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Posted 12/20/16 , edited 12/20/16
Do they care but they feel like they have to "settle"? Since you know, guys like sex a lot?
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guys sex a lot what

i havent touched a girl

edit : by touch i mean in a sexual manner duh
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Posted 12/20/16
best believe it.
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Im 21 and have had a handful of sex partners. All 3 of my ex girlfriends have cared and it left an impact on me. Thats why I try to keep my amount sex partners on the low side and will never ever hire a prostitute because I care about what my future girlfriends will think of me.
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1. Not all men like sex a lot. There are men who are respectful and can tame their sexual urges.

2. There are many women who obsess over a man's sexual history to see if there were women that he had sexual activities with, that are "prettier," or "better looking" than she is. And if they feel like they have to settle...they shouldn't. No woman should feel like they have to settle, ever.

3. I don't care about my looks, so there's no reason why I should have to know whether or not there was a girl prettier than me. And I don't want to prod a man for his sexual history. If he feels comfortable or feels like he should explain his history to me, then I'll listen. And not once have I settled.

**Sorry if this seems harsh or rude. It wasn't meant in that way.**
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No, they shouldn't care. That's controlling.
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You are being a little too vague.

What do you mean by "like?"

Like do girls not like their guy friends to be "well-laid?"

Or do they not want to have sex with a guy who is "well-laid?"

Or do they not want to be in a serious relationship with a guy who is "well-laid?"

I think the term "well-laid" is funny.

In my experience, most girls don't really care in all three situations. I do live in California though, people are a little more open here than the rest of the US.

Btw, girls probably like sex just as much if not more than men. It's just taboo for them to talk about it as openly as men do
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They care. i have joined dating sites and all the women wanted to know how many former partenrs i had had. I think more so to avoid "losers" that hadn't hand many more so than "scum bags" that had had plenty.
Posted 12/20/16
Well, yeah. It gives clues on whether or not someone is promiscuous, has commitment issues, is some kind of sexual deviant, etc... Plus, some of us would like to know if lovers, you know, slept with our sisters, or something. Pretty much the same things a guy may be thankful to know about his girlfriend's sex life.
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Posted 12/20/16
I was asked for my resume, once...
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Posted 12/20/16
At the very least they care about whether you have STDs or not.
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Posted 12/20/16
I don't have one
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to me the only aspect of a persons sexual history really be bothered by is if they have a STI or history of sleeping around behind their partner's back.
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Posted 12/20/16
The only time I've ever seen a girl be especially uncomfortable about the sexual history of the guy she's dating was when my sister was worried about her bisexual boyfriend's first time being with a guy.

Ultimately it just comes down to whether or not you like a person enough to get over what you consider to be an issue, if you view this as an issue to begin with.
Posted 12/20/16
in my experience, its not numbers per se, but mainly things like no prostitutes and STDs that people care about.
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