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Posted 2/11/17 , edited 2/11/17

MysteryMiss wrote:

I got more important things going on then to concern myself if Japan is having sex!


Are you having sex?
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I guess its time for me to move to Japan and make all of the ladies happy! I need many Sons and daughters to help me rule the world! :D

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Posted 2/11/17 , edited 2/11/17

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I'm not moving to japan. And...I'm not that desperate yet. I have not even tried in my own country so...



Ah, well if you "have standards" (and not simply a **** magnet, like most males), u will be. American women are so, "disappointing"...





People just have different needs, imo.

I.e, people who have high-level sexual tendencies have a need that needs to be satiated more frequently. There's nothing wrong with being a f*ck magnet though, Make love, not war (That was a very literal interpretation) but yeah, what's the harm? As far as birth rate goes, it is a bit low in Japan, as of lately even more so if i'm not mistaken.
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Think about every anime you've seen in which the main character tries to do well in school. They have to study constantly, and there is so much pressure to succeed. Pretend that was you, multiply it by every day of your damn life, then pretend you land a demanding job. You wouldn't have the time or energy for sex either. Speaking from the point of view of a 30 year old woman (probably one of like 15 total on this site), we need to be in the right mindset, and if you're super stressed out, it's hard to let go.

Kinda true for a fair number of men by my age too. My body isn't exactly raring to go 24/7 anymore like it was at sixteen. (Thank God. )

But I agree, this issue almost certainly stems from Japan's ongoing cultural difficulties with balancing work and life. Hard to have a relationship, let alone one with a healthy sex life, if you almost never see your spouse.

I feel married to my job as it is. You really couldn't pay me enough to live in Japan.
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'Herbivores that is what most males in Japan are known as, because they sit around grazing and have no male instincts. (they are afraid of the A grade V.)
because you have met most men in Japan.... that are real?

Look at all the pandas that are not having sex, it must be because male pandas don't have male instinct!
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Darkphoenix3450 wrote:

'Herbivores that is what most males in Japan are known as, because they sit around grazing and have no male instincts. (they are afraid of the A grade V.)



So what you do know not everyone enjoys or wants sex or needs it.
I think it's a waste of time many Japanese people I have met also do.

People are different
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Posted 2/11/17 , edited 2/11/17

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I WILL GO TO JAPAN AND PLEZ THEY WOMEN FOR THEM


BTW, it is females that are ****blocking, that's why 0 sex. GL if ur a gaijin (foreigner).


Actually, you'd be surprised. In my second week in Japan at University, one of my female classmates that I got to know asked to visit my hotel room, if you get my meaning. Japanese girls can be very upfront about pursuing relationships, and I was approached a number of times by girls around my age randomly on the streets. I think some Japanese girls may find Western foreigners more romantic and confident in comparison, which they might find more attractive compared to the herbivore males in Japan right now. That said, and I don't mean to sound racist, but truthfully Japanese people are maybe a bit particular about who they would consider hooking up with, and from what I've seen it's mostly White guys that are popular. So other ethnicities/races/etc., might hit that uchi/soto wall a little harder in comparison.
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Posted 2/11/17 , edited 2/11/17

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And Japanese men are....well, moving the topic along:

Seriously, half the anime tropes we have are because Japanese males are taught to be afraid of girls from early school age.
Activities keep the boys and girls "responsibly" separated, which means teen boys grow up not knowing how to talk comfortably to girls and teen girls grow up not knowing how to comfortably talk to girls...So they can grow up to be responsible adults in a society where even holding hands gets you dirty looks on the street.

In the meantime, however, they've developed certain other pop-cultural tropes, like the "Tsundere" idea that any girl you think is attractive will drag you around on a dog leash for her own amusement, the "Harem" or "Marriage Contract", that hopefully some ancient loophole will stick you in close proximity of girls without having to do the hard work--unless you're lucky to have a devotedly enamored little sister who knows you already--or the idea that if you're a Hikkikomori, sleeping with your 2-D Waifu pillow, it's probably because some girl rejected you in school when she found out about your hobbies.

So it's all healthy.


I didn't mind being dragged around on a leash by my Japanese fiancee , mind you that was both our kink as it were. You do have a point though about Japanese men lacking confidence in themselves. I am no social scientist but considering the undue attention Japanese women pay foreign men in their country must say a lot about the state of Japanese men.

