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Posted 12/16/16 , edited 12/17/16
I think the one who invites to the date should be prepared to pay for both, and then the invited should, out of courtesy, offer or better, insist, to pay for half. I feel like that's just the most polite and courteous thing for both to do,
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Posted 12/16/16

Ny0 wrote:




The one that asked and planned for it.


^ This
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Posted 12/16/16
The guy....in fact I always pay because I want to and because it only feels right...
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Posted 12/17/16
The one who did the inviting should pay for the one being invited out.
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Posted 12/17/16

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The one who loses at rock paper and scissors


So Japanese style, then?

Nah, I've always been the one to pay on the first date. Maybe it's an antiquated logic but I'm usually the one asking someone out - which means the onus of responsibility is on me. But that's not to say that I wouldn't allow a female to pay or split the check, just not something that concerns me either way, if they want to contribute, financially, to the first date - so be it.
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Posted 12/17/16
The women should pay first since chivalry is dead and feminism is on the rise or how about each person just pay for their own meal food for thought
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Posted 12/17/16
Get creative and find a way to make the date free for both of you. A beautiful view and some conversation w/ no interruption can go a long way.
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Posted 12/17/16 , edited 12/17/16
Half n half as it would be sexist to pay for a women. Unless shes a stunning PYT out of your leauge and younger than you. Then the man should pay, it would be worth it.


nanikore2 wrote:

The one who loses at rock paper and scissors


That could work!
Posted 12/17/16
Either pay for your own meal, or do half and half.
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Posted 12/17/16
Well you could save money by NOT dating, so that'd be a better option.
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Posted 12/17/16

ninjitsuko wrote:


nanikore2 wrote:

The one who loses at rock paper and scissors


So Japanese style, then?

Nah, I've always been the one to pay on the first date. Maybe it's an antiquated logic but I'm usually the one asking someone out - which means the onus of responsibility is on me. But that's not to say that I wouldn't allow a female to pay or split the check, just not something that concerns me either way, if they want to contribute, financially, to the first date - so be it.


Yeah I was kidding. The guy should pay. C'mon, don't be a cheapo, guys...
Posted 12/17/16
I'd do half and half.
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Posted 12/17/16
I'd pay, just feels more right, a man should treat a lady
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Posted 12/17/16
Why of course Woman should be paying my meal! After all I am Marcus Octavius :p j/k

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