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Post Reply The feeling of being used.
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Posted 2/14/17
Yep. Feels like shit.

Posted 2/14/17
After you get done watching some pandering shit anime...... oh, man..... horrible.
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Posted 2/14/17 , edited 2/14/17
hmmm

Do I feel like I m being used?

I am married with two daughters

What do you think?
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Posted 2/14/17 , edited 3/2/17
If you can find a stupid person to take advantage of, do so. It's all they're good for in life anyway.
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Posted 2/14/17 , edited 2/14/17
Advertising often makes one feel "used", especially when it reaches weaselly extremes:

https://www.ispot.tv/ad/A0kS/truth-stop-profiling-schools
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Posted 2/14/17 , edited 2/14/17
I got used to it long ago when I started my first job. Anyone who tries that with me outside of a professional atmosphere can take a long walk off a short pier for all I care. They don't pay my bills.
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Posted 2/15/17
not that i can recall. Ah no i take that back. I usually catch on though before they get anywhere with it tho.
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Posted 2/15/17

PeripheralVisionary wrote:

I wished someone used me. You know, as a boy toy they do not care about. Please, I am lonely. I need love this Valentine's Day.


Trust me, don't wish for that. In the end you come out of it feeling down, dirty and hollow. It isn't worth it ... and in answer to Luna's OP, there you go.
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19 / F / 小鳥遊事務所
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Posted 2/15/17
Yep and it doesn't feel good. Sometimes I didn't even try and say no because I knew it would cause more conflict.
Posted 2/15/17
Ah yes I remember it, multiple times, usually didn't bother me till college. That one, stung a little. I was infatuated with her, I'm an idiot, shoulda seen it coming.
Posted 2/15/17
I can't say that I've felt that way before. Like another user said, I've felt like I was taken for granted, but not used.
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Shouldn't listen to people who look down on others because they see that they were used. There are a lot of ways others can use you and it doesn't always happen in the beginning. Saying that just because it happens to you does not mean you are ignorant or deserving of such treatment.

If you think someone is using you immediately terminate the relationship. I don't think being paranoid is going to help. Should have a a little faith in your friends and everyone is not like that. You will know who is what after getting to know them better.
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Posted 2/15/17
I felt used, but I also felt like I used them. So I guess if there's a bit of an equal trade it doesn't feel as bad as much.
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Posted 2/15/17
Been used. Was not pleasant. Didn't end pleasantly either.
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Here is an example. You hire somebody to do something for you; he does a very good job and he is very proud of his work, but you do nothing to thank him and treat his work as if it was nothing. You did not care about his effort he put into it, and he is insulted. Another example is going to an orphanage and donating toys to children, but the children just take them and throw them in a pile with the rest of their toys; the toys you bought meant nothing to them. In either case, you were taken for granted.

Here is another example. You see a loaf of bread on the table and you have the attitude of "so what?" and don't think anything special about it. However, your grandmother spent six hours to bake that loaf of bread and you treat the bread like any other ordinary bread you buy at the supermarket. Your grandmother would get very mad at you because you took her bread for granted.
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