Frankly though I blame the Americans, they effectively neutered a warrior based society by demanding they heel and get rid of everything that made them a warrior society at the end of World War 2.
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can confirm am japanese and am not having sex
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Posted 2/11/17 , edited 2/11/17

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This is not a bad thing an advanced civilisation will stop reproducing as fast.
ideally the birth rate should match the death rate.


And what happens when wars, diseases, or famine break out. A birth rate that was only matching the death rate and only under ideal conditions will plummet in that case. And that can lead to the death of an entire population. Like it or not mate the accomplishments of the human race that have been made thus far are entirely owed to the fact it's population is large. A population of 7 billion and half will produce a billion times the savants then a population much lower in number.
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Posted 2/11/17 , edited 2/13/17

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Ryulightorb wrote:

This is not a bad thing an advanced civilisation will stop reproducing as fast.
ideally the birth rate should match the death rate.


And what happens when wars, diseases, or famine break out. A birth rate that was only matching the death rate and only under ideal conditions will plummet in that case. And that can lead to the death of an entire population. Like it or not mate the accomplishments of the human race that have been made thus far are entirely owed to the fact it's population is large. A population of 7 billion and half will produce a billion times the savants then a population much lower in number.


Reproduction speeds up to fill that void in most cases.

Still a lowered population has its positives
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Reproduction speeds up to fill that void in most cases.

Still a lowered population has its positives


That's logical fallacy if ever I have seen one. You're assuming enough people within the fertile range of their lives will survive whatever catastrophe caused the depopulation of a given population. And that's not to mention the fact without large enough breeding population inbreeding is all but inevitable. Furthermore given the entirety of the human race already has a inbreeding coefficient of between 3 to 6 percent with a population of 7 and half billion suddenly slashing the population drastically will only make that worse.

A lower population is also paying less taxes thus a government will have a harder time providing the social services that make advanced civilisation possible. Things like guaranteed education , healthcare, bracketed income taxation, food banks, homeless shelters, police and military forces, etc.

So tell me mate what if any advantage a drastically lowered population holds over a larger one?
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Ryulightorb wrote:

Reproduction speeds up to fill that void in most cases.

Still a lowered population has its positives


That's logical fallacy if ever I have seen one. You're assuming enough people within the fertile range of their lives will survive whatever catastrophe caused the depopulation of a given population. And that's not to mention the fact without large enough breeding population inbreeding is all but inevitable. Furthermore given the entirety of the human race already has a inbreeding coefficient of between 3 to 6 percent with a population of 7 and half billion suddenly slashing the population drastically will only make that worse.

A lower population is also paying less taxes thus a government will have a harder time providing the social services that make advanced civilisation possible. Things like guaranteed education , healthcare, bracketed income taxation, food banks, homeless shelters, police and military forces, etc.

So tell me mate what if any advantage a drastically lowered population holds over a larger one?


A drastically lowered population uses less resources and is better for the planet and global warming and yes I'm assuming everyone won't die out due to disaster.

Japanese people not breeding isn't bad or the end of the world a succesful country will over time stop producing as many people you can't keep just reproducing more and more forever

Japan is fine
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Posted 2/11/17 , edited 2/11/17

Ryulightorb wrote:

A drastically lowered population uses less resources and is better for the planet and global warming and yes I'm assuming everyone won't die out due to disaster.

Japanese people not breeding isn't bad or the end of the world a succesful country will over time stop producing as many people you can't keep just reproducing more and more forever

Japan is fine


Mate you're not listening, I didn't assume the death rate would be a 100%, I am assuming they're might not be enough healthy people who can produce children in the case of some catastrophe. And given the historical accounts of populations suddenly suffering disasters that could be a very real concern. However it less of a concern if the starting population was high before the depopulation event happens.

And yeah mate the human race does have to keep producing offspring forever if we don't want to die out. It's kinda mandatory to keep existing as a species that. The earth is more then capable of sustaining it's current population, it's poor resource management that is creating the inequality you're associating ( falsely I might add) with overpopulation.

And Japan is far from fine, if it's birth rate keeps declining it is only a matter of time before they cease to exist as a ethnic division in the human race. And I don't know about you but a entire race willingly committing genocide upon themselves does not sit well with me.
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Posted 2/11/17 , edited 2/11/17
I thought I read something, somewhere, sometime ago about Japan wanting foreigners to come in and seduce their women.

Might have been a satire but I am fully willing to support the idea. I like Japan and would like to see it persist.
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