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Have you ever cheated on your lover?
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Posted 2/13/08
not yet cheated, but flirt, yes. unintentionally btw and was punished severely by her, so dont dare to do so after that.
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28 / M / Queens, New York
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Posted 2/13/08
nope wear a ring (not a wedding ring) to remind me to be faithful at all time. Been the cheatee not the cheater
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23 / M
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Posted 2/13/08
I think it's wrong for people to cheat. Never have, never will.
I feel its worst than breaking up.
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30 / M / Philippines
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Posted 2/14/08
never...
not once in my life...
just think about your partner and what will you feel if ever they cheated on you too...
i believe in karma... lol
and i really respect the feeling of my partner...
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43 / F / Philippines
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Posted 2/14/08

pawleen wrote:

is looking at japanese guys like in dramas, consider as cheating?


If it is, then there would be so many cheaters in the world...
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Posted 2/14/08

LilLaoWow wrote:


hara88 wrote:
well, centuries ago, girls are treated as slaves/piece of meat/no equal rights as men.


and this changed when?



there are plenty of disgusting men out there. Don't assume you've seen it all or the ugly doesn't exist. Women are sold off everyday, looked at like mere eye-candy, and put under men still today. Unless you've experienced the ugly or researched enough about it, don't speak. Stay isolated and blinded with your mtv and anime.


People.. its now the 21st century, get up dated. the rights for women is better now and its even getting greater. and yesh, there are men out there that still treats women like shit but its ageist the law, their just hiding it. (or its a poor country (( no offense)) but yeah, their not good with the women right laws)

ps.

LiLaoWoW you'll come to respect females someday
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28 / M / cebu philippines
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Posted 2/14/08
hmmm.. i've been seeing and chatting my ex without my present knowing..
well, it's because my ex was my bestfriend way back then..
but me and my ex weren't doing anything below the belt..
we're just that really close anyway..

now, am i cheating?.. o_O
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29 / M / New York
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Posted 2/14/08
I don't cheat on people.

Even the desire to cheat is unacceptable in my relationships, but I can understand why people would do it or want to do it. Most of us insist on monogamous relationships even though human sexuality and desire are not always that simple, so feelings may build up in some that need to be released. To say that those people should just masturbate or get over it is a failure to acknowledge both the power that these desires can have and the complexity of those very desires.

Humans are territorial creatures, so of course many would be angry to find their partner with another. However, sex is just another activity among many, and it is society that has stigmatized free sexuality the most.

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29 / M / New York
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Posted 2/14/08

beerLight wrote:

hmmm.. i've been seeing and chatting my ex without my present knowing..
well, it's because my ex was my bestfriend way back then..
but me and my ex weren't doing anything below the belt..
we're just that really close anyway..

now, am i cheating?.. o_O


Cheating is just a word. What may be important is the action, the keeping your activity a secret from your current partner. There is no absolute law dictating that you must tell him, but you will have to face the consequences of it if he finds out, and you may also hurt him by it. Furthermore, secrecy often implies a lack of either confidence in the relationship or trust in the partner (or both), so you may wish to examine the reasons behind your choices.

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Posted 2/14/08
Oh absolutely I lost count XD...

...Ok that was a lie, I've never even had a lover, but if I did I'd never cheat on her. I can't stand people who do that, it jus shows that they are never satisfied with what they have. If you get in a relationship the main thing you should be is loyal..In my case grateful (Stolen from Ice Age) XD
Posted 2/14/08
No, i havent and wouldnt. I think its wrong.
Ive been cheated on though. ><"
Not a nice feeling. I broke up with him
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Posted 2/14/08
u shouldnt cheat!! i had chatted a guy and he confessed that he had 9 girlfriends one at a time. because the girl he loves cheated him so he pays back
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Posted 2/15/08

LilLaoWow wrote:


_ryl_ wrote:


LilLaoWow wrote:


_ryl_ wrote:

The guy I used to like actually had a girlfriend he was hiding from me. I didn't know that initially, and he was going to cheat on her with me. He probably got guilty because he canceled our first date and told me that he had a gf. I was more hurt than mad. I guess lucky her, and sucks for me.


nice!
smart man


that was very mean of him... this happened 2 days ago btw.


well I mean things happen. Breaking up with a girl is hard to do. Some guys can do it without thinking twice and others(like me) just don't want to make a girl cry. But even so, it doesn't change the fact that he liked you. That's why this whole bf/gf thing is crap. He may be labled someones boyfriend, but his heart probably yours. And that was all ruined because of a silly title. Now you probably wouldn't even give him a chance because you think he's a cheater and like what girls say, "once a cheater always a cheater" Specially when you showed interest and lured him to you.


hey, I need a guy's point of view. Why do you think this guy still calls me and complains about his girlfriend? I shouldn't say "used to like" because quite frankly, I still like him. I'm just trying to hold back and hide it. Maybe because we have the same class and in the same group, that's why I can't get away. Guys are complicated...
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26 / F / Somewhere...
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Posted 2/15/08
Never have and never will =]
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26 / F
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Posted 3/29/08
Yes.
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