific word for that.


It worked for Sango in Inyuasha

Oh and that's how I eventually got one of my nephews. When the request was made sis thought he was joking and ignored the guy. Years later when my nephew was about to be born she realised he had been serious.
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Hmm one time I was on a date with the girl who was very vocal about things she disliked about the restaurant employees and other customers near our restaurant table. Needless to say I never gave her that 2nd date
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I was in my senior year of highschool, and I think it was the week after I had turned 18. I went on date with this guy who was 23. We went to a nice restaurant, and we got seated next to my guidance counselor TT-TT
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I was in my senior year of highschool, and I think it was the week after I had turned 18. I went on date with this guy who was 23. We went to a nice restaurant, and we got seated next to my guidance counselor TT-TT


oh god, the chances of that LOL
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Well, I was in my junior year of hs and I went to prom with this guy. That whole night was a very strange time, but that's another story lmao. Neither of us had our licenses, so after prom, his dad drove us home in this weird beat up work van, which HAD NO DOOR, so pretty much I was hanging on to dear life on the ride home. But he did offer me some grape soda. Nice dude, though. Nice dude.
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