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So, these guys are riding motorcycles, somewhere in China, and their talking about the differences between dating Chinese women, and Western women.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0zo8hwh0dwA#t=488.70475

I thought it was very informative. However, I've never dated a Chinese women, so I don't really know. What do you guys think?

Also, do you think this might be why there are 1.3 billion Chinese? Could Japan make use of this knowledge (you know. To reverse their population decline?) How do Japanese women compare to Chinese women?

You should watch the whole video. These guys really get in depth with their analysis.
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Is this one of those green pill things or whatever?
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Is this one of those green pill things or whatever?


More like red pill bullshit.
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kromph wrote:

Is this one of those green pill things or whatever?



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kromph wrote:

Is this one of those green pill things or whatever?


More like red pill bullshit.



This is a 30 minute video. Neither of you watched it. How can you even comment on it? You're just knee-jerk reacting and posting, without even looking at the content.

Look at the video. I think it's very interesting. It tells us a lot about Chinese culture. Have a look - first. Then comment.

I don't want to make this into a flame war thread. I really want to have an interesting dialogue about this. Just because I'm posting a thread, it doesn't have to be about Trump. This thread has nothing to do about Trump.

So, look at the video and post your thoughts. What do you think?
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Well, I like the bike ride, and appreciate seeing the streets of China. The intercom system they use for their videos, coupled with the ride, is certainly among the more unique styles that I've seen. As for the topic itself; I'm not impressed, simply because I've never considered Western vs Eastern comparisons of people to be all that accurate or interesting, given how rare it is for the discussion to venture beyond typical stereotypes. I'd like to see things like Old Order Mennonites vs Dayao Lipo.
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Given its a 30 minute video you could at least summarize it for us.

And yes, it does start to get more dubious the more you listen to them.
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So, these guys are riding motorcycles, somewhere in China, and their talking about the differences between dating Chinese women, and Western women.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0zo8hwh0dwA#t=488.70475

I thought it was very informative. However, I've never dated a Chinese women, so I don't really know. What do you guys think?

Also, do you think this might be why there are 1.3 billion Chinese? Could Japan make use of this knowledge (you know. To reverse their population decline?) How do Japanese women compare to Chinese women?

You should watch the whole video. These guys really get in depth with their analysis.


Back about 20 years ago when you are in a relationship with a Chinese or Japanese, unless they are Americanized, it's serious if they were having sex with you. Some girls will play, but if not then don't think it's typical like a western relationship. When I first started dating my wife, after a couple of months I went in for the kiss....wrong...."are we just casually dating? or are you my boyfriend?"....."Boyfriend! I love you!" and I meant it. She did not want to kiss until I was only committing to her ( as if I look good enough to date more than one gal at a time:). Could be that my wife is pretty choosy, however I think all of her friends were kind of like that. I know it's a little more like the 1970s culture in Japan now. However, the Japanese are very conservative and Chinese more so with their relationships, be careful if you are dating one. If you're dating one in a western country and doing something that is acceptable in your home, they will do it, but in their hearts they got hurt. Keep in mind some cultures are delicate that way. It's neither good nor bad, it's just culture.


Oh by the way, always judge a woman on her own merits, anything else is love suicide All the ladies rock!~
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it's the classic

i'm the expert at it because of my experience with a few people in that group..

it's the blind leading the blind
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Yes I know it has nothing to do with Trump and I'm not bad mouthing you or this thread but I've seen one to way too many MGTOW videos and people like them use these videos to justify the way they view women and why their not dating. Sorry that I did not clarify.

But lets get back on track:

In my honest opinion western woman specifically American women can be fickle and prone to be non committal in a relationship. Not to mention Americans view and treat relationships very casual and are more lax.

Now onto the Chinese, The Chinese treat relationships seriously because they believe that it is a prelude to marriage and they don't fuck around in this area but it ultimately depends on how traditional the Chinese family is.

A friend of mine invited me over to his girlfriend's place for dinner and throughout the meal she was told by her family to keep her boyfriend's plate full and make sure to serve the drinks around the table. Eventually her parents brought up marriage, when is she going to get married? And do they plan to have kids? What is his occupation? Keep in mind my friend has only dated her for 6 months.......so yeah it was a really awkward conversation even for her and I tried not to giggle like an idiot.

Plus they gave me a red envelope with a $20 bill and that was neat af.

So in general yes i find that the video is mostly true Chinese people take relationships seriously so please don't fuck around people.
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I'm sorry. I know you wanted to talk about Trump. Don't worry. I posted in another thread about globalism. I put up a link to InfoWars, talking about it, and Trump's role in globalism's downfall. Go have a look. You won't be so -_- about it.
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I'm sorry. I know you wanted to talk about Drumpf. Don't worry. I posted in another thread about globalism. I put up a link to InfoWars, talking about it, and Drumpf's role in globalism's downfall. Go have a look. You won't be so -_- about it.


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I would ask what you're talking about, but I really don't think I want to know
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DeadlyOats wrote:



I'm sorry. I know you wanted to talk about Drumpf. Don't worry. I posted in another thread about globalism. I put up a link to InfoWars, talking about it, and Drumpf's role in globalism's downfall. Go have a look. You won't be so -_- about it.


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I would ask what you're talking about, but I really don't think I want to know


Don't play coy. You even edited my reply. Go to the other thread, and play your anti Trump games there.

On this thread, we're talking about the differences of dating cultures, between Chinese women and Western women.
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In my honest opinion western woman specifically American women can be fickle and prone to be non committal in a relationship. Not to mention Americans view and treat relationships very casual and are more lax.

Now onto the Chinese, The Chinese treat relationships seriously because they believe that it is a prelude to marriage and they don't fuck around in this area but it ultimately depends on how traditional the Chinese family is.


100% this. I am friends with a good few Asian families and talked about stuff like this out of curiosity (I love learning). I learned a lot about China and Korea from them. Sadly I have not become very good friends with any Japanese families yet.

I can say that dating is much more serious in China and S. Korea than in the USA. Hell, I had a girl date me just to "experiment" in her words. I don't think I would see that (at least as commonly) in most of Asia. The USA is just date for fun and maybe it will stick.

Quote for the day: Throw enough shit at the wall and some of it may stick!
Have enough relationships and one of them may last.

I do think that dating an Asian would be nice in many ways as I tend to want to take them very seriously. Then again some facets of their culture would kill me. High context cultures suck man.
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What is the success rate for Chinese marriages, then? Or do they have high divorce rates, too?


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Adjacent-Taurus wrote:

In my honest opinion western woman specifically American women can be fickle and prone to be non committal in a relationship. Not to mention Americans view and treat relationships very casual and are more lax.

Now onto the Chinese, The Chinese treat relationships seriously because they believe that it is a prelude to marriage and they don't fuck around in this area but it ultimately depends on how traditional the Chinese family is.


100% this. I am friends with a good few Asian families and talked about stuff like this out of curiosity (I love learning). I learned a lot about China and Korea from them. Sadly I have not become very good friends with any Japanese families yet.

I can say that dating is much more serious in China and S. Korea than in the USA. Hell, I had a girl date me just to "experiment" in her words. I don't think I would see that (at least as commonly) in most of Asia. The USA is just date for fun and maybe it will stick.

Quote for the day: Throw enough shit at the wall and some of it may stick!
Have enough relationships and one of them may last.

I do think that dating an Asian would be nice in many ways as I tend to want to take them very seriously. Then again some facets of their culture would kill me. High context cultures suck man.


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