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Would you rather ask somebody out or be asked out?
Posted 3/4/17
I would rather be asked out by someone that I would ask out.
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Posted 3/4/17
Neither. Human interpersonal relationships, especially those for the propitiation of cytogenesis, are baffling and full of pratfalls.
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Posted 3/4/17

gornotck wrote:

Neither. Human interpersonal relationships, especially those for the propitiation of cytogenesis, are baffling and full of pratfalls.


lol
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Posted 3/4/17
Would rather be asked out.

I just worry a lot when I have to plan the day. ...like hope she likes the activities I have planned, am I picking a good restaurant, hopefully I don't seem to boring, hopefully it doesn't seem like I'm trying to impress, etc...

Where if I'm asked out, I just go along with whatever.

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Posted 3/4/17
I'd rather be asked out. Like, it would be nice knowing that someone liked me, then I wouldn't have to worry about liking someone that doesn't have feelings toward me as well.
Posted 3/4/17

TheLandOfGiants wrote:

Holy crap. Am I seriously the only person who prefers asking the other person out? xD



Mr_Robot wrote:

I don't mind being asked out but when I meet someone that I'm genuinely interested in, I just ask them out.


Thank y'all two for being manly. *thumbsup*
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44 / M / Washington State
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Posted 3/4/17
I'd rather be asked out. It removes the possibility of rejection. (Like I'm ever getting a date. Yeah, right.)
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Posted 3/5/17
tbh, neither
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Posted 6/6/17
be asked out .

it feels good to be invited
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29 / F / Oklahoma
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Posted 6/6/17
Be asked out. In general I assume I'm a waste of space, so if I'm not asked out there's no chance I will do it myself.
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Posted 6/6/17
Being asked out is the easiest!You don't want to be rejected.
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30 / M / B.C, Canada
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Posted 6/6/17
I rather be doing the asking, though I won't lie being asked out wold be flattering.
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20 / M / Temple of Yaoiism
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Posted 6/6/17
I honestly dislike both.

If I get asked out it's always by women, and rejecting them because of their gender is pretty awkward to explain.

If I ask people out it would be a guessing game where I have a 4% chance they might like the same gender, let alone be attracted to me.

I suppose asking people out and being asked out is either for people who don't mind risks, or people with what deplorables call straight privilege.

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Posted 6/6/17
Every time I've gone out with someone it was me who asked first. I've been asked out once before by a friend of mine and I had to reject him, and another time another friend implied it but it was also implied that I wouldn't accept. I don't like getting asked out because so far it's been someone I'm not interested in and I feel really bad when I have to reject them esp if they pour their heart out like the first guy, or if I'm very aware that they liked me for an extended amount of time (years) like the second guy. It would be nice to be asked out for once by someone I do like though, I don't know how I would react I'm so used to being the one that takes the leap.
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Posted 6/7/17
both situations are kind of annoying as if you get asked out by someone you dislike or don't feel the same way about them it can be weird having to reject them. asking someone out risks getting rejected. I wouldn't mind being asked out by someone if I liked them however I would prefer it to be a mutual decision that comes up in conversation with a someone I know well. dating is already strange enough as it is so it makes less sense to date someone you barely know at all.
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