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Read, and ponder over poetry, like:

What The Heart Of The Young Man Said To The Psalmist.

Tell me not, in mournful numbers,
Life is but an empty dream!
For the soul is dead that slumbers,
And things are not what they seem.

Life is real! Life is earnest!
And the grave is not its goal;
Dust thou art, to dust returnest,
Was not spoken of the soul.

Not enjoyment, and not sorrow,
Is our destined end or way;
But to act, that each to-morrow
Find us farther than to-day.

Art is long, and Time is fleeting,
And our hearts, though stout and brave,
Still, like muffled drums, are beating
Funeral marches to the grave.

In the world’s broad field of battle,
In the bivouac of Life,
Be not like dumb, driven cattle!
Be a hero in the strife!

Trust no Future, howe’er pleasant!
Let the dead Past bury its dead!
Act,— act in the living Present!
Heart within, and God o’erhead!

Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
Footprints on the sands of time;

Footprints, that perhaps another,
Sailing o’er life’s solemn main,
A forlorn and shipwrecked brother,
Seeing, shall take heart again.

Let us, then, be up and doing,
With a heart for any fate;
Still achieving, still pursuing,
Learn to labor and to wait.
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May you find as much happiness with each other as I do on my own.
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Posted 12/22/16

Mrcreepday wrote:

So, how do you guys and girls manage to survive the intense loneliness whether be that you have no friends or looking for a partner kind of loneliness?

If you are not lonely or been lonely before, don't even bother posting, haha.


Why wouldn't you want advice from someone who's been lonely before? Wouldn't that be the best source?
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GenericMochi wrote:


Body pillows


Hey its Rem, that makes it totally ok.

#teamrem2016
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zangeif123 wrote:

Why wouldn't you want advice from someone who's been lonely before? Wouldn't that be the best source?


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Vocaloid, anime and videogames. Thats about all I need to keep myself happy for awhile
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Ranwolf wrote:

I have a physically demanding lifestyle, works far better then anything else I've tried. Of course being slightly of the misanthrope bent helps greatly. As I feel no real desire for the company of others, and aside from my fellow soldiers I don't hold a great deal of respect for the vast majority of the six and half billion people out there.

That being said the only real way to cope with solitude is to have some so engaging and that occupies so much of your time that you end failing to notice the solitude. And for me when my own thoughts become too much I tend to escape to the wildness of B.C. There are parts of this province that it takes days or even weeks to get to the nearest bit of civilisation on foot. And I just roam the forests mediating on the here and now and why I think they are worthwhile. I drink a little mountain stream water and live off solely what my skills as a hunter and gatherer can gain me.


That was awesome. I'm preparing for backpacking, looking to enjoy what's left of the winter and early spring.
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I'm pretty much regurgitating what others have already said, but I found it is very effective to develop a hobby. But, don't just simply have a hobby, develop your hobby! It's nice to have something you can be proud of! Plus, it may give you the chance to meet people with similar hobbies.

If all else fails, however, you can always follow the advice of our lord and savior "jesusisfriend" and get yourself a warm and fuzzy critter to fill the empty void lol.
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I have a cat. Too much love there. Devote too much time at work. Then again I also have friends to hang out with when I want to. Also go out on a lot of trips. It's kind of nice to not have anyone holding you back.
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To quote someone else's advice, Try to be the best you can be. You can always get a girlfriend, no matter who you are bud.
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Masturbate
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Lots of alcohol and jazz music.
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Posted 12/23/16

zangeif123 wrote:


Mrcreepday wrote:

So, how do you guys and girls manage to survive the intense loneliness whether be that you have no friends or looking for a partner kind of loneliness?

If you are not lonely or been lonely before, don't even bother posting, haha.


Why wouldn't you want advice from someone who's been lonely before? Wouldn't that be the best source?


Oh yeah, I mistyped. Sorry about that.
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act hyper for no reason !!!!!!
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Books
Hobbies

They make your life so much better! set your mind on something you love and not on how lonely you are.

Also, pets!

They're the best companions.
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