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20 / F / Germany
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Posted 1/12/17
I don't think so. I am willing to hear them out and see if we can continue to be friends, but the damage has been done. That is just how relationships work. I would be incapable of trusting them with my life again.
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Posted 1/12/17
naaaaaaaaaah
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33 / F / US
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Posted 1/12/17
No assurance that they would not cheat again. Never would be the best answer!
Posted 1/12/17
For me to reconnect with a cheater, there'd have be some incredible circumstances.
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28 / F / SC
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Posted 1/12/17
no

unless they rich

then they can sleep around with whoever long as i get their money
Posted 1/12/17
It'd be hard to forgive them, let alone take them back.
I wont say it's impossible but it's extremely unlikely.
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Posted 1/12/17
I believe in second chance.
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27 / F / hell's grave
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Posted 1/13/17
No. They do it once most likely the will do it again, especially if you ever take them back. That just gives them the satisfaction that youll take them back if they ever do it again. I don't believe in second chances in situations like these.
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28 / M / UK, Chester
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Posted 1/14/17
Depends on your definition of cheating, here are some of the definitions I've heard of:

- Sleeping with someone else
- Kissing someone else,
- Flirting with someone else
- Just talking with someone

Some of them may seem extreme, but the people who claim them to be cheating are properly a little extreme themselves.

Also some come down to context

Sleeping - No context can change it
Kissing - At a bachelor / bachelorlette party and playing silly games (I think could be forgiven)
Flirting - I don't see as cheating for the most part, but if it's out right eye banging while flirting with on expecially people like ex-gf/bf hard to forgive
Just talking - Doesn't need forgiving, but some crazy people out there that'll see it as cheating
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28 / M / Houston
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Posted 1/15/17
Had this issue with long distance. Gonna say never trust is gone.
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20 / F / the united states
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Posted 1/16/17
nope
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Posted 1/16/17
Unless there was a very good explanation for what happened or I was feeling particularly forgiving at that moment that would be it. Look all you want but don't touch isn't that hard a standard to meet, for Heaven's sake.
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24 / F / USA
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Posted 1/16/17
Never. When there's no trust it's hard to build a relationship up again. I'm also not a very forgiving person
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25 / F / California
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Posted 1/16/17 , edited 1/17/17
I've never been cheated on by anyone before (I hope I won't ever experience it...), but I will have to say Never, I would never take back a cheater. Just like the previous post said that when the trust is gone it is too hard to build up a relationship again. Once someone betrays my trust it is almost impossible for me to trust them ever again.
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21 / M / In a Fantasy
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Posted 1/16/17
Never. If they wanted to be with someone else then they should break up first
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