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Not sure but for some people they are looking for a good time.
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Have I been cheated on? Yes.

Do I care? Not really. Its their lifestyle not mine.

Why do people do it? The excitement, a lack of something in a relationship, or just to spite someone. There are many more reasons too.
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kiraralove wrote:

That could be it. That's still messed up because the person they apparently love is getting hurt. Maybe it is because they don't really love them so they do not care. &You are one of the few faithful that exist.


I guess you could say it makes me faithful, but it doesn't seem that way to me. I am very naturally disinclined to engage in activities that lead to romance so I would have to venture rather far outside my comfort zone to find myself cheating on someone. While I do tend to care whether the person I'm with could be hurt by my actions, I don't feel I have to force myself to avoid cheating out of a sense of loyalty to my partner. Though I'd like to think I would still choose not to cheat even if I were directly presented with a very tempting ultimatum, as long as it remains in the realm of my imagination, it feels more like a desire to remain rational than it does a moral conviction against cheating.
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I would guess someone would cheat because they had different expectations on the relationship boundaries, they felt they were missing something in their current relationship, or they just enjoy the thrill of breaking a rule or just because they feel they can.
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I have been cheated on. Her reason? She was getting bored of me. I'll admit it hurt a lot. We were together for almost 2 years, and then she decided to do that. Shortly afterward, we broke up of course.

Now, I've never cheated on anyone. I've been accused of it, but it's not something I would do. I know how it feels and I would never want anyone to feel the way I did.
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3 reasons why.

1, cheap thrill. second worst.
2, overwelming desire to win at all costs. Easly the worst, but much more rare.
3, don't want to deal with grinding.
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kiraralove wrote:

Something I'll never understand: Why the hell do people cheat?

Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever been the cheater? If you cheated, why did you do it?

I feel like finding a faithful partner isn't possible anymore these days.


It's not lol.
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Posted 2/3/17

kiraralove wrote:

Something I'll never understand: Why the hell do people cheat?

Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever been the cheater? If you cheated, why did you do it?

I feel like finding a faithful partner isn't possible anymore these days.


Cheated on 6 times.

I hate cheaters.
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llunga wrote:


kiraralove wrote:

Something I'll never understand: Why the hell do people cheat?

Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever been the cheater? If you cheated, why did you do it?

I feel like finding a faithful partner isn't possible anymore these days.


It's not lol.


but it is possible.
Posted 2/3/17 , edited 2/3/17

kiraralove wrote:

Sorry wasn't trying to generalize, just asking why people that cheat do what they do.


Even so, I can only speculate.
If you're looking for answers about someone's behavior in particular, I'm sure my own experience with being cheated on will be it's own case and it's one I don't quite understand.
If you want renewed faith in humanity look at yourself. Have you cheated? I'm guessing "no".
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gz on the sex!
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llunga wrote:


kiraralove wrote:

Something I'll never understand: Why the hell do people cheat?

Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever been the cheater? If you cheated, why did you do it?

I feel like finding a faithful partner isn't possible anymore these days.


It's not lol.


but it is possible.


For some people not in this lifetime.
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llunga wrote:


Ryulightorb wrote:


llunga wrote:


kiraralove wrote:

Something I'll never understand: Why the hell do people cheat?

Have you ever been cheated on? Have you ever been the cheater? If you cheated, why did you do it?

I feel like finding a faithful partner isn't possible anymore these days.


It's not lol.


but it is possible.


For some people not in this lifetime.


sure for some unlucky ones
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Hopefully the search goes well. I wish you happiness with your partner.

Ah, okay. Yeah it does seem like it is impossible.
PV! I believe you! ♥ Where my ring tho?

Hmm I see. Well whatever the reason, it still means that you are an honest person. And that is something not many people are.

Sorry that happened to you. Yeah I guess the reason varies to the situation :/ I read online recently an article though that said it eventually all boils down to one thing: Ego.

Wow, that's horrible. I'm sorry that happened to you
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