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Should I ask the girl at the cell phone booth out?
Posted 12/24/16

fredreload wrote:

Right, if there's one thing I've learned is to confess to the girl in person and make sure they don't have an escape route


Ahhh no. If you get shot down move on. If a girl doesn't like you, being annoying, aggressive, or stalking is not going to change things.
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Posted 12/24/16

Xxanthar wrote:


fredreload wrote:

Right, if there's one thing I've learned is to confess to the girl in person and make sure they don't have an escape route


Ahhh no. If you get shot down move on. If a girl doesn't like you, being annoying, aggressive, or stalking is not going to change things.


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Posted 12/24/16

kevz_210 wrote:


Xxanthar wrote:


fredreload wrote:

Right, if there's one thing I've learned is to confess to the girl in person and make sure they don't have an escape route


Ahhh no. If you get shot down move on. If a girl doesn't like you, being annoying, aggressive, or stalking is not going to change things.




Ahhh, no she didn't say she didn't like, nor did she respond, so I am just waiting for the right time to ask her out I suppose
Posted 12/26/16 , edited 12/26/16

fredreload wrote:


Ahhh, no she didn't say she didn't like, nor did she respond, so I am just waiting for the right time to ask her out I suppose


Maybe start off by asking her to coffee or lunch in the mall's food court during her break.
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Posted 12/26/16

Xxanthar wrote:


fredreload wrote:


Ahhh, no she didn't say she didn't like, nor did she respond, so I am just waiting for the right time to ask her out I suppose


Maybe start off by asking her to coffee or lunch in the mall's food court during her break.


Sigh, she should at least respond to my message though. If she does not even respond to that, it is unlikely for her to appear
Posted 12/26/16
Don't ask women out in a text message or on social media. Ask them in person and if they say no, move on. Sending hundreds of messages and letters will just creep most women out.
Posted 12/26/16

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fredreload wrote:

I have a long history of failing and going over the same girl like terminator 2 T-1000 until they seriously block me away. So far I am blocked/deleted by 4 girls that I asked out. Being an engineer in school puts the total number of girls that I know on FB to be about less then 2 digits. Now at this point I am a bit overweight 220lb, and I got lingering feeling for this other girl which I met on Facebook and have sent her over 300 letters with no reply. I think she reads them because she posts happy blogs and she might have feelings for me but she never responds to me. I'm not sure if she is shy, has a boyfriend now, or just doesn't like me. I also told her that I would meet up with her next year without respond, again. Should I be faithful about it? I could use some help making this decision. With this in mind, I am not sure if I should ask out the very good looking cell phone sales girl I met next to my work place the other day. She's just next to my work place, but well I don't want this to turn into a big mess, which it happens to happen a lot around me, what should I do?


Well I can relate to the first part of your story, I gained a bunch of weight in engineering school since well you know how it is with the sleep deprivation and lack of social life/sunlight and whatnot. I don't know how much longer you got in school, but you have to start doing something about that. I started doing MMA classes, weightlifting and running as soon as I escaped undergrad and had a moment to breathe again,Whether or not it is because the world is shallow or whatever, the reality is that is going to hold you back big time.

You send her over 300 letters and she hasn't responded?! What are you doing? Seriously, look if a girl hasn't responded in you after all of that either: A) she is not interested in you (most likely) or B.) if your hunches are right (with I doubt) you don't want to date someone like that anyway, they'd be a waste of time and energy. Honestly, the reason for her behavior is entirely irrelevant, if she hasn't responded to you then ditch her, move on, enjoy life.

With the girl at the cell phone place, sure go for it, but if she shoots you down back off before you start digging your reputation into a ditch too big to escape from.

Ugh I hate to admit it, but OP reminds me of a younger version of myself, but if I were a few stages even further down the desperation river.
I'm rooting for you and all, but please read the advice on the threads you are posting, people have been posting some pretty good recommendations and it seems to me it is only a matter of time this obsessive behavior is going to blow up in your face and I'd hate to see that.


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I think OP is either really unaware, or trolling.




For his sake I hope it's the latter of the two.

Ya, I don't get this island, even on OkCupid I sent out close to 200 letters to 200 girls and still no respond. But again I'm quite picky at that, I choose girls that is above average looking. These days it's really hard to find good looking girls, they are either on the television shows or become models. I mean if you are a good looking girl, chance is you can find a pretty decent job. Although it's quite hard to find these girls, they are like myths. If you find someone with a good looking girl you'd be like, damn that lucky bastard. With that said, I'm still alone this Christmas and I came to the conclusion that the girl not choosing me because I'm overweight and or ugly. It's either I'm overweight or something wrong with this island. Hopefully I'll end up somewhere like Nagasarete Airantou


P.S The cell phone booth girl only appears every Christmas I think , they should get an NPC


OkCupid? See there is your problem. Most people on there are fake accounts to take advantage of rich guys or some other nasty shit. Rule number one of dating online. Send one message to all girls you like and the first to respond give her a chance. Otherwise you be there for a long ass time.
Posted 12/26/16

Xxanthar wrote:


fredreload wrote:

Right, if there's one thing I've learned is to confess to the girl in person and make sure they don't have an escape route


Ahhh no. If you get shot down move on. If a girl doesn't like you, being annoying, aggressive, or stalking is not going to change things.


I think he worded it wrong. I think he meant to say not giving the person a chance to runaway from giving you answer.

But in all honestly unless that girl has something other girls don't. Just stop OP, she too much of a coward to say anything to your face.
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Posted 12/26/16

TwinBlast wrote:


Xxanthar wrote:


fredreload wrote:

Right, if there's one thing I've learned is to confess to the girl in person and make sure they don't have an escape route


Ahhh no. If you get shot down move on. If a girl doesn't like you, being annoying, aggressive, or stalking is not going to change things.


I think he worded it wrong. I think he meant to say not giving the person a chance to runaway from giving you answer.

But in all honestly unless that girl has something other girls don't. Just stop OP, she too much of a coward to say anything to your face.


Na, I am too much of a coward to ever confess to a girl in person face to face.
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