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Something I'll never understand: Why the hell do people cheat?

Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever been the cheater? If you cheated, why did you do it?

I feel like finding a faithful partner isn't possible anymore these days.
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Possible yes, likely..~shrug~
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It's unfair to generalize.
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They get some kind of perverse pleasure from doing something they shouldn't be doing, I'd wager. I'm pretty confident I've never been cheated on. And I've never cheated on anyone either.
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I have never cheated on anyone and if anyone cheated on me they were really good at covering covering their tracks because as far as I know that never happened.

I don't think its that hard to find faithful people either. I'm very sorry if you had a relationship end like that recently but I think it depends on the kinds of people you associate yourself with.
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Sadly, I don't think there's just one answer ...

I had a GF who cheated on me due to meeting a guy she told me she thought was the one. She was being honest, I'm sure.

I had another GF who cheated on me because she said even though everything was going great between us it was going too great. She said if she kept dating me she was afraid we's end up married and settling down. She said she was too young for both. I have no doubt she was being entirely honest.

I have a cousin who cheats on all her BFs. She says its due to seeing how much she can get away with. I believe her.

Myself, I've never cheated and I never will. It makes no sense to me. If it isn't working out, end it. If it is, embrace it.

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I love cheating on my tests...
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Sorry wasn't trying to generalize, just asking why people that cheat do what they do.

That could be it. That's still messed up because the person they apparently love is getting hurt. Maybe it is because they don't really love them so they do not care. &You are one of the few faithful that exist.

I don't know, I've lost a lot of faith in people in general. When I was in middle school I discovered that my dad has been cheating on my mom for years, and we know he still is. What can a little girl hope to expect from boyfriends when not even her own dad is faithful? Then my first boyfriend ever of 3 years does it to me :/ Several times. You forgive because you love them, and you think they love you. But it is foolish to think anyone would change. It is absolutely heart shattering and has changed my innocent view of the world completely.

I'm sorry all that has happened to you I hope you find/have found the honest and loving person that you deserve. And wow your cousin really sucks, what kind of a person is that? It's good to see despite everything you remain an honest person yourself. Seeing the faithful people replying here gives me a little hope.
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well, because they're scumbags
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I'm sorry all that has happened to you I hope you find/have found the honest and loving person that you deserve. And wow your cousin really sucks, what kind of a person is that? It's good to see despite everything you remain an honest person yourself. Seeing the faithful people replying here gives me a little hope.


Nothing to be sorry about. I'm involved with someone who I know will never cheat on me due to her experiencing the same in the past and being disgusted by people who do it. While there are many bad ones out there you have to put up with in your search it's the one at the end of the search that truly matters.


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It seems to me that alot of people cheat when they need an excuse to break up cause they've felt that the thing that made the relationship worthwhile to them is no longer present, whether that be a conscious or subconscious choice.
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I've never cheated yet get accused of cheating all the time and it's really annoying.
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It was in answer to this VV

kiraralove wrote:

I feel like finding a faithful partner isn't possible anymore these days.


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I admit, I have cheated on my pillow before!
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Posted 2/3/17

kiraralove wrote:

Something I'll never understand: Why the hell do people cheat?

Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever been the cheater? If you cheated, why did you do it?

I feel like finding a faithful partner isn't possible anymore these days.


Kiraralove, my love! I'll never cheat on you! You're the only imouto I need!
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