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Generalizations about half a billion people vs half a billion people? Really?

Let me tell you, people are all the same. We look different and talk different and have different ways of doing things because of culture and tradition, but underneath this layer of social norms there is no difference between a chinese girl and a western girl. Every color of the rainbow exists no matter where you are in the world.
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Dark_Alma wrote:


DeadlyOats wrote:

What is the success rate for Chinese marriages, then? Or do they have high divorce rates, too?


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Adjacent-Taurus wrote:

In my honest opinion western woman specifically American women can be fickle and prone to be non committal in a relationship. Not to mention Americans view and treat relationships very casual and are more lax.

Now onto the Chinese, The Chinese treat relationships seriously because they believe that it is a prelude to marriage and they don't fuck around in this area but it ultimately depends on how traditional the Chinese family is.


100% this. I am friends with a good few Asian families and talked about stuff like this out of curiosity (I love learning). I learned a lot about China and Korea from them. Sadly I have not become very good friends with any Japanese families yet.

I can say that dating is much more serious in China and S. Korea than in the USA. Hell, I had a girl date me just to "experiment" in her words. I don't think I would see that (at least as commonly) in most of Asia. The USA is just date for fun and maybe it will stick.

Quote for the day: Throw enough shit at the wall and some of it may stick!
Have enough relationships and one of them may last.

I do think that dating an Asian would be nice in many ways as I tend to want to take them very seriously. Then again some facets of their culture would kill me. High context cultures suck man.


What does that mean?



There are High Context cultures and Low Context cultures.

High context have "hidden meaning" behind their words. Low context spell it out. This is the part that gets me.

I will link you to a page so you can read the difference between the two. Too lazy to type 20 pages on it.

http://www2.pacific.edu/sis/culture/pub/Context_Cultures_High_and_Lo.htm


Thanks for the link. It was informative.
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Wow, the over generalizations in this thread. It's like me saying that all western men sport at least an 8 inch sized penis and all Asian men have penis envy because of it. I know plenty of men that do not fit these assumptions.

Western women are not all drama queens. Nor do we try to be the dominant one in the relationship. I've met a lot of good digging Asian ladies who expect their husband to work until he dies to support their obsession for Louis Vuitton purses. It goes both ways.

I am a western, while women. I earn more money than most men, so I don't want or need "half" of whatever a man makes. I have never once expected any man to pay for dinner. I have no problem paying for dinner, and no, we don't need to dine at $100/person restaurants...Five Guys is perfectly fine with me. i have never expected a man to hold the door open. I hate being the dominant one in a relationship, especially in the bedroom. I love straight doujinshi. I like to stay home and cook. I enjoy making jam. I hate drama queens and women who spend $$$ on designer purses. I don't like most romance films and would prefer to watch a comedy or war/action film.
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Akage-chan wrote:

Wow, the over generalizations in this thread. It's like me saying that all western men sport at least an 8 inch sized penis and all Asian men have penis envy because of it. I know plenty of men that do not fit these assumptions.

Western women are not all drama queens. Nor do we try to be the dominant one in the relationship. I've met a lot of good digging Asian ladies who expect their husband to work until he dies to support their obsession for Louis Vuitton purses. It goes both ways.

I am a western, while women. I earn more money than most men, so I don't want or need "half" of whatever a man makes. I have never once expected any man to pay for dinner. I have no problem paying for dinner, and no, we don't need to dine at $100/person restaurants...Five Guys is perfectly fine with me. i have never expected a man to hold the door open. I hate being the dominant one in a relationship, especially in the bedroom. I love straight doujinshi. I like to stay home and cook. I enjoy making jam. I hate drama queens and women who spend $$$ on designer purses. I don't like most romance films and would prefer to watch a comedy or war/action film.


I didn't say "all of them." I said, "some of them."

Also, the link I posted was of a stand up comedy routine. That was meant to be funny. I don't seriously believe that the content of the routine was meant to be taken seriously. Also, the attitudes of the women depicted in that comedy routine, while indicative of some women, does not mean that all women are like that. I don't believe that all women are that way at all, only the ones called "gold diggers" are like that.

I made no generalizations.

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Posted 12/9/16
Chinese women vs Western Women = whats the difference when I love them both? haha
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